Aug. 31, 2025
Ep 130: Top Tips For Teachers To SMASH The New School Year!

September is upon us & the new school year has arrived (unless you're in a place that has already gone back...)
Here, we lay out our top tips from 20 years of experience teaching in primary schools that will help you smash September!
Sit back, relax, and let us know if we have missed anything out.
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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to another episode of TC Repeat.
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My name is Dylan.
And my name's Hayden.
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And it is September and we know
what September means, don't we,
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Hayden?
It's back to school.
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So we have got a podcast episode
today jam packed with our best
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tips on how to absolutely smash
the new year with your new.
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Class.
Well, that's the passionate
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intro done.
Let's dive in.
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Right.
Hey then between us we've got 19
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years experience teaching in the
primary school.
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Decade and single digit number
for you, is that?
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Yeah.
I wouldn't bother splitting up
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the math.
Well, I.
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Just I think it's relevant,
isn't it really?
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When you add up the number, it's
19. 2 digit #1 digit number
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we're experienced between us
some.
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Lots of experience.
Some more than others.
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But experience between us,
that's all that matters. 19 when
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you add up.
So I think we're well placed is
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what I'm trying to say here.
Equally well placed to talk
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about how to have the best
possible start to a new year.
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Because I remember every single
time in September when I started
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with my new class, I had the
best of intentions to hit the
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ground running and get the most
out of the kids as soon as I
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could and just get myself in a
really good place all.
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Right then, Dylan, So why don't
you jump in right now with your
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literal top tip?
What's the first thing that
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comes to mind?
I remember being told this
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because I was moved.
For context, I was moved to year
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three, worked in a Junior
School, moved to year 3 and
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anyone out there has worked in
the Junior School where they
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start in year 3.
It is just so common that
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behaviour, routines, etcetera
are way more important than ever
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because the kids simply don't
know your school.
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They'd had their own routine
somewhere else and they're
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coming into this brand new
school.
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And I remember going to year 3
and the head of year in year 3,
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she was amazing.
And she said, Dylan, just
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simplify it.
And this is stuck with me and
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it's something I do now.
Whatever you recommend, she said
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just simplify your expectations
and your rules.
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So we all know it's important to
have rules.
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We all can sit there and see
people saying in September,
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establish routines quickly,
etcetera.
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We know all that.
We know all that for our class.
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That's obviously important.
But her point was have fewer
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rules, but really strictly abide
by them and enforce them and be
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super, super stringent on you
all have to do this.
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And I thought, okay, yeah, I'll
give it a go.
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That makes sense.
And what it did was it allowed
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me to be super, super, super
clear that these are my two or
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three rules that we have all
agreed on are important.
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And you simply cannot break that
rule.
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And you are on it from day one.
So for example, one would be not
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to get out of your chair.
Yeah, yeah, such a good one.
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Isn't it because we're talking
about younger children here?
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This obviously won't necessarily
be necessary when you're in year
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6, but you can change it to
whatever.
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Oh, it is mate, it is.
I'll tell you that one now.
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But the teacher, it can be
malleable because the idea is
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simply just have two or three
rules that for you are so, so
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important to get from day one
because other stuff you
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obviously can enforce.
You can say it's important to
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do.
I'm not saying other rules don't
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exist, but these are the three
that you constantly do.
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And if someone breaks that rule,
you say to them, no, listen, we
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don't do that.
For year three.
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It was getting out your chair,
like I said, and it was putting
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your hand up to say something.
And it was as simple as that.
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Because from her experience,
having done year 3 for many
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years, those are the low level
things that happened
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consistently all the way from
the start to the first day.
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And it was just laying down that
rule.
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If we don't do that here, no
stop, no, we don't do that.
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What does the rule say?
And point to the rule on the
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board.
And it was really effective.
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And I've kept that all the way
through and I've done that
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whenever I've got a new class.
I've just decided on two or
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three things that I'll focus on
at that time.
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It doesn't mean nothing else is
important, but it means that
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this is our core focus.
And when we've nailed that, I'll
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swap the rule the, the new, the
OK, I'm going to bring a new
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rule in because we're so good
now.
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We know we have this hand I
don't have on the board.
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They need to remind you for 2
minutes.
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We've really established that.
Now, the next thing we're going
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to focus on now is you must do
this in your work or you must do
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that.
I think it's such a good tip
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because how many times before
you're doing this, and I know
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I've been a sucker for this
forever.
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How many times have you been
like, right here are all six of
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our rules or ten of our rules,
whatever your school does.
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And then you yourself can't
really keep on top of them.
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Like rules, like things just
slip because because you're
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doing 50 things all the time and
you just didn't notice that kid
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getting out of that chair and
they came and asked you a
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question and you just answered
it, right.
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But when it's like the one of
two rules that you're focusing
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on, you'll be way more hyper
aware of it.
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And so will the kids.
It will actually have an impact.
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Because I'll say again, when
you've had classes come up and
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you do notice some classes, you
can tell where teachers have
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absolutely hammered stuff like
this, whether it's like like you
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in, in year 3 and the other
teacher, because when they do
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get to year 6, it's so embedded
those particular rules, then you
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can focus on other things that
you said.
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So it does make a really good
impact on you in the time and
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also your partner, teachers and
fellow professionals will be
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thanking you I think in future
years.
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It's that, isn't it?
It's this idea of we say across
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everything that when we're
focusing on something, even if
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it's like professional
development like we did, we did,
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we did a podcast episode
recently about new teachers and
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how to learn.
And when they go and watch a
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different teacher teach, focus
on one thing, focus on
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behaviour, improve that.
And then once you've got that,
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move on to something else.
Because I feel like as a
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teacher, it can be so easy to
fall into that trap of thinking
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we have to fix everything
immediately and be perfect from
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day one.
It's not going to happen.
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OK, But like, you're absolutely
right.
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Your, your point you made, there
was, was exactly what happened,
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which was I would find myself
saying to the class, no, no, of
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course we don't get out of our
check.
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No, we don't shout out.
But then even if just one kid
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goes 42 and I go, yes, well
done.
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What am I doing?
At that point?
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I'm saying, OK, well, that I'm
rewarding this child for
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essentially breaking a rule.
And then someone else might
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think, oh, we did it.
I'll do it as well.
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What?
You just, you didn't tell him
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off when he got the answer
right.
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Why you telling me off?
So it just allowed me to be
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like, OK, look, the other stuff
that might slip, fine, but this
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won't for any of us.
And the kids bought into it.
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And you know what?
It really had an impact.
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I thought really quickly.
Yeah, definitely.
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It reminds me a bit of I did the
same.
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I did the same thing with
toilets, letting kids go to the
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toilet.
Obviously you let kids go to the
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toilet, but there's been
occasions where we're just about
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to sit down and say, oh, just
give it a minute, we'll start.
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We'll just let me just finish
literally my sentence rather
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than interrupting mid.
And then you can go and another
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kid might say, and you go, yeah,
yeah, off you go.
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And you think, Oh my God, you've
got to, you have to be
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consistent.
It's so bad to be inconsistent I
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think with things like toilets
and behaviour rules and all that
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sort of stuff.
So yeah, really good tip.
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Another one from me is a bit of
a smaller tip, just like a quick
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win.
I think at the start of the
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year, I, I implemented this as
quick as I could during my
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career, which is just learn the
kids names like ASAP.
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I, I think in my first year I
did it anyway because I was, you
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know, working every single day
of the summer.
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As we established in a previous
episode, I was just constantly
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working because I was scared of
starting the job.
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But I think in subsequent years
I did start to get a bit more
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relaxed and, and maybe it'd be a
week or two weeks before I'd
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finally learn everyone's names.
I don't think that was good
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practise because after that I
was like, no, it's obviously
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better for the kids sake and
just for your sake really to
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just know all the kids names.
And if you're like me and you
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find it quite hard to remember
that much, just remember.
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I'm amazed you're here today.
I just happened to be here.
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I was hoping there was going to
be some food lying around or
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something and you were like,
should we record?
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Do the podcast.
Oh.
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Yeah, very nice.
You've eaten all the whisper
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gold, so I guess I'll come up
here and do that.
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So yeah, why is it important
though?
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I think it's just for fostering
that bond with the kids.
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Like in the same way it's if you
work somewhere.
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Yeah.
If you worked somewhere and the
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head teacher didn't know your
name after we, you'd be a bit
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like, come on, like learn my
name is, is basic courtesy.
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You know what I mean?
So, but you can do things if
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you're, if you're just not very
good at remembering, make it a
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game.
What?
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What was the thing you did?
Was it something you did?
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You rhyme the name or something?
Yeah, like this, this was
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something as well that we I did
on transition day because you
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tend to meet your class most,
most places in the country in
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England will have a transition
day at the end of the previous
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year where you meet your, your
classmates, their teacher, and
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you meet the class.
And on that day we would
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establish like names.
And I'd say I'd, I'd make a
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joke.
I'd, I'd, I'd tell them I need
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to learn your name.
You need to learn one name,
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which is my name.
I need to learn 32.
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That's a lot, isn't it?
And we make a joke and it's
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funny.
So we just break the ice
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straight away because what I
wouldn't want is it to then be
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like, you know, half an hour in,
I don't know someone's name and
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I'm pretending like, oh, oh,
hello, you.
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I do know your name.
No awkward.
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The kids, they're kids.
Just be really honest with them
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and then make it fun.
And in that we did a little
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game, really simple one, where I
said to them, you're with your
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partner now or you're in your
table.
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You need to think of an
adjective that you can put with
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your name that makes an
alliterative sentence
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alliteration.
So for example, for Dylan, it
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might be like dynamic Dylan, or
for Hayden, it might be hairy
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Hayden.
Obviously not in your case,
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probably not.
But for the children would then
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have fun thinking of a word and
they talk about each other.
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And then it would help me kind
of anchor their name with a word
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and I'd find myself being able
to remember it more because
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instead of just thinking of
James, I'd be thinking of
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jumping James.
And instead of just thinking of
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Holly, I'd be thinking of happy
Holly.
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And it would like it would help
me to kind of embed that.
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And then the kid could call
themselves that.
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And in that lesson, what I had
with them for the first day, the
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rule was that I am promote.
I imposed is I had to say their
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full name.
Yeah, that was part of it.
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And I go, oh, you're the you're
the happy one, aren't you?
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And they're like, yeah.
And I'm like, OK, it's an H like
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I'd get a little bit.
Surprised.
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Why do you keep calling me
boring Billy?
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Well, you know, it's a
literation makeover, all right.
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Some of the kids did did choose
some adjectives.
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I was like, I actually can't use
those, so let's think of a
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different one because I cannot
have, no matter what the context
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is, the head teacher walk around
everything OK in here and I'm in
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the middle of saying boring
Billy or something like that.
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Has to be positive.
Yeah, well, that's a much nice
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way of doing it.
Like my 1 is a bit more boring,
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but I just get the kids to make
like a little name label as
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well.
So they have a bit of card, They
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fold it over and they design it
and it's quite cute.
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And they just put it on the
table facing me and I'm like,
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guys, and I'm like you, I make
the joke.
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I think I don't know all your
names yet.
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Takes me a bit of time.
So I don't like pointing.
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But if I'm pointing at you
saying boy, then I don't know
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your name yet, so maybe have
your card.
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I'll have all sorts of jokes.
Boy at the back, boy at the
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back.
Yes, you.
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I say I can't see your card.
So as I would as I would give
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you a name, you know, silly
things like that.
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But I do really, really make the
effort to learn them.
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Now in the middle of your
career, couldn't get by those
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kids.
Yeah, no, not those ones,
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absolutely not.
But I think I just think it's
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important.
Yeah, fostering that bond as
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early as you can by learning
their names.
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Very simple trick, but worth
doing.
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Big thing for me, moving on from
hapless Hayden and his
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inability.
You've been made for a long
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time.
Big one for me, the old one.
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From here we go every random
point for this podcast.
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You could have something not.
Random points, specifically when
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you're mid, like mid sentence,
right in a right in a moment
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you're about to say something
useful.
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Maybe we could have, if anyone's
listening to this, they could
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comment down below of what their
name would be.
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Yeah, yeah, we could do that,
right?
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Anyway, big one for me, and this
is not just a pedagogical tool,
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it's also a tool I think for
behaviour, for everything, which
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is to model, model, model,
model.
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Because I think my, my issue I
had earlier on my career was
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that I kind of assumed the kids
knew how to act.
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How many times you found
yourself as a teacher saying
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year 4, we're not in year 3
anymore?
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Yes.
We're not in down in Year 2.
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What's going on?
And it's like it's such an easy
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thing to say as if we've built
this idea in our head of what a
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year three child looks like and
what they can do and how they
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behave.
And, you know, just showing the
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children how you want them to
behave will make it more likely
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that they do that.
So you should model everything.
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And I'm talking about obviously
in lessons, you should be
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modelling the answers and the
working out and the way you want
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to do things and how you want
them to write, et cetera.
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But I'm talking about a separate
point here, like model your
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manners, model how you talk to
other people and how you say
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please and you don't just demand
things like I'm the teacher,
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give me respect.
No, model these things, be nice
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to the children, give them
leeway, say please and thank you
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and you know, lining up.
Practise it, practise lining up,
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don't just line up and then when
they don't do it probably the
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first time, excuse me, that's
not how we line up in it are.
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You the reception.
Yeah, just no, don't do that.
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Just say to them, Romney, it's
practise, obviously.
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Don't we have a minute
practising, Have a minute
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practising them going, you know,
handing out books, etcetera.
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I think my point here is don't
just assume they know how to do
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stuff.
Model it for them and then 234
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times down the line you start
going, we've done this, what are
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you doing you?
Can't exactly do it.
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Yeah, almost like modelling
expectations, like inconsistent.
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Like you said, it links with
only other points, but even with
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the I think of the lining up
thing, it's such a classic thing
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to top load that beginning of
the year, everyone will be like
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super harsh getting all the kids
to line up and you Fast forward
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to the end of the year.
How often has that slipped a bit
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and people aren't, you know,
holding the kids accountable as
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much anymore, You know, just
just being consistent modelling
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all the time.
This is the expectation and it
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does stay the same by the way,
across the year.
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You are however exposing because
I'm sat here thinking a
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compilation running through my
head of how many times.
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Obviously you tell kids not to
throw stuff in the classroom and
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I can just imagine me countless
time sat there with an empty
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glue be like trying to lob it
into the bin across the room
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thinking, oh this is absolutely
not modelling.
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Right kids, listen, it's really
important to eat healthfully
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That's why we don't have any
chocolate or anything like that
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at break time walks into your
break time eating a share bag of
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whispers or.
Something that was always
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whisper goals, isn't it?
How many whisper goals do you
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reckon we eat in our?
Too many, too many graceful next
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tip have a stash in your
cupboard.
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Have a snack stash.
They've made this tip up because
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actually it's really aborted.
Have a stash.
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Have a little secret stash where
you can just go to and you know
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you can just get that snack.
You just there.
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You think I just need something?
Maybe, Probably not.
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Like a gin.
Don't put a gin.
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Yeah, yeah, probably avoid the
alcohol, but bananas, apples,
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you know, that's what we.
Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, crisps, more
crisps and maybe a few more
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crisps.
Yeah, you are such a crisp fan.
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The amount of times I've gone
into Dylan's cupboard and
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there's been a multi pack of
crisps.
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Yep, empty, obviously, because,
you know, why put the wrapper in
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the bin when when you can leave
it in the cupboard and I'll be
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like, Oh yeah, she's been
cracking on with these.
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Have you?
Yeah, I bought them this
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morning.
No I sorry a whole multi pack.
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This is a gross
misrepresentation.
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Yeah, Because what would happen
is I would have bought them
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three days ago and I would have
eaten them three days ago, and
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the wrappers did this gross
misrepresentation.
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Something else we want to talk
about is doing jobs in bulk.
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We've said this a million times,
haven't we?
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And we're specifically talking
about here those mindless jobs
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that you just have to get done
that can be so much more
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efficient to do in bulk.
But you and I always should put
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off, put off, put off.
But really it we should get them
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done.
Yeah, there's the one that comes
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to mind, and it might be quite
specific to our school, but I'm
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sure if you're listening, you
can think of your version of
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this, right?
