Nov. 30, 2023
Bitesize #4: Try These 5 Things Before You Quit Teaching (It Worked For Us!)

More teachers than ever are quitting, which means even moreteachers than ever are currently thinking of taking the plunge and leaving the profession.
Here are 5 things you should definitely try before packingit all in.
These won’t work for everyone, but we’ve seen first-hand howthese small steps can go a long way to salvaging a career in education.
They’re certainly worth a go before leaving completely!
Let us know if you’ve done any of these before and if theyhelped you.
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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to another episode of Teach
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Steeply Bite Size Hayden.
Hello.
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Hello, you.
You sounded a bit down then you
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sounded really like, hey guys,
this is like another episode,
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man and stuff.
And listen, there's been a blur,
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Hayden, but a blur.
We're back.
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You're back.
And I'm.
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I tried to do all my own.
I did do one on my own.
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I try.
I succeeded.
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You saw, You listened.
And then I listened to about 10
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seconds of it.
Most of our listeners probably
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just like it's just.
Yeah, I got the gist.
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Yeah, I realised I wasn't in it
and I thought, hang on, there's
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no point, no point In a second I
was changing poo for the fourth
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time in a row.
Ohh man, do you know what?
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Listen to our main episode
that's coming out in a few days
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time because we'll we'll give
you a nice update on the baby
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situation.
It's been there's a reason we
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look like this.
I just gonna say I think you
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just anyone who's watching this
episode might get a little idea
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of where we are mentally.
Right now I've been trying to
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shave my head and face for like
3 days is the most.
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It's such a small task and I and
I haven't done it.
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I'm sat here recording a
podcast.
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Apparently that takes important.
I've been trying to just do this
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simple job.
Yeah, let's talk for half an
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hour about it instead of doing
it for 2 minutes.
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Ohh.
Anyways, yeah, go on the guest,
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get into the episode.
So we've got a really quick bite
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sized one today and we've got
our well top five I guess things
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that you can do consider before
you quit teaching.
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So Dylan, you wanna say anything
before we dive into our list?
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Yeah, I think this is borne out
of something that we've really
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both experienced over the years.
Because, you know, again, in in
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a future episode very close,
we've got one lined up that
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we're going to talk about how
much teaching has changed over
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the years and not necessarily
always for the best in terms of
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well-being, etc.
And even outcomes and stuff like
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that.
But putting that aside, it's
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kind of the theme I suppose is a
lot of people listening to this
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will be feeling very similarly
and especially teachers, but I
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think even people just in their
day-to-day jobs, I don't it's
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not, it's not something that is
just teachers feel we've become
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like disenfranchised and just a
bit like, well, what am I, why
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am I doing this?
What's the point?
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And we talked to a lot of
teachers.
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Obviously a lot of our friends
and teachers we've been teaching
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for the best part of a decade.
So we know a lot of teachers and
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you guys listening get in touch
with us as well.
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And I think you get to that
point where you just think, OK,
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I'm going to quit.
There's enough.
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Hadn't had enough.
I've been there.
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We've been there.
You know we would be lying if we
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both said that we hadn't
previously thought Is it best
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for us to quit and.
Thinking about some of these
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tips that we're gonna say like
I've done a few of these I think
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like and it has helped me not
just quit.
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So hopefully, hopefully, it'll
be helpful for that's the
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summary before we get into the
list for anyone listening what's
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the episode going to be about?
It's OK.
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Listen, we're in a point where
you're starting to think this
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profession is no longer what it
was.
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And you, you kind of want to
leave.
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Yeah, but you just have that
inkling, that thing that keeps
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you like the reason we're still
teaching Hayden is because we
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love so much of it.
So here are some really
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practical steps as to what you
can do before you actually take
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the plunge and quit.
That might turn a corner and and
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let's keep you in this career
because guys, we need fantastic
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teachers and we're losing them
left, right and centre.
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So Hayden, kick us off.
What's the first thing we can do
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to just, you know, get us back
on the straight and narrow and
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stay in the profession before we
decide to quit?
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What's going to help us?
OK, this one's quite personal to
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me.
You don't have to climb that
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ladder.
You don't have to do it.
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If you've got responsibilities,
maybe you've even you've taken
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them already and you're
thinking, I'm overworked.
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I'm overwhelmed.
I'm actually not really enjoying
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this role.
I'm not enjoying what I'm doing.
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You, you know, drop it if you
can.
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Obviously it's not as easy as
that.
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Sometimes it might take a bit of
time to phase out of that role.