Is at our school, we have had
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reading certificates.
And it's one of those things
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where realistically, I do expect
every kid in my class to get to
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the first tier.
So we have like a bronze,
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silver, gold based on how much
they've read essentially.
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And it's like everyone's going
to get the bronze at some point
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this year.
But what is really annoying is
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they get the bronze and then I
have to print the certificate
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and write it because we back it
as well.
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If some of us do want to print
it on card or whatever, But it's
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just an annoying thing to do on
the go.
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Whereas I could just print 32
and if I want to back them, I
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can back 32 in one go.
Just do it in bulk.
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So the overall tip here is to
think in bulk.
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Is there a job that is worth the
time investment at the start
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because it will save you so much
time on going through the year
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where it would be really
annoying to have to do one of
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the 32 things?
If you can do that, just do it
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in bulk.
Think in bulk.
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Yeah, do you know it'd be even
quicker not doing it.
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Don't bother.
Just don't do it.
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Well done.
Kids, stop at the bit where you
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think in bulk.
Think in bulk, don't action in
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bulk.
Well, actually I have, You know
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that on the list of 23 jobs
teachers shouldn't do because
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it's admin.
It is bulk photocopying,
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actually.
Oh, fair enough.
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Yeah.
So actually, yeah, it shouldn't
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actually be having to do that.
Shouldn't actually have to be
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doing but but I tell you what,
if I've got to do the
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photocopying because of my
lessons, I might just do it in
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bulk.
Anyway to answer it exactly?
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No, I think that's a good tip.
And can you think of any other
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jobs like that that you can just
get done in bulk?
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For me, what what I always found
myself doing like at certain
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points in a year when children
start finishing their exercise
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book and I'm like, oh, I just.
I I should just, I should out
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the cupboard, just take enough
for another set so that my class
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can just take a book.
I never do.
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I take like 2.
Yeah.
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And then I'll take two, right.
I'll take two.
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I'll go around the next day,
three people to finish.
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I'll go back exactly the same.
So little things like that way.
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Just think ahead, like your kids
are going to need another mass
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book at some point.
So just have enough mass books
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there.
Even just, you know, have it a
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system in place so that if they
ever get to that point, you can
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just take it out.
And I'm talking here about
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things that literally, genuinely
take you no time whatsoever,
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just organisation.
Yeah, just do it.
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And we, we've been quite lucky
because we've worked in schools
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where at least they just have to
write their name on the book.
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It's quite common for a lot of
schools.
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They'll have covers.
They have to print and trim a
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cover and stick it on the book.
And I remember I've worked in
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school like that before, and the
best thing I ever did was doing
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it in bulk at the start of the
year.
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I was like, obviously they're
going to need a mass book too.
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Yeah, at some point.
So I just, when I printed Mass
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Book 1, I just printed 32 of
Mass Book 2 as well.
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Yeah.
And just also stuck them on.
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I was like, well, that that
job's just done.
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You know what that really there.
The point there is to not do
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that.
Yeah, yeah, I know.
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I.
Agree.
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Covering a book wasn't that
pointless.
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Completely pointless, yeah.
And that that I suppose it's not
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really a tip again, but thinking
of smashing September.
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I do think I'm kind of making
this point up now, by the way.
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You should have a list of
things, right?
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That you have just predetermined
that even if you think is a
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waste of time and stupid and
pointless, if you've decided
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you're gonna do them because you
just ask, okay?
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I don't necessarily agree with
this, but okay, whatever.
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I'm just gonna do it then.
Don't let it eat into your brain
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constantly.
Oh, this is pointless.
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Oh, this is stupid.
Because it's so easy to get
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negative so quickly in a school
field of things like that.
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If you decided, you know, you
got to do it, try not to just
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let that eat away.
You eat away.
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And like you said, if you're
doing it in bulk, you can just
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get it done because you're not
going to then on like, you know,
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it's 5:30 on a random Tuesday
and you've done everything you
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need to do just to stay afloat
in the job.
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And you're like, ah, I'm not
covered.
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Maths Book 2 for these six kids.
Yeah, just don't have to worry
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about it anymore.
Yeah, I think that that really
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would.
That's a really good tip and
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thinking about the start of the
year.
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Now you've done all these other
things, you've started learning
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their names, you've got your
bulks jobs done up, up front and
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ready to go.
It's day one, however, and you
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know this class because of the
previous teacher.
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How important do you think it is
that you give those children a
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clean?
Oh, God, yeah, yeah.
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So that that's huge.
I think when you do handover
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talks with the previous teacher,
there is information you have to
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know.
Yeah, there is certain
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information you have to.
Having a complete blank slate
445
00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,599
would be really counter
intuitive because there'd be
446
00:17:24,599 --> 00:17:27,000
certain things you need to know
about that child, you know, who
447
00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,640
can't pick them up from school,
right, If they have an allergy
448
00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,320
that you need to know about.
And also just maybe even to an
449
00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,720
extent, relationships within the
class, this person and that
450
00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,400
person really clashed.
We're to the parents before we
451
00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,640
have this dialogue, you need to
know that as the teacher,
452
00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,600
because the last thing you'd
want to do is to go to your new
453
00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,360
your new class, have a new
seating plan.
454
00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:47,360
And then after school, one of
the parents is like, we've we've
455
00:17:47,360 --> 00:17:49,160
agreed these don't sit together.
Yeah, yeah.
456
00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:50,760
So clearly you need to know
certain things about the
457
00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:52,560
children.
So when we say giving children a
458
00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,600
clean slate, we mean in terms of
and we've all sat there and
459
00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,520
we've all listened.
I've probably done this passing
460
00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,000
on a class as well.
I've I've definitely experienced
461
00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,400
it when I've heard information
from their previous class
462
00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,280
teacher where, you know, you say
something.
463
00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,720
Oh, this one, yeah, you know,
and I mean, it just sets the
464
00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,720
tone, doesn't it?
But you go through your class.
465
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:12,360
Oh, lovely.
Yep, this ones.
466
00:18:12,360 --> 00:18:13,560
Fantastic.
Really cracks on.
467
00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,640
Oh.
X name, Y name and and it just
468
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:23,080
immediately as the new teacher
put you back up a bit and I'm
469
00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,920
just, have you ever had this
before right where you kind of
470
00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,760
don't like someone?
I'm talking about someone in
471
00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,440
general, not even in your class
now, but you kind of don't like
472
00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:31,840
them and they kind of irritate
you.
473
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,320
And they could do something that
if anyone else did, you wouldn't
474
00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,520
bat an eyelid.
But because it's that person
475
00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,760
doing it, it's that person
eating their Doritos in a
476
00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,320
certain way, you think, oh God,
what an idiot.
477
00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:43,640
You just hate them.
I'm.
478
00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:44,920
A human.
Of course I do.
479
00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,760
There's people in life that just
irritate you more.
480
00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,160
And then because they irritate
you already, they're all that.
481
00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,040
Yeah, I predispose to irritate
you more, right.
482
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:52,920
Same things that other people
could do and not irritate you.
483
00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,160
Like, Yeah.
So I found myself when I've when
484
00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,080
I've had this preemption of this
child of knowing, oh, it's a
485
00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,560
naughty or it's a little pickle
or this, this person pushes the
486
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,600
boat.
This person does that.
487
00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:05,680
I found myself when they then do
that being much harsher, much
488
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,360
quickly with them then literally
a person next to them maybe who
489
00:19:08,360 --> 00:19:10,640
might have done the same thing.
But I've got this glowing report
490
00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,360
of how great they are.
And I go, oh, yeah, that's no
491
00:19:12,360 --> 00:19:13,640
problem.
And that's not fair.
492
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,440
Yeah.
And I think what every single
493
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,760
child deserves starting in
September is that blank slate.
494
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,800
By all means, if they're
breaking the rules, you tell
495
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:21,680
them what to not to do.
And you were remind them.
496
00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,760
And absolutely, I'm not saying
don't tell children off or don't
497
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,720
remind them of things, but it's
that preemption.
498
00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:28,600
I, I would want to treat every
single child the same in terms
499
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,840
of that and then react only from
what they do.
500
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,720
Because I'd make a big thing at
the start of the year of saying
501
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,520
we're in a clean slate here.
Brand new class.
502
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,960
Let's crack on.
Let's be the best class we can
503
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,280
be.
Yeah, I think the worst possible
504
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,560
thing you can do from a kids
perspective is that they know
505
00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,400
they've misbehaved in the
previous year as they come up
506
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:44,920
and instantly realise that
you're already treating them
507
00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,360
differently.
Yeah, because, because you've
508
00:19:46,360 --> 00:19:48,800
made a, you know, a judgement
already and they're like written
509
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,640
you off already.
That's it, that you've lost them
510
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:51,840
straight away.
They think, oh, they're just
511
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,040
like my last teacher.
They just don't like me.
512
00:19:53,360 --> 00:19:55,800
That's what they think.
I mean, obviously the last
513
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,680
teacher did not like them, but
kids think that they say, oh,
514
00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,160
that she doesn't like me.
That's why they're, that's why
515
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,800
I'm in trouble and.
Realistically, sometimes
516
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,080
teachers absolutely make it
clear they don't like certain
517
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,240
children.
Yeah, yeah, that is true.
518
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,600
Yeah, yeah.
But but at the end of the day,
519
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,440
like we don't want a new kid in
your class to be thinking that.
520
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,800
And then you're right, they
deserve a fresh start.
521
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,760
They deserve the rules to be
applied from them, from sort of
522
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,920
the base again.
And if they break the rules,
523
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,720
it's that's that's up to them,
isn't it?
524
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,600
And then the the same
punishments can be applied, you
525
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,040
know, But I think it's very
important.
526
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,400
Are there extremities to that
rule?
527
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,160
Are there certain children you
think you know?
528
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,400
Actually, I do just have to
treat you differently from the
529
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,800
start because of what you've
done and how you've been.
530
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,800
I can't think of a good example,
but they're I'm sure there is
531
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,920
like on the absolute extreme
scale or someone who's maybe
532
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,560
really violent or something like
that, you know, the history of
533
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,400
violence where you wouldn't just
be like, I'll just give them a
534
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,600
chance and it's not worth the
risk.
535
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,760
It's like we actually know
they're consistently behaving
536
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,440
like this for any adult.
Maybe don't you know, don't just
537
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,120
presume no, but.
It's for safety.
538
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,760
Yeah, it's all right, but
someone's just shouts out a bit
539
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,400
more.
I'm not going to immediately be
540
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,000
on them more.
And there's, you know, I think,
541
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:54,920
I think you just have to be
fair.
542
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,160
And then what I've quite often
done is when you're trying to
543
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,520
foster relationships, which
really is the ultimate meta
544
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,800
point that we're thinking about
here, isn't it?
545
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,200
It's about having really nice
positive relationships with all
546
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,440
the kids in your class.
When I've had these children
547
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,440
have come up with these reports,
I'm thinking, oh, here we go.
548
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:08,600
You know, they're going to be a
bit of a pickle.
549
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,440
I will just make the time for
them at the start of the year as
550
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,400
quick as possible to take them
aside and have that conversation
551
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:14,400
if they do something naughty
about.
552
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,520
Look mate, you've got a fresh
start here, OK?
553
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,920
I'm not going to treat you any
differently to the rest of the
554
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,040
class.
But the I'm going to give you.
555
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,360
A special talk.
You know, it is kind of in a
556
00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:23,760
way, isn't it?
But it's like a psychological
557
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,120
thing of like, I'm telling you
right now that I'm really
558
00:21:26,120 --> 00:21:28,440
actively trying to not tarnish
you with the label that you've
559
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,880
clearly given yourself in
previous years.
560
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,400
I am giving you a fresh start.
Don't blow it like I'm giving
561
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,600
you that chance.
And I think sometimes kids
562
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,160
appreciate hearing that, that
you're not just going to assume,
563
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,880
Oh no, you're just not, I'm
going to write you off.
564
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,480
What would you say to someone
listening who's thinking, Oh
565
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,320
yeah, I need these top tips and
they're maybe, you know, they're
566
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,680
going to school and they try and
implement this and then that
567
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,760
child just slips into exactly
what they were last time.
568
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,120
Would you say to them, OK, look
at least try?
569
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,160
That is it.
At least try.
570
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,200
I'm not going to sit here and
pretend that like there's this
571
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,600
perfect reality whereby doing
this little thing that I just
572
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,240
said, it works, it's worked.
My success rate of that is
573
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,720
probably like 20% sure.
Like in all honesty, I'll try it
574
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,440
with all the kids and sometimes
it works, which is the only
575
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,400
reason I'm given that tip.
But there are sometimes where
576
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,440
it's it doesn't work and and I
can't, I can't completely
577
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,560
control how someone behaves.
I can put as much in as possible
578
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,320
in the same way a parent can and
a family can, but at the end of
579
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,440
the day, like I'm not actually
their brain, I can't actually
580
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,760
just make them behave a certain
way.
581
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,280
I can try my best, that's it.
So this, this is kind of the
582
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,200
point I'm getting at in terms of
these tips are really vital and
583
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,320
important.
But I think 1 tip we can
584
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:34,320
extrapolate from this in general
is be kind to yourself.
585
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,880
You know, give yourself some
leave.
586
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,440
Wait, not everything is your
fault.
587
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,240
Like, you know, you can't do
everything for those children.
588
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:45,160
I saw this amazing analogy the
other day and it was this person
589
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,560
sat there and they said, if you
hire a personal trainer to train
590
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,720
you, to train you up, to get you
in shape to, to keep you
591
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,280
accountable and then you don't
show up to the gym, would you
592
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,120
ever blame the personal trainer?
No, that's of course not.
593
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,160
That's on you.
Of course not.
594
00:22:59,360 --> 00:23:01,640
So when a child is actively
deciding not to join into the
595
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,040
lesson, is actively deciding to
play up, is not putting effort
596
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,520
in, why on earth do we turn to
just simply blaming the teacher
597
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,480
and saying, well, actually, and
just I can imagine this idea of
598
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,240
just turning to the teacher
going, well, what did you do to
599
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,000
encourage them?
What did you do to make this an
600
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,960
environment where they might
want to not throw that chair?
601
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,520
What did you do to make sure
that they are interested in
602
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,640
their learning all the time?
And what I would want to say to
603
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,640
teachers is by all means, try.
By all means, do what you can.
604
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,440
But my goodness me, it is not
your fault if a child is
605
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,000
consistently doing the wrong
thing and not bothering to even
606
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,000
show any effort.
Don't beat yourself up about it.
607
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,240
Don't think, oh, these two guys
on a podcast said, just put your
608
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,520
arm around a kid and they should
be all right.
609
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,400
No, no, we're not saying that.
What we're saying is this is
610
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,880
ways you can try to do it.
But ultimately, if a child and a
611
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,880
family aren't buying into
education and aren't trying
612
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,280
their hardest and aren't doing
what they can, there comes a
613
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,200
point where you say that's on
you, mate.
614
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,240
And I'm so sorry, but I'm going
to do what I can.
615
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,560
Yeah, I'm professional.
If you're not going to even
616
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,880
remotely try to join in, that's
your fault.
617
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,080
Yeah.
You go into mitigation modes.
618
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,760
I can, I can get around this,
but there's literally I'm at my
619
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,120
limitations now.
There's nothing else I can do.
620
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,480
It's not in my power.
I think that's a really good
621
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,000
point and it's and it is a wider
point as well.
622
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,600
It's not even just that
situation like just being kind
623
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,640
to yourself, just treating
yourself like a friend.
624
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,000
It applies to another example.
Let's say you had an observation
625
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,000
at school and it didn't go as
planned.
626
00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:20,840
You know, we've all been there,
everyone, everyone's had an
627
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,920
observation where you think or
Eva, you think I just messed
628
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,440
that up.
Like that did not go to my
629
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,040
script, didn't go to my plan at
all.
630
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,920
And people are watching it and
it just all messed up.
631
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,320
You don't, you really don't need
to be horrible.
632
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,120
I've done it.
You don't have to be horrible to
633
00:24:33,120 --> 00:24:34,920
yourself.
Like it's completely pointless.
634
00:24:35,120 --> 00:24:38,280
Like you can reflect on it and
maybe think about a target and
635
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,400
move on, but you just have to
get over it and move on.
636
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,800
Like you can't beat yourself up
over 1 little thing.
637
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,200
It's how you would treat your
colleague next door who went
638
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,880
through the same thing.
That's so true, right?
639
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,680
You, you absolutely would not go
into that room and talk to that
640
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,080
colleague in the same way a lot
of people talk to themselves if
641
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,600
things go wrong.
I can, I've been in that
642
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,560
situation before where things
have gone wrong and I and I
643
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,480
really wound myself up and I've
been annoyed myself and I'm not
644
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,480
giving myself any slack
whatsoever.
645
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,920
And I've thought the worst about
myself and oh, you're a rubbish
646
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,400
teacher.
You can't even control a class.
647
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,560
You can't even do a simple maths
test and you're just doing
648
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:09,800
perimeter.
How easy is that?
649
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,480
How can you get these kids to
control themselves?
650
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,800
It's your fault.
These kids are going crazy.
651
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,600
And this feedback was bad.
No, no, no, no, just chill.
652
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:20,240
Because if you had that same
feedback, I would be the first
653
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,480
person in that room genuinely
going don't wait.
654
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,800
You can't control that.
What did you do that was really
655
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,240
good?
Yeah.
656
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,440
Next time try something
different.
657
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,440
It's not on you, but you you can
have these that you can try and
658
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,120
improve yourself.
You've got the best, best
659
00:25:31,120 --> 00:25:32,480
attitude going.
You're being reflective.
660
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,600
You're already thinking about
how you can make it better next
661
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,760
time.
Don't beat yourself up.
662
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,600
I I don't, I would not have the
same inner monologue with
663
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,280
myself.
Yeah, than I do with my friend.
664
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,360
And I just think that tip of
just treat yourself like you
665
00:25:43,360 --> 00:25:45,800
treat your mate.
I think that can flip you a lot
666
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,400
and and help you get out that
whole of that self doubt and
667
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:49,920
that self loathing.
Yeah, I agree.
668
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,480
And there's one other way you
can approach, particularly with
669
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,360
bad feedback from observations
is just do what I did and just
670
00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:57,880
sort of develop your arrogance a
little bit more and then just
671
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,880
go, Nah, the people give me the
feedback were wrong.
672
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:02,440
I did that a few times in my
career have.
673
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,640
You seen that meme of Principal
Skinner?
674
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,400
So it's from The Simpsons,
right?
675
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,760
Yeah.
It's principal who's who's head
676
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,520
of the church.
And he and he's just standing
677
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,240
there pondering something and he
goes, maybe it's me that's wrong
678
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,560
and it just cuts to him.
Nah, the children are wrong.
679
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,600
Yeah, maybe I do need to change.
Or I create a podcast where I
680
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,280
tell everyone how I'm right
instead and I become an evil
681
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,280
villain.
Yeah, but you know what, even
682
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,800
even in this meme that we're
having right now, there are two
683
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,680
prongs to it because yes, you
sometimes like I've certainly
684
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,360
done this, you've just been a
bit arrogant and thought no,
685
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:34,800
that I'm not, I'm not taking
this feedback.
686
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,080
Actually, it's got, it's got
your back up and you thought,
687
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,000
no, actually, I think I just
think they're wrong.
688
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,880
And sometimes, sometimes they
are wrong.
689
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,480
Sometimes it is just a, it's a
battle of opinions.
690
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,320
It's like an SLT member or
whoever's observing your lesson
691
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,800
might genuinely just have an
opinion on this, a particular
692
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,880
pedagogy that they that they
thought wasn't good in your
693
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,800
lesson.
And you're like, well, I add, I
694
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,680
adamantly think this is a good
thing and like, and I will
695
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,520
continue to use this.
We are just disagreeing.
696
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,480
And that does happen.
I'm not saying that happens all
697
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,360
the time.
You shouldn't, you shouldn't
698
00:27:00,360 --> 00:27:02,960
read.
I'm just just to clarify here, I
699
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,120
don't actually think you should
just dismiss all feedback ever
700
00:27:05,120 --> 00:27:06,640
as well, you're just wrong.
I'm always right.
701
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,480
Probably good to be a bit
reflective.
702
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,160
But sometimes though, like if
you end up, if the end goal is
703
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,720
you're beating yourself up about
it and they are literally just
704
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,280
wrong.
That's like doubling down.
705
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,240
You're beating yourself up over
it, and you're not even wrong
706
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,080
or.
Not even wrong, just different.
707
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,560
Like if there was only one way
to deliver stuff and the best
708
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,200
possible optimal way of teaching
ever, we'd all be doing the same
709
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,840
thing.
So it is clearly not.
710
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,840
It's clearly just an opinion.
Is it you didn't, I think I'm
711
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,960
sure it was you didn't you have
an observation once where they
712
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,000
literally like, I'm thinking
really early in your career when
713
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,800
they literally said there wasn't
any like criticism or negative
714
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,280
feedback so they had to make,
but they had.
715
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:42,760
To make something up.
Yeah, yeah, it's subject.
716
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:47,280
This, this was true.
They it's so true.
717
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,480
I had an observation once and
yeah, that basically they
718
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,680
basically the line was at the
end of it.
719
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,720
I haven't, I haven't really
written anything down.
720
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,560
I've got to put something.
Yeah, I've got to put something
721
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,360
in this could be improved
column.
722
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,600
So I'll have a think what you
think might go in there.
723
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,480
They threw it to me and I think
that's fine.
724
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,640
I think that's a good tool
actually.
725
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,680
You know what I mean in general.
But when you, when you prefaced
726
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,720
it with it was absolutely fine,
almost make something up because
727
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,720
then we can take off that you've
made that progress.
728
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,400
I'm like, OK, what is the point
in this then?
729
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,680
And I think I actually, you know
what, on that, this is kind of
730
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,560
separate, I suppose, but I'm
really passionate about that
731
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,960
because I think sometimes you
should just go to someone and
732
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,600
say well done.
Yeah, some, I think all the.
733
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,440
Time.
So I, what I'm saying is even in
734
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,760
formal observation sometimes,
like you should be doing this
735
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,880
all the time absolutely.
But but it, you know, saying
736
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,240
well done is a complete
sentence.
737
00:28:36,360 --> 00:28:38,240
You don't need to sandwich
everything.
738
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,840
You don't need to always
constantly think how could this
739
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,160
possibly be improved?
Because we know everything could
740
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,520
be improved a bit.
But you know what?
741
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,760
Sometimes, and if not most of
the time, it's enough and it's
742
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,080
good.
Yeah, they are.
743
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,320
Honestly, the worst leaders I've
experienced in my time are the
744
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,280
ones that have to sandwich
everything.
745
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,960
Everything has to be positive
and, and the next step it it
746
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,520
doesn't need to be the best
leaders I've had.
747
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,280
I've got, I'm sure they've got
an internal ratio.
748
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,120
They'll probably work on it.
They probably, it's probably a
749
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,240
management skill, a people's
skill they've developed where
750
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,720
they think, yeah, I'm going to
be just positive to these people
751
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,240
as much as I can.
And then occasionally when I
752
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,080
need to sprinkle in some
actually we need to work on this
753
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,160
thing.
They're not going to think,
754
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,080
yeah, yeah, yeah.
Everything I do is wrong, isn't
755
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,200
it?
You know, that sort of thing.
756
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,320
And Speaking of like
professional development, I
757
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,000
think that's another, that's
another tip almost is, which is
758
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,400
I'm sure we can all think of
five things we need to work on.
759
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,040
Like there, there are so many
skills involved in teaching and
760
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,120
no one is perfect at all of
them.
761
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,840
It's just not possible.
But you can be really good at
762
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,760
some things and you can maybe be
a bit weaker in other areas.
763
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,600
But when it comes to developing
them, just pick one.
764
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,880
Just pick one.
Is it your, is it your behaviour
765
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,520
management?
Is it your ability to manage a
766
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,360
TA?
Is it your curriculum knowledge
767
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:40,640
and it's specifically in
history?
768
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,440
Whatever it is, and maybe it has
come from an observation, just
769
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,800
focus on that one thing.
Don't beat yourself up over it,
770
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,840
but do just focus on the one
thing and develop it.
771
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,120
And then when it comes to it,
maybe a year later, it's a year
772
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,960
cycle.
Ask someone when they're
773
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,800
observing you say, can you, can
you specifically give me
774
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,320
feedback on this thing?
Because this is the thing I've
775
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,680
been trying to work on.
I think that's a better approach
776
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,240
than just scattergunning like,
oh, here's 19 things I've got to
777
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,440
work on and I'm a failure if I
don't do them all.
778
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,440
That's a thread that's gone
through a lot of these and I
779
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,120
think it's really important.
Basically, you can condense it
780
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,560
down to look, you are
professional, trust your
781
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,920
judgement and don't expect to
fix everything at once.
782
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,160
Like we said about the rules,
have a few at a time.
783
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,280
Nail them.
Don't expect to have perfection.
784
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,080
You have progress.
I love that saying progress, not
785
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,000
perfection.
Don't worry that everything's
786
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,840
not absolutely amazing that when
you're not spinning all your
787
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,800
plates beautifully, spin three
plates, keep them up, get them
788
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,480
perfect, and then add a plate
after.
789
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,640
Don't feel like you have to fix
everything straight away.
790
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:36,520
And this does link in with my
next tip that did transform my
791
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:43,640
scatterbrain in teaching, but
it's got the potential to be
792
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,080
used badly.
OK, there's my there's my
793
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,840
cryptic one.
I'm intrigued.
794
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,560
What could it be?
I'm talking about to do lists,
795
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,720
right.
So I remember I was two years
796
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,480
into my teaching, my second
year, I think, and my head of
797
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,000
year bought us all year in my
year group that time bought us
798
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,200
all a notepad that was
specifically A to do list, as in
799
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,480
it was had a little box at the
side you could write down your
800
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,800
lists.
And I obviously immediately
801
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960
thought to do I've never used A
to do list in my life.
802
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,680
Oh yeah, that's why I was so
scared.
803
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,840
So A to do list was vital in my
career.
804
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,280
And I'd say to anyone smashing
September now getting ready, get
805
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,440
yourself A to do list lots.
You probably already do it.
806
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,560
You might do post it notes.
You might do it electronic
807
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,360
version.
You might do it on a notepad.
808
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,400
But this isn't my main point.
My main point on how to use To
809
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,480
Do List properly is the same
thread we've just been talking
810
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,360
about, right?
Don't see it as a target for
811
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,760
each day that you've got to take
it all off.
812
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:40,000
No see it as I can now organise
and prioritise my tasks.
813
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,280
Yeah, I got you.
So when you're writing them
814
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,960
down, did you do anything in
particular with that?
815
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,280
Like to say to yourself, look,
here's every job ever that I've
816
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,440
got to do, but how did you
prioritise?
817
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,920
Was it just in your head or did
you have a system or something?
818
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,880
It's very simple.
It started off in my head and I
819
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,000
thought, you know, and at points
it was just in my head as well
820
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,040
in terms of I could just scan
the list very quickly.
821
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,000
Yeah, because I wasn't trying to
remember my list.
822
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,680
My cognitive energy could go on
just looking at the list and
823
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,480
going, OK, look, this, this,
this has to be done today like
824
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,760
that.
I've got to mark those maths
825
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,720
books for doing that tomorrow.
I've got to get this to the my
826
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,920
SLT because they've got a
meeting in the evening or
827
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,120
whatever it might be.
I've got to do these things.
828
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,280
Done, done, done.
And I'd do them and I wouldn't
829
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,000
even bother with the rest of the
list at all.
830
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,280
And then I'd look at the clock
and if it's the end of my time,
831
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,000
I'll go.
Or I'll think, well, I could do
832
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,280
that.
It's an option.
833
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,320
Something might stay on my list
for 5 minutes.
834
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,320
Something might stay on my list
for five months.
835
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:31,520
I.
Was literally about to say did
836
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,960
you ever find that you had
something on your To Do List
837
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,200
that was like you've written 47
other things since then, you
838
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,200
still not crossed that one.
Off.
839
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,560
Yeah, absolutely.
And I think that's really
840
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,640
important to know and that kind
of sums up my point that a
841
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,520
teacher's To Do List is never,
ever, ever complete.
842
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,680
Ever.
So why are we trying burn
843
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,240
ourselves out getting through
our literal To Do List in front
844
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,240
of us?
It's okay and all it served as
845
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,200
the To Do List.
And I say all it really did
846
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,480
transform how my career, to be
honest with you.
847
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,560
It's served as a way of
organising the jobs that I've
848
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:05,360
got and being able to prioritise
because I could say to myself
849
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,640
this job is just not important.
If at any point this To Do List
850
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,360
is empty apart from this job,
I'll get it done.
851
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,000
I'll do it.
Yeah.
852
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,000
What's that you wanted to do?
Some displays in the corridor of
853
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,960
the hallway, which no one sees.
OK, cool.
854
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,960
It's gone on my To Do List.
But I think you would understand
855
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,280
that if I rank that as a three
on my To Do List, the ones of me
856
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,680
actually planning the lesson for
the children tomorrow, that kind
857
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,200
of needs to get done.
First Yeah, and the problem is
858
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,880
the teachers like that is
exactly it's like would you Mr
859
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,720
or Mrs SLT would you rather I've
got an hour left of the time
860
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,240
that you're paying me for?
Would you rather I planned a
861
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,520
lesson for next week or did this
display is one or the other just
862
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,800
having that mindset, isn't it of
I'm not an end.
863
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,920
It's not an endless list and I
don't have endless time.
864
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,880
I absolutely fell into that trap
for the first few years of my
865
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,800
career.
I would write, I'd have, I had A
866
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,480
to do list.
Unlike you, however, it was
867
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,760
just, I wrote things down and I
just did them in that order,
868
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,080
right?
Like I didn't prioritise and it
869
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,400
was kind of like every job is of
equal weighting.
870
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,040
And if it takes me till 8:00 PM,
then that's just how it goes
871
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,360
because the teacher job never
ends.
872
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:01,640
What?
What effect did it have on you?
873
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,520
And like, why?
Why did that change?
874
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:04,840
What made that change?
Was it just you?
875
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,520
Burning out now I was burning
out like as as my life became
876
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,520
more busy, just not just normal
things like we moved house in my
877
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,440
second or second year of
teaching.
878
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,239
I think maybe third year we, we
bought our first house together.
879
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,520
So that obviously just came with
mortgage payments and actually
880
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,400
just living in your own house
rather than living with your
881
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,679
parents.
Mortgage payments famously take
882
00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:22,040
every.
Time.
883
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,880
I know I really, I was saying I
was like, that's probably the
884
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,960
worst time consuming thing I
can.
885
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,120
Ever think about separate debit
to the 2 minutes?
886
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,600
Don't worry, I told Lauren that.
Yeah, I'll tell you what,
887
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,840
Lauren.
This is my car.
888
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,040
This is my 50% of house chores.
Crikey, this this mortgage
889
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,760
payment does take me some bloody
time.
890
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,840
I'll tell you that.
It takes me.
891
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,840
It's weird, it takes me an exact
amount of time cleaning, cooking
892
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,040
and then doing all the do you?
Mind doing dinner tonight, love?
893
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,800
Because I've, I'm just really,
I've just got to pay this
894
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,639
mortgage.
Bill sound more misogynistic at
895
00:34:46,639 --> 00:34:47,639
that.
Point I'm playing a part.
896
00:34:47,639 --> 00:34:50,600
It wasn't really like that,
honestly, but.
897
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,880
For the sake of doubt anyone
listening, yeah, I was.
898
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,480
Playing a role there if you
didn't get my sweet acting
899
00:34:56,679 --> 00:35:00,560
abilities there.
But going back to my point of my
900
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:01,840
To Do List.
Mortgages take ages.
901
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,480
Mortgages take ages and I was
burning out.
902
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,200
I just couldn't do that To Do
List when the mortgage was on
903
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,360
that list, but it was I was
burning out.
904
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,520
Basically, I remember you
talking to me almost relaying a
905
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,000
conversation you had with a
leader who is sent.
906
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,760
And because it was from a
leader, I think it stuck with
907
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,160
you a bit more because you were
like thinking I'm pandering to
908
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,560
you doing everything you asked
me to do.