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But don't be afraid to do that.
Your happiness is so much more
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important than kind of that
cultural push of ohh, you gotta
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you gotta work out.
But are you not a head teacher
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yet You've been teaching for 10
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Are you not head of year yet.
What you doing?
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Ignore it.
Just put your happiness 1st and
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do the thing you enjoy.
I did that years ago.
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I've absolutely thought I have
to be, especially as a male
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teacher.
There's that male culture as
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well.
I was like, well, I've got to,
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I've got to be ahead of you in
three years.
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Then I've got to go and do this
phase leader role and I've got
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to be.
I've had.
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Gotta be a head teacher, right?
And after a few years I realised
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I just didn't want to do that
and it made me feel really down.
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But actually I got over that
hurdle and I'm happier than ever
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in in my teaching role and I'm
totally content at the teaching
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level that I'm at and I don't
want to take on anymore.
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I'm happy where I am.
I think what you said is gonna
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resonate with a lot of people, a
lot of people because I've
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spoken to them and and there are
really are two types of people
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out there, one who haven't yet
taken that plunge and really
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feel the pressure to do so and
and feel that they need to do
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so.
But I may be a bit worried about
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the workload and I'm being
really honest.
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For that group of people, a big
thing is the pay as well.
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The amount of money you might
get to step up is not nearly in
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most cases remotely
representative of the work
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you've put in.
So it might be, for example,
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anyone in the teaching world,
it's called a TLR, teaching and
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learning responsibility.
If you're designated as the
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leader of a year group, you
might get 2 to 3000 lbs to do
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that job.
Now at the end of the month, you
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know, we're not talking about
much.
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If you ask the tax, we're
talking about less than £200 a
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month or 100 LB, maybe 100 and
something pounds.
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Yeah, you can tutor for a bit at
the weekend, much less stress
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and you can make that same
amount of money.
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So it's just something to
consider for that group and the
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second group had them.
And maybe we can talk about this
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a bit because I know we've had
experience with this is people
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who have taking that plunge and
are now miserable and and it
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doesn't, it doesn't always work
out the way it does because you
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know, that kind of job
satisfaction, it goes out the
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window because you're doing less
of it.
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You're not in front of the kids
as much, right?
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Yeah, yeah, exactly.
You just gotta find I've spoke
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to some, I spoke to some really
inspirational people over the
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years who have overcome this
hurdle.
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And I said, oh, you know, are
you, did you want to try and go
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for assistant head or deputy or
you want to have a headship or
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whatever?
And they're just like, Nope.
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Like super content.
I'm like, no, I really like
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exactly this job role I'm in.
I've tried that before, hated
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it.
You know, I got paid a bit
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extra.
Great.
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But really, my life was just
worse.
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So no, I'm happy.
And I think that's where we need
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to strive to be.
So if you feel like you're
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overworked and you know your
pride is taken over a bit too
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much, just just try to drop it,
try to let it go.
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You might find yourself becoming
a bit more happy in your work.
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Dylan #2 yeah, #2, I suppose
it's kind of leading on to that.
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We're still talking about roles
in school.
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That's very much the
hierarchical role of taking on
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more responsibility and having
more pressure.
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I think something simple, even
if you're past that now and you
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don't want to step up, but you
still find yourself in a bit of
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a rut, something as simple as
changing a key stage, changing a
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year group that you're teaching
can really make a difference
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now.
I know teachers before who've
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spent the 1st 3456 years of
their career stuck in the same
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year group, and I can imagine
that becomes really monotonous.
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Especially when you think about
it, by the end of the third
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year, 4th year, you are teaching
the same kind of curriculum and
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syllabus over and over and over
and over again.
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You might even be in the same
sets.
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If you set for maths, for
example, you might be doing the
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same books.
It can become monotonous, it can
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become boring and that can kind
of eat away at you a little bit
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and that can be the cause of
some of the kind of desperation
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to get out.
So something as simple as just
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switching up.
Go with younger children.
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I can't express to you guys hate
and I've worked in junior
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schools.
I know Hayden had a bit of a
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experience in her through
school, but we, we spent the
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vast majority of our career in a
Junior School, which you might
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think, ohh wow, yeah, 3:00 to
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There's no early years there,
there's no reception year one,
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et cetera.
But the difference between
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teaching a year 3 cohort and
teaching a year six cohort is
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monumental.
And I would argue, yeah, I would
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argue that it's a completely
different job and that every
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single year group having taught
in three of the four and Hayden,
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you spent a lot of time in six.