909
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,840
That leader said something along
the lines of if it's that
910
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,880
important, they'll chase you up.
Yeah, it was.
911
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,480
It was it was like the best,
worst advice I've ever had in
912
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:29,080
terms of like it sounds terrible
when if a leader says to you, I
913
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,360
just don't do it, they'll chase
you up.
914
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,160
It sounds objectively awful.
But that the undertones was was
915
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,760
really vital.
I never forgot it which was.
916
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,480
The reason it sounds awful is
because they're the ones.
917
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,160
I know, and obviously, and
they're kind of speaking on
918
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,000
behalf of other, you might
disagree with that.
919
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,120
So I felt like, oh, I was about
like, oh, this is naughty.
920
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,400
But it was true though, and it
did work.
921
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,520
There were some things when I
started prioritising that went
922
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,040
to the bottom of that list that
I thought someone else is happy
923
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,160
to do.
This is therefore it's so
924
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,080
important because I couldn't
possibly, possibly make someone
925
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,680
else think that I can't do
something because you I was a
926
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,760
proper people pleaser.
So I'd always, I'd always value
927
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,080
it more just because they asked
me, by the way, not because it's
928
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,960
actually important.
And then, yeah, it's like, oh,
929
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,720
hang on, I left that for three
weeks and they never asked for
930
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:07,600
it again.
Even they don't think it was
931
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:08,920
important.
They actually forgot.
932
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,600
It's that unimportant.
And I had it up here on a
933
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,640
pedestal.
So yeah, prioritising hierarchy,
934
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,920
whatever you want to call it
with your To Do List, have the
935
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,040
To Do List in the 1st place.
Step one, the bit that Dylan can
936
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,520
do really easy.
Everyone do, everyone can do
937
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,120
that.
Step 2, the important bit.
938
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,640
Yeah, prioritise it.
And not every job is equal.
939
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,280
Which comes from a really strict
line that you set yourself, like
940
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,680
you said, how do I know when to
not do any more of the To Do
941
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,360
List?
Because you've set yourself a
942
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,200
time.
You say, Oh no, no, guys, it's
943
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,360
half.
It's 5:30.
944
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,320
Like it's ridiculous.
I could have set my time for
945
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,960
5:00 or 4:45, whatever it might
be.
946
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,760
I've set my time here.
And if I can't get it done,
947
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,280
tough.
No, no, not later.
948
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,880
No, no, no, I won't get that
done after.
949
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,400
Actually, it's not.
You know what I'm going to do?
950
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,960
I'm going to come into work
tomorrow and anytime I get, I'll
951
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,120
continue to work for my list.
And this kind of bleeds in
952
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,480
again, a lot of these linked
together.
953
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,600
I was just thinking this links
to one of our other tips.
954
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:55,600
I'm hoping you're going the same
place I'm.
955
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,040
Thinking it's always as if 321
pay mortgage quickly I'll.
956
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,560
Tell you what 321 build routine.
Yes.
957
00:37:02,240 --> 00:37:04,600
And that, you know, I don't ever
want to come across
958
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,280
condescending because I know
sometimes when we do episodes
959
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,960
like this, you think because
people know this and I know a
960
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,880
lot of what we said today you're
aware of, but hopefully we're
961
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,120
just being very specific and
helping you out with those
962
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,840
nuances and it should really
help you smash it.
963
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:19,240
But building a routine is, is
completely vital.
964
00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:23,440
And part of that routine for me
was building the resilience and
965
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,320
the confidence to say, Nah,
that's, that's the end of my
966
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,760
time.
Because as a teacher, you
967
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,080
haven't actually got a clock off
time.
968
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,240
Regardless as to what people
might say online about those
969
00:37:31,240 --> 00:37:34,920
bloody lefty wokey teachers just
eating their tofu at lunchtime
970
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,280
doing their ticky talkies and
don't know if they're leaving
971
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,040
school that are free when the
kids do.
972
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,920
Disclaimer also playing a
character just in case anyone
973
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,360
thinks that's real as well.
Yeah, we don't leave where the
974
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,080
kids leave, honestly saying it,
but like, there's no cut off.
975
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,160
You, you, you honestly could
work until 8:00 PM every day if
976
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,520
you wanted to.
You have to build your own
977
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,840
routine.
That says no, no, I'm, I'm, my
978
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,360
routine is, I'm leaving at this
time.
979
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,920
Yeah.
And I'm going to go home.
980
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,440
I'm going to make my dinner.
I'm going to go and do whatever
981
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,680
my hobby is because on a Tuesday
I'll go and play football, 5
982
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,400
aside.
Or on a Thursday I'll go to my
983
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:06,760
chess club and play chess with
my mates.
984
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,800
Yeah, on a Friday I'll go and do
Dungeons and Dragons.
985
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,440
Whatever it is, whatever you've
got that you like doing, I don't
986
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,000
like whatever it is.
Build your own routine and and
987
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,000
within that routine, obviously
you're going to be malleable
988
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,560
because there might be times
where do you know what it would
989
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,240
help me actually just to get
this work done.
990
00:38:21,240 --> 00:38:24,480
I'll do an extra half hour.
But you should try as much as
991
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,080
possible to have non negotiables
in that way.
992
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,080
That's why I was going to say
have building non negotiables.
993
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,600
Like you said.
If you want to change your own
994
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,360
non negotiable on the one off,
then obviously that's fine.
995
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,160
But generally other people need
to know that's your baseline
996
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,160
that you don't.
You don't get to choose SLC or
997
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,360
another member of staff whatever
to change my non negotiable
998
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:42,800
time.
It just doesn't work like that.
999
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,040
So build it in, have a I think
right now if you don't already
1000
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,600
have that, what could it be?
Because maybe like listening to
1001
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,720
a podcast about teaching on your
way to work every Monday morning
1002
00:38:50,720 --> 00:38:51,800
and Wednesday morning when we're
really.
1003
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,420
Sorry on the way home you say to
SD and I'm sorry my non
1004
00:38:54,420 --> 00:38:57,840
negotiable time 3:30 I leave
this school and I listen to the
1005
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,120
podcast.
That's just how it works.
1006
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,840
When the podcast told me that's
OK and I can play FTA if you
1007
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,360
want.
Yeah, I don't think though you
1008
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,760
think sometimes it sounds silly,
but I've met, I've, I tell you
1009
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,760
what, the majority of teachers
I've met literally don't have a
1010
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:10,880
non negotiable.
They're like, Oh yeah, I don't
1011
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,240
really.
I don't really build in any time
1012
00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:13,640
for me.
I just, if I've got time, I'll
1013
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,080
do something.
It's like, no, no, no, think the
1014
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,560
other way around.
Build that in first, then don't
1015
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,320
let things interrupt that.
That's your time.
1016
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,280
It's like when people say, oh,
I've got half time and I'm so
1017
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:23,960
burnt out and exhausted.
I can't, I don't even have the
1018
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,280
energy to do anything for
myself.
1019
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,480
So those people who don't build
it in as part of their weekly
1020
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,680
routine never get it.
No, because they're they're
1021
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,960
burning out during term time.
I've not got time for myself.
1022
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,280
I've just got to get this done.
I've got working at the weekend.
1023
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,800
Do you know, it's all right
though, because when I get to
1024
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,720
the half term, I'll be for me.
They get there and they're done
1025
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,240
in.
They haven't planned anything
1026
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,240
because and that that's what
makes me sad.
1027
00:39:42,240 --> 00:39:44,120
And you know, if it works your
life and you want to do that
1028
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,840
crack on, you know, fantastic
for you.
1029
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,360
But if you're struggling with it
and you haven't yet tried to do
1030
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,080
this and you haven't yet built
in that routine and that end
1031
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,320
goal and actually other things
as well in your time that you
1032
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,800
could be doing, that's something
you should really try and do as
1033
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,320
soon as possible.
I've got a good non negotiable
1034
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:00,480
for you.
It's one of our tips.
1035
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,560
It's regarding emails.
It's, it's a very small one, but
1036
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,720
it's, it's vital.
Take the app off your phone.
1037
00:40:07,720 --> 00:40:10,200
Do not have your work emails on
your phone.
1038
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,240
Again, like, like Dylan said,
look, if you really want to,
1039
00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:15,880
it's, it is ultimately your
choice, but I'm advising you for
1040
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,520
your own mental health and
burnout and all this stuff, just
1041
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,960
don't look at emails outside of
a certain a certain time.
1042
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,200
I mean, that's your point, isn't
it?
1043
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,280
It's like you, you you even go
as far as having like set
1044
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,440
windows or whatever it is for.
Looking at emails.
1045
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,640
My my point with emails is
right, you can't actually, some
1046
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,480
schools do control it as a as a
kind of like school wide thing,
1047
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,240
but you can't actually control
when someone sends you an
1048
00:40:36,240 --> 00:40:37,040
e-mail.
Yeah, of course.
1049
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,760
So if you're at the beck and
core and it's on your phone and
1050
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,840
you get a notification and you
say, oh, no, that's fine, I'll
1051
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,240
just do this.
You can end up spending micro
1052
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:45,880
time all day looking at your
phone checking or something
1053
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,040
beeped.
I've got this, I've got that.
1054
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,400
Whereas I'd say to people, and
this is what I do, I would check
1055
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,400
my e-mail in the morning and I
check my e-mail after school.
1056
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,120
Yeah.
And if anything was so important
1057
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,920
during school that you needed me
because by the way, during
1058
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,640
school day, I am working, I am
in front of the children.
1059
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,880
And if you walked in and saw me
checking my emails, you'd
1060
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,000
probably be like, what you
doing?
1061
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,600
Why you're not teaching?
So I am actually working and
1062
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:08,960
that's why I checked before and
after.
1063
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,480
And I think that's really
important to do because it's
1064
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:16,760
just giving yourself the
boundary and the respect to say
1065
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:17,760
to someone, I'll get back to
you.
1066
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,160
I can get back to you within a
day easily.
1067
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,160
I've got 2 windows in my day
where I check my emails.
1068
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,680
If my job was just sat checking
emails all day, obviously it
1069
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,200
wouldn't be acceptable.
But it's not.
1070
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,880
This is one small part of my job
and I'm not going to let it take
1071
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,360
over.
And so, you know, some days I'll
1072
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,040
check it once and the next
morning I'll see.
1073
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,120
Someone emailed me at lunchtime
yesterday wanting this thing.
1074
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,840
If they wanted it that day, they
would have come and see me.
1075
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,440
If they didn't, then I could.
Just check it today.
1076
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:41,760
Yeah, it's not an issue.
Nothing.
1077
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,600
Nothing winds me up more.
I mean, it does, but it just
1078
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,840
winds me up a bit.
Someone emailing you it someone
1079
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,800
in.
The school sorry, no, no, no,
1080
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:50,400
no.
We we put clips out on the
1081
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,120
Internet.
You have to say the worst thing
1082
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:52,760
in the.
World.
1083
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,680
Sorry, this is for the clip.
The worst thing in the world
1084
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,000
that's ever happened to me ever
in a school in existence of all
1085
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,720
time.
Is that about right?
1086
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,680
Something like that.
That's great, but you have to
1087
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:01,920
carry on to.
All I've got to carry on for the
1088
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,120
clip.
I can't edit that in right?
1089
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,120
Something terrible that happens
to me in school that I really
1090
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,000
bares my bugs.
Is that the right phrase?
1091
00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:09,360
That's good.
Keep asking me.
1092
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,480
Just keep That's fine.
I'll keep going.
1093
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,520
You you make it really tricky to
make clips here.
1094
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,080
But so something that genuinely
really annoys me is people that
1095
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,520
work literally in school who
know what you're doing as a
1096
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,440
teacher, by the way, they know
you're teaching a class emailing
1097
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,640
you during that time for
something that genuinely needs
1098
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,240
to be done that day or like
information ever so or it's
1099
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,160
maybe another teacher's out of
class wherever they e-mail you
1100
00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:32,080
or before before you go home.
Would you mind just telling this
1101
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,760
kid this thing?
And I'm like, mate, it's it's
1102
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,240
2:00 and I'm already teaching in
the afternoon.
1103
00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:37,960
Of course I'm not going to see
this e-mail like.
1104
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,400
What do you think I'm doing
after this Mr class?
1105
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,880
And you're like, I just let them
go.
1106
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,760
Of course it.
Has happened so I can't actually
1107
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,960
believe how many times in my
career I've got the end of day
1108
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,560
and read an e-mail and thought
as if they've sent that to me
1109
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,080
mid teaching.
Like it's so clearly something I
1110
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,840
needed to know now.
He makes sure the asthma pump
1111
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,360
goes home with this kid.
Not really.
1112
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,680
Yeah, Not really.
Don't let this kid walk home
1113
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,800
today.
Just specifically today.
1114
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,800
Oh my God, Why is this not home?
That's never happened, to be
1115
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,240
fair.
But that would be that would be
1116
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,800
safeguarding.
Safeguarding.
1117
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,880
But the point being, in that
situation, what would always
1118
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,560
happen if you don't reply?
I've had this million times.
1119
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,880
They've come to you, they'll
come to you.
1120
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,520
Did you get my e-mail?
Yeah, sorry, I've got, I've got
1121
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,880
a picture of Roman Roan Shield
on the board and I'm teaching
1122
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:16,520
the different.
Yeah.
1123
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,720
No, I haven't seen your e-mail,
actually.
1124
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:19,920
And then they'll say to the kid,
can you tell this kid this?
1125
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,520
Yeah, go on then.
Yeah.
1126
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,880
Can you do it?
No, that's I think hopefully
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00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,800
people from these tips, they're
not too stale because I, you
1128
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,880
know, last thing we want to do
is just say what everyone knows.
1129
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,240
We know the basics.
So we tried to really go into
1130
00:43:34,240 --> 00:43:36,920
specifics there.
I'd love to know you can get in
1131
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,640
touch with us on our Instagram
or our TikTok at TC repeat
1132
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,480
podcast, what you thought.
And if you have any other tips
1133
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,600
as well, get in touch, let us
know because we can share them
1134
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,160
in the future.
Hayden September's here.
1135
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:49,840
Anything you want to sign up
with?
1136
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,800
Well, I will say that these tips
will be absolutely fantastic,
1137
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,480
but Dylan, I won't be applying
them because I quit teaching.
1138
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,720
So you guys have fun.
Good luck with these.
1139
00:43:58,720 --> 00:44:01,200
If you want my top tip and say
just don't go back in September,
1140
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,120
that's what I'm doing.
And apparently it's the best
1141
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:04,120
tip.
God's sake.
1142
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,160
Just do it.
Every other influencer does
1143
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,320
online.
Just pretend you still.
1144
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,160
Think I can't, I can't do it.
These guys know what we're
1145
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,400
doing.
But hopefully from our decade
1146
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,040
plus three years experience,
whatever you've got, isn't it
1147
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,120
totalled 19?
I would love to be in your maths
1148
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,080
lessons if you're grouping all 1
digit numbers as the same it
1149
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,680
was.
It's irrelevant, it's just so
1150
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,120
well important when it's a 1
digit number.
1151
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,040
But obviously a decade up
decades until you say decade
1152
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,280
bracket S. 19 Answer Something
we care about 1919 at the end 19
1153
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:31,960
minutes.
But we have got that experience
1154
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,800
at the end of the day, I, you
know, it's, I don't.
1155
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,480
Backtrack now, mate, you're at
the pace here.
1156
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,520
No, this is.
They've just ploughed an hour
1157
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,560
into this.
I'm gonna see you later guys.
1158
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,600
I'm not following my.
Try not even bother.
1159
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,120
Try not even bother.
I won't even try and redeem
1160
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:44,840
myself.
Just say bye.
1161
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,280
I ask him to review the podcast
because now we've not got a real
1162
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:48,280
job.
Reviewing the podcast is really
1163
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:48,760
important.
Yeah.
1164
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,680
Can you review the podcast
please?
1165
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,160
We've not got real jobs.
This is really important.
1166
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:51,720
Yeah.
Chase, mate.
1167
00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:51,920
Bye.
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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to another episode of TC Repeat.
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My name is Dylan.
And my name's Hayden.
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And it is September and we know
what September means, don't we,
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Hayden?
It's back to school.
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So we have got a podcast episode
today jam packed with our best
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tips on how to absolutely smash
the new year with your new.
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Class.
Well, that's the passionate
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intro done.
Let's dive in.
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Right.
Hey then between us we've got 19
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years experience teaching in the
primary school.
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Decade and single digit number
for you, is that?
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Yeah.
I wouldn't bother splitting up
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the math.
Well, I.
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Just I think it's relevant,
isn't it really?
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When you add up the number, it's
19. 2 digit #1 digit number
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we're experienced between us
some.
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Lots of experience.
Some more than others.
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But experience between us,
that's all that matters. 19 when
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you add up.
So I think we're well placed is
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what I'm trying to say here.
Equally well placed to talk
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about how to have the best
possible start to a new year.
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Because I remember every single
time in September when I started
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with my new class, I had the
best of intentions to hit the
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ground running and get the most
out of the kids as soon as I
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could and just get myself in a
really good place all.
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Right then, Dylan, So why don't
you jump in right now with your
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literal top tip?
What's the first thing that
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comes to mind?
I remember being told this
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because I was moved.
For context, I was moved to year
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three, worked in a Junior
School, moved to year 3 and
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anyone out there has worked in
the Junior School where they
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start in year 3.
It is just so common that
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behaviour, routines, etcetera
are way more important than ever
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because the kids simply don't
know your school.
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They'd had their own routine
somewhere else and they're
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coming into this brand new
school.
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And I remember going to year 3
and the head of year in year 3,
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she was amazing.
And she said, Dylan, just
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simplify it.
And this is stuck with me and
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it's something I do now.
Whatever you recommend, she said
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just simplify your expectations
and your rules.
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So we all know it's important to
have rules.
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We all can sit there and see
people saying in September,
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establish routines quickly,
etcetera.
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We know all that.
We know all that for our class.
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That's obviously important.
But her point was have fewer
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rules, but really strictly abide
by them and enforce them and be
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super, super stringent on you
all have to do this.
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And I thought, okay, yeah, I'll
give it a go.
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That makes sense.
And what it did was it allowed
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me to be super, super, super
clear that these are my two or
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three rules that we have all
agreed on are important.
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And you simply cannot break that
rule.
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And you are on it from day one.
So for example, one would be not
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to get out of your chair.
Yeah, yeah, such a good one.
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Isn't it because we're talking
about younger children here?
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This obviously won't necessarily
be necessary when you're in year
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6, but you can change it to
whatever.
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Oh, it is mate, it is.
I'll tell you that one now.
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But the teacher, it can be
malleable because the idea is
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simply just have two or three
rules that for you are so, so
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important to get from day one
because other stuff you
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obviously can enforce.
You can say it's important to
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do.
I'm not saying other rules don't
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exist, but these are the three
that you constantly do.
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And if someone breaks that rule,
you say to them, no, listen, we
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don't do that.
For year three.
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It was getting out your chair,
like I said, and it was putting
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your hand up to say something.
And it was as simple as that.
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Because from her experience,
having done year 3 for many
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years, those are the low level
things that happened
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consistently all the way from
the start to the first day.
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And it was just laying down that
rule.
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If we don't do that here, no
stop, no, we don't do that.
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What does the rule say?
And point to the rule on the
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board.
And it was really effective.
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And I've kept that all the way
through and I've done that
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whenever I've got a new class.
I've just decided on two or
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three things that I'll focus on
at that time.
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It doesn't mean nothing else is
important, but it means that
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this is our core focus.
And when we've nailed that, I'll
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swap the rule the, the new, the
OK, I'm going to bring a new
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rule in because we're so good
now.
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We know we have this hand I
don't have on the board.
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They need to remind you for 2
minutes.
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We've really established that.
Now, the next thing we're going
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to focus on now is you must do
this in your work or you must do
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that.
I think it's such a good tip
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because how many times before
you're doing this, and I know
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I've been a sucker for this
forever.
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How many times have you been
like, right here are all six of
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our rules or ten of our rules,
whatever your school does.
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And then you yourself can't
really keep on top of them.
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Like rules, like things just
slip because because you're
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doing 50 things all the time and
you just didn't notice that kid
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getting out of that chair and
they came and asked you a
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question and you just answered
it, right.
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But when it's like the one of
two rules that you're focusing
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on, you'll be way more hyper
aware of it.
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And so will the kids.
It will actually have an impact.
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Because I'll say again, when
you've had classes come up and
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you do notice some classes, you
can tell where teachers have
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absolutely hammered stuff like
this, whether it's like like you
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in, in year 3 and the other
teacher, because when they do
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get to year 6, it's so embedded
those particular rules, then you
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can focus on other things that
you said.
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So it does make a really good
impact on you in the time and
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also your partner, teachers and
fellow professionals will be
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thanking you I think in future
years.
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It's that, isn't it?
It's this idea of we say across
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everything that when we're
focusing on something, even if
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it's like professional
development like we did, we did,
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we did a podcast episode
recently about new teachers and
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how to learn.
And when they go and watch a
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different teacher teach, focus
on one thing, focus on
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behaviour, improve that.
And then once you've got that,
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move on to something else.
Because I feel like as a
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teacher, it can be so easy to
fall into that trap of thinking
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we have to fix everything
immediately and be perfect from
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day one.
It's not going to happen.
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OK, But like, you're absolutely
right.
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Your, your point you made, there
was, was exactly what happened,
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which was I would find myself
saying to the class, no, no, of
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course we don't get out of our
check.
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No, we don't shout out.
But then even if just one kid
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goes 42 and I go, yes, well
done.
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What am I doing?
At that point?
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I'm saying, OK, well, that I'm
rewarding this child for
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essentially breaking a rule.
And then someone else might
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think, oh, we did it.
I'll do it as well.
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What?
You just, you didn't tell him
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off when he got the answer
right.
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Why you telling me off?
So it just allowed me to be
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like, OK, look, the other stuff
that might slip, fine, but this
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won't for any of us.
And the kids bought into it.
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And you know what?
It really had an impact.
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I thought really quickly.
Yeah, definitely.
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It reminds me a bit of I did the
same.
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I did the same thing with
toilets, letting kids go to the
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toilet.
Obviously you let kids go to the
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toilet, but there's been
occasions where we're just about
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to sit down and say, oh, just
give it a minute, we'll start.
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We'll just let me just finish
literally my sentence rather
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than interrupting mid.
And then you can go and another
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kid might say, and you go, yeah,
yeah, off you go.
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And you think, Oh my God, you've
got to, you have to be
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consistent.
It's so bad to be inconsistent I
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think with things like toilets
and behaviour rules and all that
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sort of stuff.
So yeah, really good tip.
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Another one from me is a bit of
a smaller tip, just like a quick
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win.
I think at the start of the
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year, I, I implemented this as
quick as I could during my
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career, which is just learn the
kids names like ASAP.
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I, I think in my first year I
did it anyway because I was, you
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know, working every single day
of the summer.
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As we established in a previous
episode, I was just constantly
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working because I was scared of
starting the job.
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But I think in subsequent years
I did start to get a bit more
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relaxed and, and maybe it'd be a
week or two weeks before I'd
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finally learn everyone's names.
I don't think that was good
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practise because after that I
was like, no, it's obviously
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better for the kids sake and
just for your sake really to
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just know all the kids names.
And if you're like me and you
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find it quite hard to remember
that much, just remember.
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I'm amazed you're here today.
I just happened to be here.
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I was hoping there was going to
be some food lying around or
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something and you were like,
should we record?
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Do the podcast.
Oh.
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Yeah, very nice.
You've eaten all the whisper
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gold, so I guess I'll come up
here and do that.
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So yeah, why is it important
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I think it's just for fostering
that bond with the kids.
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Like in the same way it's if you
work somewhere.
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Yeah.
If you worked somewhere and the
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head teacher didn't know your
name after we, you'd be a bit
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like, come on, like learn my
name is, is basic courtesy.
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You know what I mean?
So, but you can do things if
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you're, if you're just not very
good at remembering, make it a
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game.
What?
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What was the thing you did?
Was it something you did?
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You rhyme the name or something?
Yeah, like this, this was
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something as well that we I did
on transition day because you
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tend to meet your class most,
most places in the country in
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England will have a transition
day at the end of the previous
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year where you meet your, your
classmates, their teacher, and
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you meet the class.
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establish like names.
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joke.
I'd, I'd, I'd tell them I need
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to learn your name.
You need to learn one name,
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which is my name.
I need to learn 32.
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That's a lot, isn't it?
And we make a joke and it's
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funny.
So we just break the ice
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straight away because what I
wouldn't want is it to then be
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like, you know, half an hour in,
I don't know someone's name and
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I'm pretending like, oh, oh,
hello, you.
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I do know your name.
No awkward.
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The kids, they're kids.
Just be really honest with them
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and then make it fun.
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game, really simple one, where I
said to them, you're with your
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partner now or you're in your
table.
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You need to think of an
adjective that you can put with
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your name that makes an
alliterative sentence
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alliteration.
So for example, for Dylan, it
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might be like dynamic Dylan, or
for Hayden, it might be hairy
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Hayden.
Obviously not in your case,
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probably not.
But for the children would then
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have fun thinking of a word and
they talk about each other.
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And then it would help me kind
of anchor their name with a word
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and I'd find myself being able
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instead of just thinking of
James, I'd be thinking of
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jumping James.
And instead of just thinking of
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Holly, I'd be thinking of happy
Holly.
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And it would like it would help
me to kind of embed that.
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And then the kid could call
themselves that.
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And in that lesson, what I had
with them for the first day, the
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rule was that I am promote.
I imposed is I had to say their
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full name.
Yeah, that was part of it.
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And I go, oh, you're the you're
the happy one, aren't you?
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And they're like, yeah.
And I'm like, OK, it's an H like
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I'd get a little bit.
Surprised.
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Why do you keep calling me
boring Billy?
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Well, you know, it's a
literation makeover, all right.
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Some of the kids did did choose
some adjectives.
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I was like, I actually can't use
those, so let's think of a
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different one because I cannot
have, no matter what the context
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is, the head teacher walk around
everything OK in here and I'm in
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the middle of saying boring
Billy or something like that.
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Has to be positive.
Yeah, well, that's a much nice
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way of doing it.
Like my 1 is a bit more boring,
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but I just get the kids to make
like a little name label as
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well.
So they have a bit of card, They
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fold it over and they design it
and it's quite cute.
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And they just put it on the
table facing me and I'm like,
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guys, and I'm like you, I make
the joke.
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I think I don't know all your
names yet.
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Takes me a bit of time.
So I don't like pointing.
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But if I'm pointing at you
saying boy, then I don't know
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your name yet, so maybe have
your card.
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I'll have all sorts of jokes.
Boy at the back, boy at the
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back.
Yes, you.
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I say I can't see your card.
So as I would as I would give
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you a name, you know, silly
things like that.
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But I do really, really make the
effort to learn them.
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Now in the middle of your
career, couldn't get by those
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kids.
Yeah, no, not those ones,
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absolutely not.
But I think I just think it's
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important.
Yeah, fostering that bond as
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early as you can by learning
their names.
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Very simple trick, but worth
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Big thing for me, moving on from
hapless Hayden and his
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inability.
You've been made for a long
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time.
Big one for me, the old one.
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From here we go every random
point for this podcast.
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You could have something not.
Random points, specifically when
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you're mid, like mid sentence,
right in a right in a moment
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you're about to say something
useful.
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Maybe we could have, if anyone's
listening to this, they could
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comment down below of what their
name would be.
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Yeah, yeah, we could do that,
right?
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Anyway, big one for me, and this
is not just a pedagogical tool,
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it's also a tool I think for
behaviour, for everything, which
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is to model, model, model,
model.
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Because I think my, my issue I
had earlier on my career was
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that I kind of assumed the kids
knew how to act.
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How many times you found
yourself as a teacher saying
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year 4, we're not in year 3
anymore?
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Yes.
We're not in down in Year 2.
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What's going on?
And it's like it's such an easy
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thing to say as if we've built
this idea in our head of what a
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year three child looks like and
what they can do and how they
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behave.
And, you know, just showing the
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children how you want them to
behave will make it more likely
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that they do that.
So you should model everything.
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And I'm talking about obviously
in lessons, you should be
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modelling the answers and the
working out and the way you want
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to do things and how you want
them to write, et cetera.
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But I'm talking about a separate
point here, like model your
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manners, model how you talk to
other people and how you say
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please and you don't just demand
things like I'm the teacher,
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give me respect.
No, model these things, be nice
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to the children, give them
leeway, say please and thank you
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and you know, lining up.
Practise it, practise lining up,
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don't just line up and then when
they don't do it probably the
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first time, excuse me, that's
not how we line up in it are.
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You the reception.
Yeah, just no, don't do that.
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Just say to them, Romney, it's
practise, obviously.
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Don't we have a minute
practising, Have a minute
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practising them going, you know,
handing out books, etcetera.
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I think my point here is don't
just assume they know how to do
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stuff.
Model it for them and then 234
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times down the line you start
going, we've done this, what are
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you doing you?
Can't exactly do it.
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Yeah, almost like modelling
expectations, like inconsistent.
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Like you said, it links with
only other points, but even with
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the I think of the lining up
thing, it's such a classic thing
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to top load that beginning of
the year, everyone will be like
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super harsh getting all the kids
to line up and you Fast forward
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to the end of the year.
How often has that slipped a bit
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and people aren't, you know,
holding the kids accountable as
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much anymore, You know, just
just being consistent modelling
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all the time.
This is the expectation and it
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does stay the same by the way,
across the year.
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You are however exposing because
I'm sat here thinking a
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compilation running through my
head of how many times.
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Obviously you tell kids not to
throw stuff in the classroom and
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I can just imagine me countless
time sat there with an empty
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glue be like trying to lob it
into the bin across the room
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thinking, oh this is absolutely
not modelling.
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Right kids, listen, it's really
important to eat healthfully
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That's why we don't have any
chocolate or anything like that
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at break time walks into your
break time eating a share bag of
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whispers or.
Something that was always
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whisper goals, isn't it?
How many whisper goals do you
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reckon we eat in our?
Too many, too many graceful next
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tip have a stash in your
cupboard.
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Have a snack stash.
They've made this tip up because
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actually it's really aborted.
Have a stash.
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Have a little secret stash where
you can just go to and you know
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you can just get that snack.
You just there.
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You think I just need something?
Maybe, Probably not.
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Like a gin.
Don't put a gin.
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Yeah, yeah, probably avoid the
alcohol, but bananas, apples,
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you know, that's what we.
Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, crisps, more
crisps and maybe a few more
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crisps.
Yeah, you are such a crisp fan.
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The amount of times I've gone
into Dylan's cupboard and
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there's been a multi pack of
crisps.
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Yep, empty, obviously, because,
you know, why put the wrapper in
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the bin when when you can leave
it in the cupboard and I'll be
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like, Oh yeah, she's been
cracking on with these.
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Have you?
Yeah, I bought them this
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morning.
No I sorry a whole multi pack.
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This is a gross
misrepresentation.
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Yeah, Because what would happen
is I would have bought them
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three days ago and I would have
eaten them three days ago, and
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the wrappers did this gross
misrepresentation.
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Something else we want to talk
about is doing jobs in bulk.
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We've said this a million times,
haven't we?
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And we're specifically talking
about here those mindless jobs
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that you just have to get done
that can be so much more
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efficient to do in bulk.
But you and I always should put
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off, put off, put off.
But really it we should get them
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done.
Yeah, there's the one that comes
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to mind, and it might be quite
specific to our school, but I'm
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sure if you're listening, you
can think of your version of
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this, right?
Is at our school, we have had
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reading certificates.
And it's one of those things
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where realistically, I do expect
every kid in my class to get to
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the first tier.
So we have like a bronze,
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silver, gold based on how much
they've read essentially.
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And it's like everyone's going
to get the bronze at some point
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this year.
But what is really annoying is
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they get the bronze and then I
have to print the certificate
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and write it because we back it
as well.
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If some of us do want to print
it on card or whatever, But it's
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just an annoying thing to do on
the go.
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Whereas I could just print 32
and if I want to back them, I
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can back 32 in one go.
Just do it in bulk.
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So the overall tip here is to
think in bulk.