I think it's very safe to say
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that it is completely different.
You know that the children have
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different personality traits at
different times.
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They're different at different
stages of their life.
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And Hayden, you've gone, I
think, obviously, I know you've
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worked in year four, you've
worked in year six.
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Can you attest to this kind of
difference?
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Why might this help someone
making that move?
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Well, it's just different.
Like a lot of people go into
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teaching, I think, because every
day is a bit different, right?
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It is that kind of job where
very opposite to my previous job
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was in Tesco and I just didn't
really enjoy it because it was
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too samey for me every day.
A lot of people love that, like
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just you know exactly what
you're getting into each day.
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But I quite like the challenge
of every day is a bit different
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and if you're in the same year.
But for too long, it you do,
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that complacency just sort of
seeps in a little bit.
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You don't realise then you
become really comfortable and
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then you convince yourself that
ohh, well, I wouldn't want to
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change your groups because I
know everything like the back of
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my hand now.
But actually that might be
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eating away at your enjoyment of
the job.
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And sometimes you just need to
kind of like just push yourself
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out of your comfort zone.
But definitely year four and
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year 6, even just two years
apart, super different.
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So perhaps you could consider
going to a different key stage,
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even maybe even into secondary.
I think Dylan you mentioned
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earlier you didn't hear about a
secondary role.
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I've I've spoken to people
before and again it's it's kind
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of conversation.
You can have your SLT because
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people have feeder schools quite
often.
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If you work in a primary school
you know where the majority of
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your children are going to go
when it comes to secondary
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school and and coming up with
like having a role between those
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links and maybe taking on
something while you're working
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with children who are a bit
older and building that bridge
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between primary and secondary
school.
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Again it's it's kind of it's a
new role although you're still
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in the school you're working and
you're still working with the
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same kind of children because
they lead themselves up.
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You yourself having a different
job role it can just spice it up
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a bit.
I know Hayden, we're the same
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kind of person here doing the
same thing for two to three
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years.
Just get bored.
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There's gonna be a point where
the the straw that breaks the
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camels back and you just think
look I just need a change, OK?
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And it can be as simple as
asking ahead.
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Listen, can I try out Year 5
next year?
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I'd love to try year six.
I've been stuck doing this for
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this long Let's go and try year
one.
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You know it might be complete.
I might hate it.
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I might not like it.
But you know what?
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In the years time I can do a
different year group as well.
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Exactly.
And if you're sat there right
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now thinking with this tip, and
maybe with the next one, you're
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about to have as well.
I can't do this because my SLT
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will not listen to me.
Then you know that they're not
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supportive.
Team, stick around to the end of
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this little bite size episode
because tip #5 is probably gonna
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be the one for you.
If that's the case for moving
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on, then to #3 happy to move on.
Deal.
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Yeah, definitely.
I think it is nice that you're
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right, this is building up and I
think this is 1 after the other
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things you can try.
So what's the next thing?
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So this one again, there is a
similar theme here, but it does
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start with talking to SLT,
because you know what, A lot of
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people just don't do that step.
They get themselves caught in a
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rut.
They assume that, no, nothing
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will fix.
There's nothing I can do.
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I don't wanna be a bird and I'm
not gonna talk to my St because
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they just, they won't help.
They're just gonna be like, no,
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you go, well, you go where you
are.
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You do this because we give you
the role.
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But you know what?
A lot of people in SLT roles,
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the majority, vast majority are
there because they're good
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managers and they've experienced
that themselves.
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They will understand.
Just talk to them.
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Have a real conversation with
your line manager, whoever that
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is, and if you need to go to the
governors you know there are
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there are different levels of
people that you can go to.
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And just tell them how you feel.
Because you know what, my
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experience with people, even if
their first reaction is not
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quite what you wanted, you've
planted a seed.
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I always say that we've done it
many times in our career.
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We've planted that seed.
And then later on, you know that
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person, that SRT member might go
home distress for the day, lay
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there at night and think, you
know what?
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I don't really want that staff
member to be upset.
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Maybe, maybe I could actually.
Maybe there is a way that we can
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make that change next year.
You know, you just gotta have
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that, be brave, have that
conversation and also be be the
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positive force you know that
your school needs.
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Every school needs this big
positive, like pusher.
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You know, there's someone that's
not afraid to just say, yeah,
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this is what I want.
I'm a worker.
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I'm giving you 50 hours of my
time a week.
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You can listen to me, You can
listen to my concerns and
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hopefully do something about it.
How do you feel about that?