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Is there a job that is worth the
time investment at the start
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because it will save you so much
time on going through the year
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where it would be really
annoying to have to do one of
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the 32 things?
If you can do that, just do it
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in bulk.
Think in bulk.
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Yeah, do you know it'd be even
quicker not doing it.
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Don't bother.
Just don't do it.
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Well done.
Kids, stop at the bit where you
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think in bulk.
Think in bulk, don't action in
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bulk.
Well, actually I have, You know
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that on the list of 23 jobs
teachers shouldn't do because
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it's admin.
It is bulk photocopying,
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actually.
Oh, fair enough.
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Yeah.
So actually, yeah, it shouldn't
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actually be having to do that.
Shouldn't actually have to be
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doing but but I tell you what,
if I've got to do the
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photocopying because of my
lessons, I might just do it in
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bulk.
Anyway to answer it exactly?
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No, I think that's a good tip.
And can you think of any other
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jobs like that that you can just
get done in bulk?
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For me, what what I always found
myself doing like at certain
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points in a year when children
start finishing their exercise
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book and I'm like, oh, I just.
I I should just, I should out
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the cupboard, just take enough
for another set so that my class
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can just take a book.
I never do.
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I take like 2.
Yeah.
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And then I'll take two, right.
I'll take two.
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I'll go around the next day,
three people to finish.
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I'll go back exactly the same.
So little things like that way.
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Just think ahead, like your kids
are going to need another mass
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book at some point.
So just have enough mass books
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there.
Even just, you know, have it a
392
00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,320
system in place so that if they
ever get to that point, you can
393
00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:20,960
just take it out.
And I'm talking here about
394
00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,560
things that literally, genuinely
take you no time whatsoever,
395
00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,200
just organisation.
Yeah, just do it.
396
00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,480
And we, we've been quite lucky
because we've worked in schools
397
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where at least they just have to
write their name on the book.
398
00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,480
It's quite common for a lot of
schools.
399
00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,400
They'll have covers.
They have to print and trim a
400
00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,800
cover and stick it on the book.
And I remember I've worked in
401
00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,000
school like that before, and the
best thing I ever did was doing
402
00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,040
it in bulk at the start of the
year.
403
00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,240
I was like, obviously they're
going to need a mass book too.
404
00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,760
Yeah, at some point.
So I just, when I printed Mass
405
00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,520
Book 1, I just printed 32 of
Mass Book 2 as well.
406
00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:49,760
Yeah.
And just also stuck them on.
407
00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,200
I was like, well, that that
job's just done.
408
00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,680
You know what that really there.
The point there is to not do
409
00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:55,920
that.
Yeah, yeah, I know.
410
00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:56,280
I.
Agree.
411
00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,960
Covering a book wasn't that
pointless.
412
00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,960
Completely pointless, yeah.
And that that I suppose it's not
413
00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,720
really a tip again, but thinking
of smashing September.
414
00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,720
I do think I'm kind of making
this point up now, by the way.
415
00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,680
You should have a list of
things, right?
416
00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,520
That you have just predetermined
that even if you think is a
417
00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,960
waste of time and stupid and
pointless, if you've decided
418
00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:17,960
you're gonna do them because you
just ask, okay?
419
00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,480
I don't necessarily agree with
this, but okay, whatever.
420
00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:25,000
I'm just gonna do it then.
Don't let it eat into your brain
421
00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,680
constantly.
Oh, this is pointless.
422
00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,480
Oh, this is stupid.
Because it's so easy to get
423
00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:31,200
negative so quickly in a school
field of things like that.
424
00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,960
If you decided, you know, you
got to do it, try not to just
425
00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:35,240
let that eat away.
You eat away.
426
00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,480
And like you said, if you're
doing it in bulk, you can just
427
00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,960
get it done because you're not
going to then on like, you know,
428
00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,000
it's 5:30 on a random Tuesday
and you've done everything you
429
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,640
need to do just to stay afloat
in the job.
430
00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,320
And you're like, ah, I'm not
covered.
431
00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,920
Maths Book 2 for these six kids.
Yeah, just don't have to worry
432
00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,240
about it anymore.
Yeah, I think that that really
433
00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,440
would.
That's a really good tip and
434
00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,600
thinking about the start of the
year.
435
00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,840
Now you've done all these other
things, you've started learning
436
00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,000
their names, you've got your
bulks jobs done up, up front and
437
00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,360
ready to go.
It's day one, however, and you
438
00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,600
know this class because of the
previous teacher.
439
00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:06,319
How important do you think it is
that you give those children a
440
00:17:06,319 --> 00:17:09,000
clean?
Oh, God, yeah, yeah.
441
00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:14,040
So that that's huge.
I think when you do handover
442
00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:18,040
talks with the previous teacher,
there is information you have to
443
00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:19,240
know.
Yeah, there is certain
444
00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,680
information you have to.
Having a complete blank slate
445
00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,599
would be really counter
intuitive because there'd be
446
00:17:24,599 --> 00:17:27,000
certain things you need to know
about that child, you know, who
447
00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,640
can't pick them up from school,
right, If they have an allergy
448
00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,320
that you need to know about.
And also just maybe even to an
449
00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,720
extent, relationships within the
class, this person and that
450
00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,400
person really clashed.
We're to the parents before we
451
00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,640
have this dialogue, you need to
know that as the teacher,
452
00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,600
because the last thing you'd
want to do is to go to your new
453
00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,360
your new class, have a new
seating plan.
454
00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:47,360
And then after school, one of
the parents is like, we've we've
455
00:17:47,360 --> 00:17:49,160
agreed these don't sit together.
Yeah, yeah.
456
00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:50,760
So clearly you need to know
certain things about the
457
00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:52,560
children.
So when we say giving children a
458
00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,600
clean slate, we mean in terms of
and we've all sat there and
459
00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,520
we've all listened.
I've probably done this passing
460
00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,000
on a class as well.
I've I've definitely experienced
461
00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,400
it when I've heard information
from their previous class
462
00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,280
teacher where, you know, you say
something.
463
00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,720
Oh, this one, yeah, you know,
and I mean, it just sets the
464
00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,720
tone, doesn't it?
But you go through your class.
465
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:12,360
Oh, lovely.
Yep, this ones.
466
00:18:12,360 --> 00:18:13,560
Fantastic.
Really cracks on.
467
00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,640
Oh.
X name, Y name and and it just
468
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:23,080
immediately as the new teacher
put you back up a bit and I'm
469
00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,920
just, have you ever had this
before right where you kind of
470
00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,760
don't like someone?
I'm talking about someone in
471
00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,440
general, not even in your class
now, but you kind of don't like
472
00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:31,840
them and they kind of irritate
you.
473
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,320
And they could do something that
if anyone else did, you wouldn't
474
00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,520
bat an eyelid.
But because it's that person
475
00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,760
doing it, it's that person
eating their Doritos in a
476
00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,320
certain way, you think, oh God,
what an idiot.
477
00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:43,640
You just hate them.
I'm.
478
00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:44,920
A human.
Of course I do.
479
00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,760
There's people in life that just
irritate you more.
480
00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,160
And then because they irritate
you already, they're all that.
481
00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,040
Yeah, I predispose to irritate
you more, right.
482
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:52,920
Same things that other people
could do and not irritate you.
483
00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,160
Like, Yeah.
So I found myself when I've when
484
00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,080
I've had this preemption of this
child of knowing, oh, it's a
485
00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,560
naughty or it's a little pickle
or this, this person pushes the
486
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,600
boat.
This person does that.
487
00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:05,680
I found myself when they then do
that being much harsher, much
488
00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,360
quickly with them then literally
a person next to them maybe who
489
00:19:08,360 --> 00:19:10,640
might have done the same thing.
But I've got this glowing report
490
00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,360
of how great they are.
And I go, oh, yeah, that's no
491
00:19:12,360 --> 00:19:13,640
problem.
And that's not fair.
492
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,440
Yeah.
And I think what every single
493
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,760
child deserves starting in
September is that blank slate.
494
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,800
By all means, if they're
breaking the rules, you tell
495
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:21,680
them what to not to do.
And you were remind them.
496
00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,760
And absolutely, I'm not saying
don't tell children off or don't
497
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,720
remind them of things, but it's
that preemption.
498
00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:28,600
I, I would want to treat every
single child the same in terms
499
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,840
of that and then react only from
what they do.
500
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,720
Because I'd make a big thing at
the start of the year of saying
501
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,520
we're in a clean slate here.
Brand new class.
502
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,960
Let's crack on.
Let's be the best class we can
503
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,280
be.
Yeah, I think the worst possible
504
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,560
thing you can do from a kids
perspective is that they know
505
00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,400
they've misbehaved in the
previous year as they come up
506
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:44,920
and instantly realise that
you're already treating them
507
00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,360
differently.
Yeah, because, because you've
508
00:19:46,360 --> 00:19:48,800
made a, you know, a judgement
already and they're like written
509
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,640
you off already.
That's it, that you've lost them
510
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:51,840
straight away.
They think, oh, they're just
511
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,040
like my last teacher.
They just don't like me.
512
00:19:53,360 --> 00:19:55,800
That's what they think.
I mean, obviously the last
513
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,680
teacher did not like them, but
kids think that they say, oh,
514
00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,160
that she doesn't like me.
That's why they're, that's why
515
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,800
I'm in trouble and.
Realistically, sometimes
516
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,080
teachers absolutely make it
clear they don't like certain
517
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,240
children.
Yeah, yeah, that is true.
518
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,600
Yeah, yeah.
But but at the end of the day,
519
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,440
like we don't want a new kid in
your class to be thinking that.
520
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,800
And then you're right, they
deserve a fresh start.
521
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,760
They deserve the rules to be
applied from them, from sort of
522
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,920
the base again.
And if they break the rules,
523
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,720
it's that's that's up to them,
isn't it?
524
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,600
And then the the same
punishments can be applied, you
525
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,040
know, But I think it's very
important.
526
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,400
Are there extremities to that
rule?
527
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,160
Are there certain children you
think you know?
528
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,400
Actually, I do just have to
treat you differently from the
529
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,800
start because of what you've
done and how you've been.
530
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,800
I can't think of a good example,
but they're I'm sure there is
531
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,920
like on the absolute extreme
scale or someone who's maybe
532
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,560
really violent or something like
that, you know, the history of
533
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,400
violence where you wouldn't just
be like, I'll just give them a
534
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,600
chance and it's not worth the
risk.
535
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,760
It's like we actually know
they're consistently behaving
536
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,440
like this for any adult.
Maybe don't you know, don't just
537
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,120
presume no, but.
It's for safety.
538
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,760
Yeah, it's all right, but
someone's just shouts out a bit
539
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,400
more.
I'm not going to immediately be
540
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,000
on them more.
And there's, you know, I think,
541
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:54,920
I think you just have to be
fair.
542
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,160
And then what I've quite often
done is when you're trying to
543
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,520
foster relationships, which
really is the ultimate meta
544
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,800
point that we're thinking about
here, isn't it?
545
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,200
It's about having really nice
positive relationships with all
546
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,440
the kids in your class.
When I've had these children
547
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,440
have come up with these reports,
I'm thinking, oh, here we go.
548
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:08,600
You know, they're going to be a
bit of a pickle.
549
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,440
I will just make the time for
them at the start of the year as
550
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,400
quick as possible to take them
aside and have that conversation
551
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:14,400
if they do something naughty
about.
552
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,520
Look mate, you've got a fresh
start here, OK?
553
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,920
I'm not going to treat you any
differently to the rest of the
554
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,040
class.
But the I'm going to give you.
555
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,360
A special talk.
You know, it is kind of in a
556
00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:23,760
way, isn't it?
But it's like a psychological
557
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,120
thing of like, I'm telling you
right now that I'm really
558
00:21:26,120 --> 00:21:28,440
actively trying to not tarnish
you with the label that you've
559
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,880
clearly given yourself in
previous years.
560
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,400
I am giving you a fresh start.
Don't blow it like I'm giving
561
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,600
you that chance.
And I think sometimes kids
562
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,160
appreciate hearing that, that
you're not just going to assume,
563
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,880
Oh no, you're just not, I'm
going to write you off.
564
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,480
What would you say to someone
listening who's thinking, Oh
565
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,320
yeah, I need these top tips and
they're maybe, you know, they're
566
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,680
going to school and they try and
implement this and then that
567
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,760
child just slips into exactly
what they were last time.
568
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,120
Would you say to them, OK, look
at least try?
569
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,160
That is it.
At least try.
570
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,200
I'm not going to sit here and
pretend that like there's this
571
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,600
perfect reality whereby doing
this little thing that I just
572
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,240
said, it works, it's worked.
My success rate of that is
573
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,720
probably like 20% sure.
Like in all honesty, I'll try it
574
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,440
with all the kids and sometimes
it works, which is the only
575
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,400
reason I'm given that tip.
But there are sometimes where
576
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,440
it's it doesn't work and and I
can't, I can't completely
577
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,560
control how someone behaves.
I can put as much in as possible
578
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,320
in the same way a parent can and
a family can, but at the end of
579
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,440
the day, like I'm not actually
their brain, I can't actually
580
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,760
just make them behave a certain
way.
581
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,280
I can try my best, that's it.
So this, this is kind of the
582
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,200
point I'm getting at in terms of
these tips are really vital and
583
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,320
important.
But I think 1 tip we can
584
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:34,320
extrapolate from this in general
is be kind to yourself.
585
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,880
You know, give yourself some
leave.
586
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,440
Wait, not everything is your
fault.
587
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,240
Like, you know, you can't do
everything for those children.
588
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:45,160
I saw this amazing analogy the
other day and it was this person
589
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,560
sat there and they said, if you
hire a personal trainer to train
590
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,720
you, to train you up, to get you
in shape to, to keep you
591
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,280
accountable and then you don't
show up to the gym, would you
592
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,120
ever blame the personal trainer?
No, that's of course not.
593
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,160
That's on you.
Of course not.
594
00:22:59,360 --> 00:23:01,640
So when a child is actively
deciding not to join into the
595
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,040
lesson, is actively deciding to
play up, is not putting effort
596
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,520
in, why on earth do we turn to
just simply blaming the teacher
597
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,480
and saying, well, actually, and
just I can imagine this idea of
598
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,240
just turning to the teacher
going, well, what did you do to
599
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,000
encourage them?
What did you do to make this an
600
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,960
environment where they might
want to not throw that chair?
601
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,520
What did you do to make sure
that they are interested in
602
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,640
their learning all the time?
And what I would want to say to
603
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,640
teachers is by all means, try.
By all means, do what you can.
604
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,440
But my goodness me, it is not
your fault if a child is
605
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,000
consistently doing the wrong
thing and not bothering to even
606
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,000
show any effort.
Don't beat yourself up about it.
607
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,240
Don't think, oh, these two guys
on a podcast said, just put your
608
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,520
arm around a kid and they should
be all right.
609
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,400
No, no, we're not saying that.
What we're saying is this is
610
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,880
ways you can try to do it.
But ultimately, if a child and a
611
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,880
family aren't buying into
education and aren't trying
612
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,280
their hardest and aren't doing
what they can, there comes a
613
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,200
point where you say that's on
you, mate.
614
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,240
And I'm so sorry, but I'm going
to do what I can.
615
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,560
Yeah, I'm professional.
If you're not going to even
616
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,880
remotely try to join in, that's
your fault.
617
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,080
Yeah.
You go into mitigation modes.
618
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,760
I can, I can get around this,
but there's literally I'm at my
619
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,120
limitations now.
There's nothing else I can do.
620
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,480
It's not in my power.
I think that's a really good
621
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,000
point and it's and it is a wider
point as well.
622
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,600
It's not even just that
situation like just being kind
623
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,640
to yourself, just treating
yourself like a friend.
624
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,000
It applies to another example.
Let's say you had an observation
625
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,000
at school and it didn't go as
planned.
626
00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:20,840
You know, we've all been there,
everyone, everyone's had an
627
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,920
observation where you think or
Eva, you think I just messed
628
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,440
that up.
Like that did not go to my
629
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,040
script, didn't go to my plan at
all.
630
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,920
And people are watching it and
it just all messed up.
631
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,320
You don't, you really don't need
to be horrible.
632
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,120
I've done it.
You don't have to be horrible to
633
00:24:33,120 --> 00:24:34,920
yourself.
Like it's completely pointless.
634
00:24:35,120 --> 00:24:38,280
Like you can reflect on it and
maybe think about a target and
635
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,400
move on, but you just have to
get over it and move on.
636
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,800
Like you can't beat yourself up
over 1 little thing.
637
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,200
It's how you would treat your
colleague next door who went
638
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,880
through the same thing.
That's so true, right?
639
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,680
You, you absolutely would not go
into that room and talk to that
640
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,080
colleague in the same way a lot
of people talk to themselves if
641
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,600
things go wrong.
I can, I've been in that
642
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,560
situation before where things
have gone wrong and I and I
643
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,480
really wound myself up and I've
been annoyed myself and I'm not
644
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,480
giving myself any slack
whatsoever.
645
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,920
And I've thought the worst about
myself and oh, you're a rubbish
646
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,400
teacher.
You can't even control a class.
647
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,560
You can't even do a simple maths
test and you're just doing
648
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:09,800
perimeter.
How easy is that?
649
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,480
How can you get these kids to
control themselves?
650
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,800
It's your fault.
These kids are going crazy.
651
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,600
And this feedback was bad.
No, no, no, no, just chill.
652
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:20,240
Because if you had that same
feedback, I would be the first
653
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,480
person in that room genuinely
going don't wait.
654
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,800
You can't control that.
What did you do that was really
655
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,240
good?
Yeah.
656
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,440
Next time try something
different.
657
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,440
It's not on you, but you you can
have these that you can try and
658
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,120
improve yourself.
You've got the best, best
659
00:25:31,120 --> 00:25:32,480
attitude going.
You're being reflective.
660
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,600
You're already thinking about
how you can make it better next
661
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,760
time.
Don't beat yourself up.
662
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,600
I I don't, I would not have the
same inner monologue with
663
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,280
myself.
Yeah, than I do with my friend.
664
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,360
And I just think that tip of
just treat yourself like you
665
00:25:43,360 --> 00:25:45,800
treat your mate.
I think that can flip you a lot
666
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,400
and and help you get out that
whole of that self doubt and
667
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:49,920
that self loathing.
Yeah, I agree.
668
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,480
And there's one other way you
can approach, particularly with
669
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,360
bad feedback from observations
is just do what I did and just
670
00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:57,880
sort of develop your arrogance a
little bit more and then just
671
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,880
go, Nah, the people give me the
feedback were wrong.
672
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:02,440
I did that a few times in my
career have.
673
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,640
You seen that meme of Principal
Skinner?
674
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,400
So it's from The Simpsons,
right?
675
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,760
Yeah.
It's principal who's who's head
676
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,520
of the church.
And he and he's just standing
677
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,240
there pondering something and he
goes, maybe it's me that's wrong
678
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,560
and it just cuts to him.
Nah, the children are wrong.
679
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,600
Yeah, maybe I do need to change.
Or I create a podcast where I
680
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,280
tell everyone how I'm right
instead and I become an evil
681
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,280
villain.
Yeah, but you know what, even
682
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,800
even in this meme that we're
having right now, there are two
683
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,680
prongs to it because yes, you
sometimes like I've certainly
684
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,360
done this, you've just been a
bit arrogant and thought no,
685
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:34,800
that I'm not, I'm not taking
this feedback.
686
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,080
Actually, it's got, it's got
your back up and you thought,
687
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,000
no, actually, I think I just
think they're wrong.
688
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,880
And sometimes, sometimes they
are wrong.
689
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,480
Sometimes it is just a, it's a
battle of opinions.
690
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,320
It's like an SLT member or
whoever's observing your lesson
691
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,800
might genuinely just have an
opinion on this, a particular
692
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,880
pedagogy that they that they
thought wasn't good in your
693
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,800
lesson.
And you're like, well, I add, I
694
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,680
adamantly think this is a good
thing and like, and I will
695
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,520
continue to use this.
We are just disagreeing.
696
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,480
And that does happen.
I'm not saying that happens all
697
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,360
the time.
You shouldn't, you shouldn't
698
00:27:00,360 --> 00:27:02,960
read.
I'm just just to clarify here, I
699
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,120
don't actually think you should
just dismiss all feedback ever
700
00:27:05,120 --> 00:27:06,640
as well, you're just wrong.
I'm always right.
701
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,480
Probably good to be a bit
reflective.
702
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,160
But sometimes though, like if
you end up, if the end goal is
703
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,720
you're beating yourself up about
it and they are literally just
704
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,280
wrong.
That's like doubling down.
705
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,240
You're beating yourself up over
it, and you're not even wrong
706
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,080
or.
Not even wrong, just different.
707
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,560
Like if there was only one way
to deliver stuff and the best
708
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,200
possible optimal way of teaching
ever, we'd all be doing the same
709
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,840
thing.
So it is clearly not.
710
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,840
It's clearly just an opinion.
Is it you didn't, I think I'm
711
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,960
sure it was you didn't you have
an observation once where they
712
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,000
literally like, I'm thinking
really early in your career when
713
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,800
they literally said there wasn't
any like criticism or negative
714
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,280
feedback so they had to make,
but they had.
715
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:42,760
To make something up.
Yeah, yeah, it's subject.
716
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:47,280
This, this was true.
They it's so true.
717
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,480
I had an observation once and
yeah, that basically they
718
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,680
basically the line was at the
end of it.
719
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,720
I haven't, I haven't really
written anything down.
720
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,560
I've got to put something.
Yeah, I've got to put something
721
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,360
in this could be improved
column.
722
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,600
So I'll have a think what you
think might go in there.
723
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,480
They threw it to me and I think
that's fine.
724
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,640
I think that's a good tool
actually.
725
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,680
You know what I mean in general.
But when you, when you prefaced
726
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,720
it with it was absolutely fine,
almost make something up because
727
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,720
then we can take off that you've
made that progress.
728
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,400
I'm like, OK, what is the point
in this then?
729
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,680
And I think I actually, you know
what, on that, this is kind of
730
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,560
separate, I suppose, but I'm
really passionate about that
731
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,960
because I think sometimes you
should just go to someone and
732
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,600
say well done.
Yeah, some, I think all the.
733
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,440
Time.
So I, what I'm saying is even in
734
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,760
formal observation sometimes,
like you should be doing this
735
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,880
all the time absolutely.
But but it, you know, saying
736
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,240
well done is a complete
sentence.
737
00:28:36,360 --> 00:28:38,240
You don't need to sandwich
everything.
738
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,840
You don't need to always
constantly think how could this
739
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,160
possibly be improved?
Because we know everything could
740
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,520
be improved a bit.
But you know what?
741
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,760
Sometimes, and if not most of
the time, it's enough and it's
742
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,080
good.
Yeah, they are.
743
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,320
Honestly, the worst leaders I've
experienced in my time are the
744
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,280
ones that have to sandwich
everything.
745
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,960
Everything has to be positive
and, and the next step it it
746
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,520
doesn't need to be the best
leaders I've had.
747
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,280
I've got, I'm sure they've got
an internal ratio.
748
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,120
They'll probably work on it.
They probably, it's probably a
749
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,240
management skill, a people's
skill they've developed where
750
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,720
they think, yeah, I'm going to
be just positive to these people
751
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,240
as much as I can.
And then occasionally when I
752
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,080
need to sprinkle in some
actually we need to work on this
753
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,160
thing.
They're not going to think,
754
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,080
yeah, yeah, yeah.
Everything I do is wrong, isn't
755
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,200
it?
You know, that sort of thing.
756
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,320
And Speaking of like
professional development, I
757
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,000
think that's another, that's
another tip almost is, which is
758
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,400
I'm sure we can all think of
five things we need to work on.
759
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,040
Like there, there are so many
skills involved in teaching and
760
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,120
no one is perfect at all of
them.
761
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,840
It's just not possible.
But you can be really good at
762
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,760
some things and you can maybe be
a bit weaker in other areas.
763
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,600
But when it comes to developing
them, just pick one.
764
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,880
Just pick one.
Is it your, is it your behaviour
765
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,520
management?
Is it your ability to manage a
766
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,360
TA?
Is it your curriculum knowledge
767
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:40,640
and it's specifically in
history?
768
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,440
Whatever it is, and maybe it has
come from an observation, just
769
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,800
focus on that one thing.
Don't beat yourself up over it,
770
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,840
but do just focus on the one
thing and develop it.
771
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,120
And then when it comes to it,
maybe a year later, it's a year
772
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,960
cycle.
Ask someone when they're
773
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,800
observing you say, can you, can
you specifically give me
774
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,320
feedback on this thing?
Because this is the thing I've
775
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,680
been trying to work on.
I think that's a better approach
776
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,240
than just scattergunning like,
oh, here's 19 things I've got to
777
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,440
work on and I'm a failure if I
don't do them all.
778
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,440
That's a thread that's gone
through a lot of these and I
779
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,120
think it's really important.
Basically, you can condense it
780
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,560
down to look, you are
professional, trust your
781
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,920
judgement and don't expect to
fix everything at once.
782
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,160
Like we said about the rules,
have a few at a time.
783
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,280
Nail them.
Don't expect to have perfection.
784
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,080
You have progress.
I love that saying progress, not
785
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,000
perfection.
Don't worry that everything's
786
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,840
not absolutely amazing that when
you're not spinning all your
787
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,800
plates beautifully, spin three
plates, keep them up, get them
788
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,480
perfect, and then add a plate
after.
789
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,640
Don't feel like you have to fix
everything straight away.
790
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:36,520
And this does link in with my
next tip that did transform my
791
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:43,640
scatterbrain in teaching, but
it's got the potential to be
792
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,080
used badly.
OK, there's my there's my
793
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,840
cryptic one.
I'm intrigued.
794
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,560
What could it be?
I'm talking about to do lists,
795
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,720
right.
So I remember I was two years
796
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,480
into my teaching, my second
year, I think, and my head of
797
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,000
year bought us all year in my
year group that time bought us
798
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,200
all a notepad that was
specifically A to do list, as in
799
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,480
it was had a little box at the
side you could write down your
800
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,800
lists.
And I obviously immediately
801
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960
thought to do I've never used A
to do list in my life.
802
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,680
Oh yeah, that's why I was so
scared.
803
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,840
So A to do list was vital in my
career.
804
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,280
And I'd say to anyone smashing
September now getting ready, get
805
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,440
yourself A to do list lots.
You probably already do it.
806
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,560
You might do post it notes.
You might do it electronic
807
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,360
version.
You might do it on a notepad.
808
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,400
But this isn't my main point.
My main point on how to use To
809
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,480
Do List properly is the same
thread we've just been talking
810
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,360
about, right?
Don't see it as a target for
811
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,760
each day that you've got to take
it all off.
812
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:40,000
No see it as I can now organise
and prioritise my tasks.
813
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,280
Yeah, I got you.
So when you're writing them
814
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,960
down, did you do anything in
particular with that?
815
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,280
Like to say to yourself, look,
here's every job ever that I've
816
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,440
got to do, but how did you
prioritise?
817
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,920
Was it just in your head or did
you have a system or something?
818
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,880
It's very simple.
It started off in my head and I
819
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,000
thought, you know, and at points
it was just in my head as well
820
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,040
in terms of I could just scan
the list very quickly.
821
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,000
Yeah, because I wasn't trying to
remember my list.
822
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,680
My cognitive energy could go on
just looking at the list and
823
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,480
going, OK, look, this, this,
this has to be done today like
824
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,760
that.
I've got to mark those maths
825
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,720
books for doing that tomorrow.
I've got to get this to the my
826
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,920
SLT because they've got a
meeting in the evening or
827
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,120
whatever it might be.
I've got to do these things.
828
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,280
Done, done, done.
And I'd do them and I wouldn't
829
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,000
even bother with the rest of the
list at all.
830
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,280
And then I'd look at the clock
and if it's the end of my time,
831
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,000
I'll go.
Or I'll think, well, I could do
832
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,280
that.
It's an option.
833
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,320
Something might stay on my list
for 5 minutes.
834
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,320
Something might stay on my list
for five months.
835
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:31,520
I.
Was literally about to say did
836
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,960
you ever find that you had
something on your To Do List
837
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,200
that was like you've written 47
other things since then, you
838
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,200
still not crossed that one.
Off.
839
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,560
Yeah, absolutely.
And I think that's really
840
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,640
important to know and that kind
of sums up my point that a
841
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,520
teacher's To Do List is never,
ever, ever complete.
842
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,680
Ever.
So why are we trying burn
843
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,240
ourselves out getting through
our literal To Do List in front
844
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,240
of us?
It's okay and all it served as
845
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,200
the To Do List.
And I say all it really did
846
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,480
transform how my career, to be
honest with you.
847
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,560
It's served as a way of
organising the jobs that I've
848
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:05,360
got and being able to prioritise
because I could say to myself
849
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,640
this job is just not important.
If at any point this To Do List
850
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,360
is empty apart from this job,
I'll get it done.
851
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,000
I'll do it.
Yeah.
852
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,000
What's that you wanted to do?
Some displays in the corridor of
853
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,960
the hallway, which no one sees.
OK, cool.
854
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,960
It's gone on my To Do List.
But I think you would understand
855
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,280
that if I rank that as a three
on my To Do List, the ones of me
856
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,680
actually planning the lesson for
the children tomorrow, that kind
857
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,200
of needs to get done.
First Yeah, and the problem is
858
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,880
the teachers like that is
exactly it's like would you Mr
859
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,720
or Mrs SLT would you rather I've
got an hour left of the time
860
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,240
that you're paying me for?
Would you rather I planned a
861
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,520
lesson for next week or did this
display is one or the other just
862
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,800
having that mindset, isn't it of
I'm not an end.
863
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,920
It's not an endless list and I
don't have endless time.
864
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,880
I absolutely fell into that trap
for the first few years of my
865
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,800
career.
I would write, I'd have, I had A
866
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,480
to do list.
Unlike you, however, it was
867
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,760
just, I wrote things down and I
just did them in that order,
868
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,080
right?
Like I didn't prioritise and it
869
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,400
was kind of like every job is of
equal weighting.
870
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,040
And if it takes me till 8:00 PM,
then that's just how it goes
871
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,360
because the teacher job never
ends.
872
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:01,640
What?
What effect did it have on you?
873
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,520
And like, why?
Why did that change?
874
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:04,840
What made that change?
Was it just you?
875
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,520
Burning out now I was burning
out like as as my life became
876
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,520
more busy, just not just normal
things like we moved house in my
877
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,440
second or second year of
teaching.
878
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,239
I think maybe third year we, we
bought our first house together.
879
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,520
So that obviously just came with
mortgage payments and actually
880
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,400
just living in your own house
rather than living with your
881
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,679
parents.
Mortgage payments famously take
882
00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:22,040
every.
Time.
883
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,880
I know I really, I was saying I
was like, that's probably the
884
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,960
worst time consuming thing I
can.
885
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,120
Ever think about separate debit
to the 2 minutes?
886
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,600
Don't worry, I told Lauren that.
Yeah, I'll tell you what,
887
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,840
Lauren.
This is my car.
888
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,040
This is my 50% of house chores.
Crikey, this this mortgage
889
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,760
payment does take me some bloody
time.
890
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,840
I'll tell you that.
It takes me.
891
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,840
It's weird, it takes me an exact
amount of time cleaning, cooking
892
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,040
and then doing all the do you?
Mind doing dinner tonight, love?
893
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,800
Because I've, I'm just really,
I've just got to pay this
894
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,639
mortgage.
Bill sound more misogynistic at
895
00:34:46,639 --> 00:34:47,639
that.
Point I'm playing a part.
896
00:34:47,639 --> 00:34:50,600
It wasn't really like that,
honestly, but.
897
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,880
For the sake of doubt anyone
listening, yeah, I was.
898
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,480
Playing a role there if you
didn't get my sweet acting
899
00:34:56,679 --> 00:35:00,560
abilities there.
But going back to my point of my
900
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:01,840
To Do List.
Mortgages take ages.
901
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,480
Mortgages take ages and I was
burning out.
902
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,200
I just couldn't do that To Do
List when the mortgage was on
903
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,360
that list, but it was I was
burning out.
904
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,520
Basically, I remember you
talking to me almost relaying a
905
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,000
conversation you had with a
leader who is sent.