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Yeah, it's really powerful and
and again people might be sat
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there going what are you on
about?
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I can't do that in my school
because XYZ trust me, we're
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gonna get there.
But for the vast majority of
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people we've been incredibly
lucky.
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Hayden, you know we have a
leadership team right now that
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I'm not afraid to say are
fantastic at listening.
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I I really, truly think that
that has helped my well-being a
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lot because I feel like if if
something is really eating away
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at me or we're in a staff
meeting and something suggested,
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it's very collaborative and I
feel comfortable to say ohh,
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well in what about this then?
If this thing you've introduced
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right now, that does mean that
we have to spend XYZ hours doing
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that.
I mean what what can we do?
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What can we get in return?
Yeah, what's going to be the
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thing where my well-being is
placed at #1 rather than the
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need for something to be
introduced at that very second.
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And that discussion with SLT is
really, really, really powerful.
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And I know a lot of people,
again, Hayden, myself included.
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Right.
Because I know we can act all
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mostly in the podcast sometimes.
There's definitely been
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situations before where I've not
liked something.
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It's been eating away at me and
I've thought it would be easier
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just to get over it and and I've
not been able to get over it.
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And it's really, you know,
frustrated me and affected my
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work life balance.
It's not easy to step out of
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line almost and say even with
the best of intentions from SLT
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to say ohh, that is actually
very detrimental to me.
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And that's that's not a good
decision from my point of view.
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I want to air that so we can
have a discussion.
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It doesn't have to be angry, it
doesn't have to be
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confrontational from your end.
If they make it confrontational,
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then you can listen to our
further steps.
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But like you said, Hayden, yeah,
most of the time opening that
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dialogue, the trickiest bit is
just doing it.
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Once the dialogue open, I've
never really had a problem.
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I will wrap up this point by
saying there is a right and a
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wrong way to do it as well.
And I've learned the hard way of
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an idea and laughed me over the
years because I've quite often
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done it the wrong way.
And it's fine.
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It's part of life, you know, you
learn and and by the wrong way.
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What I mean is, is just letting
that thing go on a bit too long,
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letting it eat away at you
because it annoys you, not
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saying anything.
And then when you eventually do
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say something, it's it's a
stroppy e-mail at 7:00 PM.
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You know, a passive aggressive
e-mail.
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It gets you nowhere.
It never, it's never got me
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anywhere, ever, other than that
person just being a little bit
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resentful of the fact that they
wanna do anything for me because
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I've just been really rude.
So just get out there, think
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about the way you want to say
something.
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Do what I do now if you need to.
If you're quite a, you get riled
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up quite easily.
I'll always send Dylan what I
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propose to tell this person, and
then I'll leave it 24 hours and
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I'll let him give me some
feedback.
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But it works wonders.
It works.
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And then you have someone to
bounce off.
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Do you really?
You can just leave it for 24
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hours.
But having a good friend, you
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know most of you will have
someone at school you can bounce
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off and you destress with?
Use that person to just be to
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just just read what you're
saying, yeah.
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Because that you're thinking
very quickly on that point.
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You sent me stuff before where
80% of it was bang on the head
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but you start off with something
which would just set off on the
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wrong foot and that just needs
to be taken out because there's
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a difference I think between a
professional dialogue trying to
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improve well-being and a
personal kind of anger and and
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and there's no, there's no need
for that personal kind of anger.
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Like, sure, OK you disagree with
that idea.
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It's still a good idea and and
you don't have to have
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everything in a school which
matches your personal think why
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you think should do things.
But you can talk professionally
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about the outcomes and I think
that's a really good way to
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differentiate so.
To summarise, tip #3, then talk,
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talk, talk, talk to your SLT,
talk to your line managers, but
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just do it in the right way.
I think it's over to you now.
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Is that right #4 #4?
This is something that we are
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both really worried about
telling you guys because well,
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let me let me tell you why.
Because we understand the
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current climate.
You know it's been 2-3 years
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now.
It feels like since COVID or
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furlough, people being laid off,
cost of living crisis and energy
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prices going up, people's
wallets are just being tightened
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and tightened and tightened.
So the the kind of what I want
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to do before we say this last
year is just please listen very
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carefully to what we're actually
saying because we're not going
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to pretend like everyone can
afford to take a pay cut.
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However, Hayden and I both did
this thing, OK And you know, we
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had tutoring, tutoring business
that helped us to make these
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decisions, sure.
But I do truly think that we
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would have considered this
regardless.
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And that is to assess your
money, assess your take home
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pay.
Assess exactly.
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Sit down and think what has to
go out of my monthly outgoings?
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What bills do I have that are
non-negotiable?
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What mortgage do I have or what
rent do I have that's
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non-negotiable.
Everything that has to come out
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of my bank account, think about
everything that kind of needs
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to.
It's kind of that grey area.
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It's like, OK, I want to be able
to go out for dinner once a
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month.
I wanna be able to go and see my
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friends and socialise for a bit.
I'm gonna put aside that money.
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I've got children perhaps that I
need to make sure they get this
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done or they have clubs,
etcetera.
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Just get your own personal
bottom line.
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And there's no one's gonna tell
you what that is other than you.
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You decide what is necessary for
you and what level you want to
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stop at and just look into
calculators, work things out
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where you can really drop some
of your responsibilities.
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And we're talking here about
days in school going part time.
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Exactly.
Going part time.
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And lose some money.
But not as much as you think.
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Perhaps, Hayden, you could give
us some more detail here.
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Why is this going to help?
Dropping days.
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I'm gonna lose money.
Why is that a good thing?
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Well, OK, a couple of things,
right?
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Firstly, when people quit
teaching, they quite often
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statistically go into jobs that
are slower pay anyway, right?
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Because it can be quite hard to
just walk into a job, let's say
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at the top of the teacher pay
scale.
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It's quite hard to just walk
into another job that's of that
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pay.
So before you consider doing
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that, what you're going to maybe
be dropping?
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Bit of pay anyway.
Just consider doing the same
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thing but within the job you're
in that you already know really
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well and potentially love.
I know that Lauren's mum dropped
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down to I think she's on nought
.8, so you know it's not a huge
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drop, but it was totally
manageable for her in terms of
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finances, given the position
she's in in her life at the
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moment and sort of a family
income and all that.
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She could afford to drop to
nought .8 and it really, really,
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really helped her health and
well-being because she had a
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huge medical issue a couple of
years ago and just she just
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couldn't do.
Full time teaching anymore.
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It was just too much.
It was kind of either quit or
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find a new norm.
And the new norm, fortunately,
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was just dropping a day of the
week and just.
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Finding you know having a four
day week it was manageable for
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her and the money was
manageable.
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So yeah we're not trying to you
know, we don't we don't you
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think we're sitting here sat sat
here being like ohh you know
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money is whatever just drop a
few days you'll be fine.
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Like obviously people are in
different positions where they
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every penny counts, and this
might not be the tip for you,
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but really, do think about it,
because I think you'll be
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surprised that.
How much, how little you lose
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compared to the percentage drop?
For example, we dropped 35%, but
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we dropped 25% in our pay.
So it's just to clarify that 35,
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we dropped two days in school
basically.
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Yeah.
So, yeah, you would think 35 to
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40% of our time, but it was
nowhere near that in terms of
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pay, was it because?
Yeah.
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No, we didn't lose 35 to 40% of
our take home pay just because
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of the way tax works.
We won't go into it now.
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But yeah, it really is worth
looking into if you possibly
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can, if you're really at
breaking point and it's a case
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of going to do a new job anyway
where you might be paid less and
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still maintaining those school
holidays.
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Let's not pretend it's an
amazing perk of the job because
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it's something that's kept us in
the job.
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Hayden having gone part time was
really powerful because two
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reasons.
One, school holidays still
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maintain them.
You still get six weeks off.
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Doesn't matter.
You part time, get six weeks off
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in the summer and you're still
part of the teacher pension and
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you can still keep the
contributions as high as you
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want.
It's a perk of the job.
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And yeah, if you're at that
point and you're thinking about
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quitting, this is a really,
really good option for a lot.
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Of people, right?
So we're nearly 20 minutes in.
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We're gonna finish this episode
very soon.
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If you've got this far, you
might be thinking, cool, I've
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got a tip or two I can have a go
at.
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You might also be thinking, I
can't do any of these because
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the pay thing doesn't work for
me.
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I can't talk to my SLT because
they're just toxic.
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And you know, they won't let me
change my role.
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They're constantly piling on
responsibilities anyway.
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It doesn't happen.
I can't drop anything, right?
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I suppose you just have to leave
Hayden, right?
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Yeah.
Leave the school, Not the
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school, not the profession.
Right.
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So you know, the last resort is,
and I really, really recommend
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this is probably the biggest one
really to do that most people do
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when they when it's just not
working.
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Please try to move school before
you completely quit this job
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because it can be such a game
changer.