906
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,760
And because it was from a
leader, I think it stuck with
907
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,160
you a bit more because you were
like thinking I'm pandering to
908
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,560
you doing everything you asked
me to do.
909
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,840
That leader said something along
the lines of if it's that
910
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,880
important, they'll chase you up.
Yeah, it was.
911
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,480
It was it was like the best,
worst advice I've ever had in
912
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:29,080
terms of like it sounds terrible
when if a leader says to you, I
913
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,360
just don't do it, they'll chase
you up.
914
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,160
It sounds objectively awful.
But that the undertones was was
915
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,760
really vital.
I never forgot it which was.
916
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,480
The reason it sounds awful is
because they're the ones.
917
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,160
I know, and obviously, and
they're kind of speaking on
918
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,000
behalf of other, you might
disagree with that.
919
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,120
So I felt like, oh, I was about
like, oh, this is naughty.
920
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,400
But it was true though, and it
did work.
921
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,520
There were some things when I
started prioritising that went
922
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,040
to the bottom of that list that
I thought someone else is happy
923
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,160
to do.
This is therefore it's so
924
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,080
important because I couldn't
possibly, possibly make someone
925
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,680
else think that I can't do
something because you I was a
926
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,760
proper people pleaser.
So I'd always, I'd always value
927
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,080
it more just because they asked
me, by the way, not because it's
928
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,960
actually important.
And then, yeah, it's like, oh,
929
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,720
hang on, I left that for three
weeks and they never asked for
930
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:07,600
it again.
Even they don't think it was
931
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:08,920
important.
They actually forgot.
932
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,600
It's that unimportant.
And I had it up here on a
933
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,640
pedestal.
So yeah, prioritising hierarchy,
934
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,920
whatever you want to call it
with your To Do List, have the
935
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,040
To Do List in the 1st place.
Step one, the bit that Dylan can
936
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,520
do really easy.
Everyone do, everyone can do
937
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,120
that.
Step 2, the important bit.
938
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,640
Yeah, prioritise it.
And not every job is equal.
939
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,280
Which comes from a really strict
line that you set yourself, like
940
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,680
you said, how do I know when to
not do any more of the To Do
941
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,360
List?
Because you've set yourself a
942
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,200
time.
You say, Oh no, no, guys, it's
943
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,360
half.
It's 5:30.
944
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,320
Like it's ridiculous.
I could have set my time for
945
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,960
5:00 or 4:45, whatever it might
be.
946
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,760
I've set my time here.
And if I can't get it done,
947
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,280
tough.
No, no, not later.
948
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,880
No, no, no, I won't get that
done after.
949
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,400
Actually, it's not.
You know what I'm going to do?
950
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,960
I'm going to come into work
tomorrow and anytime I get, I'll
951
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,120
continue to work for my list.
And this kind of bleeds in
952
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,480
again, a lot of these linked
together.
953
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,600
I was just thinking this links
to one of our other tips.
954
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:55,600
I'm hoping you're going the same
place I'm.
955
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,040
Thinking it's always as if 321
pay mortgage quickly I'll.
956
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,560
Tell you what 321 build routine.
Yes.
957
00:37:02,240 --> 00:37:04,600
And that, you know, I don't ever
want to come across
958
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,280
condescending because I know
sometimes when we do episodes
959
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,960
like this, you think because
people know this and I know a
960
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,880
lot of what we said today you're
aware of, but hopefully we're
961
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,120
just being very specific and
helping you out with those
962
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,840
nuances and it should really
help you smash it.
963
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:19,240
But building a routine is, is
completely vital.
964
00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:23,440
And part of that routine for me
was building the resilience and
965
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,320
the confidence to say, Nah,
that's, that's the end of my
966
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,760
time.
Because as a teacher, you
967
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,080
haven't actually got a clock off
time.
968
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,240
Regardless as to what people
might say online about those
969
00:37:31,240 --> 00:37:34,920
bloody lefty wokey teachers just
eating their tofu at lunchtime
970
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,280
doing their ticky talkies and
don't know if they're leaving
971
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,040
school that are free when the
kids do.
972
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,920
Disclaimer also playing a
character just in case anyone
973
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,360
thinks that's real as well.
Yeah, we don't leave where the
974
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,080
kids leave, honestly saying it,
but like, there's no cut off.
975
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,160
You, you, you honestly could
work until 8:00 PM every day if
976
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,520
you wanted to.
You have to build your own
977
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,840
routine.
That says no, no, I'm, I'm, my
978
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,360
routine is, I'm leaving at this
time.
979
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,920
Yeah.
And I'm going to go home.
980
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,440
I'm going to make my dinner.
I'm going to go and do whatever
981
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,680
my hobby is because on a Tuesday
I'll go and play football, 5
982
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,400
aside.
Or on a Thursday I'll go to my
983
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:06,760
chess club and play chess with
my mates.
984
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,800
Yeah, on a Friday I'll go and do
Dungeons and Dragons.
985
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,440
Whatever it is, whatever you've
got that you like doing, I don't
986
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,000
like whatever it is.
Build your own routine and and
987
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,000
within that routine, obviously
you're going to be malleable
988
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,560
because there might be times
where do you know what it would
989
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,240
help me actually just to get
this work done.
990
00:38:21,240 --> 00:38:24,480
I'll do an extra half hour.
But you should try as much as
991
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,080
possible to have non negotiables
in that way.
992
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,080
That's why I was going to say
have building non negotiables.
993
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,600
Like you said.
If you want to change your own
994
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,360
non negotiable on the one off,
then obviously that's fine.
995
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,160
But generally other people need
to know that's your baseline
996
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,160
that you don't.
You don't get to choose SLC or
997
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,360
another member of staff whatever
to change my non negotiable
998
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:42,800
time.
It just doesn't work like that.
999
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,040
So build it in, have a I think
right now if you don't already
1000
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,600
have that, what could it be?
Because maybe like listening to
1001
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,720
a podcast about teaching on your
way to work every Monday morning
1002
00:38:50,720 --> 00:38:51,800
and Wednesday morning when we're
really.
1003
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,420
Sorry on the way home you say to
SD and I'm sorry my non
1004
00:38:54,420 --> 00:38:57,840
negotiable time 3:30 I leave
this school and I listen to the
1005
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,120
podcast.
That's just how it works.
1006
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,840
When the podcast told me that's
OK and I can play FTA if you
1007
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,360
want.
Yeah, I don't think though you
1008
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,760
think sometimes it sounds silly,
but I've met, I've, I tell you
1009
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,760
what, the majority of teachers
I've met literally don't have a
1010
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:10,880
non negotiable.
They're like, Oh yeah, I don't
1011
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,240
really.
I don't really build in any time
1012
00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:13,640
for me.
I just, if I've got time, I'll
1013
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,080
do something.
It's like, no, no, no, think the
1014
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,560
other way around.
Build that in first, then don't
1015
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,320
let things interrupt that.
That's your time.
1016
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,280
It's like when people say, oh,
I've got half time and I'm so
1017
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:23,960
burnt out and exhausted.
I can't, I don't even have the
1018
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,280
energy to do anything for
myself.
1019
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,480
So those people who don't build
it in as part of their weekly
1020
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,680
routine never get it.
No, because they're they're
1021
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,960
burning out during term time.
I've not got time for myself.
1022
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,280
I've just got to get this done.
I've got working at the weekend.
1023
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,800
Do you know, it's all right
though, because when I get to
1024
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,720
the half term, I'll be for me.
They get there and they're done
1025
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,240
in.
They haven't planned anything
1026
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,240
because and that that's what
makes me sad.
1027
00:39:42,240 --> 00:39:44,120
And you know, if it works your
life and you want to do that
1028
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,840
crack on, you know, fantastic
for you.
1029
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,360
But if you're struggling with it
and you haven't yet tried to do
1030
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,080
this and you haven't yet built
in that routine and that end
1031
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,320
goal and actually other things
as well in your time that you
1032
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,800
could be doing, that's something
you should really try and do as
1033
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,320
soon as possible.
I've got a good non negotiable
1034
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:00,480
for you.
It's one of our tips.
1035
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,560
It's regarding emails.
It's, it's a very small one, but
1036
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,720
it's, it's vital.
Take the app off your phone.
1037
00:40:07,720 --> 00:40:10,200
Do not have your work emails on
your phone.
1038
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,240
Again, like, like Dylan said,
look, if you really want to,
1039
00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:15,880
it's, it is ultimately your
choice, but I'm advising you for
1040
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,520
your own mental health and
burnout and all this stuff, just
1041
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,960
don't look at emails outside of
a certain a certain time.
1042
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,200
I mean, that's your point, isn't
it?
1043
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,280
It's like you, you you even go
as far as having like set
1044
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,440
windows or whatever it is for.
Looking at emails.
1045
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,640
My my point with emails is
right, you can't actually, some
1046
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,480
schools do control it as a as a
kind of like school wide thing,
1047
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,240
but you can't actually control
when someone sends you an
1048
00:40:36,240 --> 00:40:37,040
e-mail.
Yeah, of course.
1049
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,760
So if you're at the beck and
core and it's on your phone and
1050
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,840
you get a notification and you
say, oh, no, that's fine, I'll
1051
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,240
just do this.
You can end up spending micro
1052
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:45,880
time all day looking at your
phone checking or something
1053
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,040
beeped.
I've got this, I've got that.
1054
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,400
Whereas I'd say to people, and
this is what I do, I would check
1055
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,400
my e-mail in the morning and I
check my e-mail after school.
1056
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,120
Yeah.
And if anything was so important
1057
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,920
during school that you needed me
because by the way, during
1058
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,640
school day, I am working, I am
in front of the children.
1059
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,880
And if you walked in and saw me
checking my emails, you'd
1060
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,000
probably be like, what you
doing?
1061
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,600
Why you're not teaching?
So I am actually working and
1062
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:08,960
that's why I checked before and
after.
1063
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,480
And I think that's really
important to do because it's
1064
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:16,760
just giving yourself the
boundary and the respect to say
1065
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:17,760
to someone, I'll get back to
you.
1066
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,160
I can get back to you within a
day easily.
1067
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,160
I've got 2 windows in my day
where I check my emails.
1068
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,680
If my job was just sat checking
emails all day, obviously it
1069
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,200
wouldn't be acceptable.
But it's not.
1070
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,880
This is one small part of my job
and I'm not going to let it take
1071
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,360
over.
And so, you know, some days I'll
1072
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,040
check it once and the next
morning I'll see.
1073
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,120
Someone emailed me at lunchtime
yesterday wanting this thing.
1074
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,840
If they wanted it that day, they
would have come and see me.
1075
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,440
If they didn't, then I could.
Just check it today.
1076
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:41,760
Yeah, it's not an issue.
Nothing.
1077
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,600
Nothing winds me up more.
I mean, it does, but it just
1078
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,840
winds me up a bit.
Someone emailing you it someone
1079
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,800
in.
The school sorry, no, no, no,
1080
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:50,400
no.
We we put clips out on the
1081
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,120
Internet.
You have to say the worst thing
1082
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:52,760
in the.
World.
1083
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,680
Sorry, this is for the clip.
The worst thing in the world
1084
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,000
that's ever happened to me ever
in a school in existence of all
1085
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,720
time.
Is that about right?
1086
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,680
Something like that.
That's great, but you have to
1087
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:01,920
carry on to.
All I've got to carry on for the
1088
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,120
clip.
I can't edit that in right?
1089
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,120
Something terrible that happens
to me in school that I really
1090
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,000
bares my bugs.
Is that the right phrase?
1091
00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:09,360
That's good.
Keep asking me.
1092
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,480
Just keep That's fine.
I'll keep going.
1093
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,520
You you make it really tricky to
make clips here.
1094
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,080
But so something that genuinely
really annoys me is people that
1095
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,520
work literally in school who
know what you're doing as a
1096
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,440
teacher, by the way, they know
you're teaching a class emailing
1097
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,640
you during that time for
something that genuinely needs
1098
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,240
to be done that day or like
information ever so or it's
1099
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,160
maybe another teacher's out of
class wherever they e-mail you
1100
00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:32,080
or before before you go home.
Would you mind just telling this
1101
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,760
kid this thing?
And I'm like, mate, it's it's
1102
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,240
2:00 and I'm already teaching in
the afternoon.
1103
00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:37,960
Of course I'm not going to see
this e-mail like.
1104
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,400
What do you think I'm doing
after this Mr class?
1105
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,880
And you're like, I just let them
go.
1106
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,760
Of course it.
Has happened so I can't actually
1107
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,960
believe how many times in my
career I've got the end of day
1108
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,560
and read an e-mail and thought
as if they've sent that to me
1109
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,080
mid teaching.
Like it's so clearly something I
1110
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,840
needed to know now.
He makes sure the asthma pump
1111
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,360
goes home with this kid.
Not really.
1112
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,680
Yeah, Not really.
Don't let this kid walk home
1113
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,800
today.
Just specifically today.
1114
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,800
Oh my God, Why is this not home?
That's never happened, to be
1115
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,240
fair.
But that would be that would be
1116
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,800
safeguarding.
Safeguarding.
1117
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,880
But the point being, in that
situation, what would always
1118
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,560
happen if you don't reply?
I've had this million times.
1119
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,880
They've come to you, they'll
come to you.
1120
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,520
Did you get my e-mail?
Yeah, sorry, I've got, I've got
1121
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,880
a picture of Roman Roan Shield
on the board and I'm teaching
1122
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:16,520
the different.
Yeah.
1123
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,720
No, I haven't seen your e-mail,
actually.
1124
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:19,920
And then they'll say to the kid,
can you tell this kid this?
1125
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,520
Yeah, go on then.
Yeah.
1126
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,880
Can you do it?
No, that's I think hopefully
1127
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,800
people from these tips, they're
not too stale because I, you
1128
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,880
know, last thing we want to do
is just say what everyone knows.
1129
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,240
We know the basics.
So we tried to really go into
1130
00:43:34,240 --> 00:43:36,920
specifics there.
I'd love to know you can get in
1131
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,640
touch with us on our Instagram
or our TikTok at TC repeat
1132
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,480
podcast, what you thought.
And if you have any other tips
1133
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,600
as well, get in touch, let us
know because we can share them
1134
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,160
in the future.
Hayden September's here.
1135
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:49,840
Anything you want to sign up
with?
1136
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,800
Well, I will say that these tips
will be absolutely fantastic,
1137
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,480
but Dylan, I won't be applying
them because I quit teaching.
1138
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,720
So you guys have fun.
Good luck with these.
1139
00:43:58,720 --> 00:44:01,200
If you want my top tip and say
just don't go back in September,
1140
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,120
that's what I'm doing.
And apparently it's the best
1141
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:04,120
tip.
God's sake.
1142
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,160
Just do it.
Every other influencer does
1143
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,320
online.
Just pretend you still.
1144
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,160
Think I can't, I can't do it.
These guys know what we're
1145
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,400
doing.
But hopefully from our decade
1146
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,040
plus three years experience,
whatever you've got, isn't it
1147
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,120
totalled 19?
I would love to be in your maths
1148
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,080
lessons if you're grouping all 1
digit numbers as the same it
1149
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,680
was.
It's irrelevant, it's just so
1150
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,120
well important when it's a 1
digit number.
1151
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,040
But obviously a decade up
decades until you say decade
1152
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,280
bracket S. 19 Answer Something
we care about 1919 at the end 19
1153
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:31,960
minutes.
But we have got that experience
1154
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,800
at the end of the day, I, you
know, it's, I don't.
1155
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,480
Backtrack now, mate, you're at
the pace here.
1156
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,520
No, this is.
They've just ploughed an hour
1157
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,560
into this.
I'm gonna see you later guys.
1158
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,600
I'm not following my.
Try not even bother.
1159
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,120
Try not even bother.
I won't even try and redeem
1160
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:44,840
myself.
Just say bye.
1161
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,280
I ask him to review the podcast
because now we've not got a real
1162
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:48,280
job.
Reviewing the podcast is really
1163
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:48,760
important.
Yeah.
1164
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,680
Can you review the podcast
please?
1165
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,160
We've not got real jobs.
This is really important.
1166
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:51,720
Yeah.
Chase, mate.
1167
00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:51,920
Bye.