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If you don't believe me, you
know, just go online for one
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day.
You'll see someone on a teacher
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Facebook group talking about how
they move school and their life
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is so much better now.
And if you don't believe us just
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listen to us because we did this
tip.
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We did it as well exactly.
You know and and and for me it
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was It's interesting actually,
just being personal for a
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second.
Two different reasons really.
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The first time I left is because
I just thought the school was
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toxic.
My my well-being wasn't there.
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I didn't.
I didn't enjoy working there
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personally.
Other people might have done but
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it wasn't for me.
It didn't.
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I didn't gel with the way it was
managed and my workload was
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horrible but the set this second
time I left was more of it.
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It wasn't so much that same
relationship.
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It was more of a recognition of
I don't fit here and and I had
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to be really.
It's really hard because I felt
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like I was the failure.
The school was great and I was
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the failure, but it really it
was just it's just a it's a
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puzzle and I just wasn't the
right piece for that role.
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And they needed someone
different, with a different
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skill set, a different way of
working.
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And you know, I just wasn't
there.
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I wasn't that person, which is
why I left.
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And I was really unhappy there,
purely because of that self, you
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know?
I was convinced myself on what
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I'm doing, I can't do this job
properly.
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You really do a round peg in the
square box whether it's called,
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you know, I mean you weren't
just weren't fitting, probably
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butchered that saying, but you
were.
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Just you were doing all the
right things and being an
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amazing teacher but the the
environment it just didn't gel
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and that just didn't gel and I
have no disrespect to the people
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you know I I really respect that
people still I just didn't fit
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in in that role.
So yeah don't don't be afraid to
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to quit your job and go and get
another job in a different
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school.
The beautiful thing of teaching
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is the biggest perk in the world
is is is always going to be
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around.
The population is increasing.
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There are tonnes of schools
anywhere in the country.
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You know that that you've got
the best opportunity to to work
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kind of where you want and
change jobs.
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It can be hard, don't get me
wrong, cause you might again,
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you might not be the puzzle
piece that fits the school that
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you're applying for doesn't mean
you're bad, it just means you're
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not the piece.
So it can take some time.
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But do you really consider
moving school before you quit?
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Absolutely hate it.
I think hopefully people can get
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a lot from that.
And that is a really genuine
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list there that we have taken a
lot from ourselves over the
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years.
So, you know, we walked the walk
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as well.
Do try it out.
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And if you've done any of these
things before and it's worked
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for you, do get in touch with
us.
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Do let us know because it's
powerful for other teachers to
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hear that.
Because wherever, whatever
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situation we're all in, there
will be someone in your school
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right now who's going through
the exact same thought process.
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If it's not you, it'll be one of
your friends, it will be someone
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you know.
This is a really tricky.
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Job, the profession is tough.
It seems like it's just getting
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tougher.
But we love teaching children,
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we love helping them.
So hopefully this list Hayden
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can help someone just stay in
the job a bit longer.
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So if you want to hear a bit
more about how the job is maybe
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getting a bit tougher and
changing, then do make sure you
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check out our episode later this
week.
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We'll be coming out on Monday,
if you're listening today, on
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Friday.
And by later this week you mean
534
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next week, Because this next
week later, there's there's
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three days later.
This weekend, yeah.
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Monday is a weekend anyway,
guys.
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Hopefully you enjoyed that.
I'll let Hayden sign off with
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his tired, scruffy look.
I'll see you in the next
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episode.
Hopefully I'll shave my head and
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beard.
Bye then.
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Bye guys.
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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to another episode of Teach
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Steeply Bite Size Hayden.
Hello.
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Hello, you.
You sounded a bit down then you
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sounded really like, hey guys,
this is like another episode,
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man and stuff.
And listen, there's been a blur,
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Hayden, but a blur.
We're back.
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You're back.
And I'm.
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I tried to do all my own.
I did do one on my own.
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I try.
I succeeded.
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You saw, You listened.
And then I listened to about 10
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seconds of it.
Most of our listeners probably
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just like it's just.
Yeah, I got the gist.
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Yeah, I realised I wasn't in it
and I thought, hang on, there's
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no point, no point In a second I
was changing poo for the fourth
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time in a row.
Ohh man, do you know what?
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Listen to our main episode
that's coming out in a few days
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time because we'll we'll give
you a nice update on the baby
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situation.
It's been there's a reason we
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look like this.
I just gonna say I think you
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just anyone who's watching this
episode might get a little idea
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of where we are mentally.
Right now I've been trying to
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shave my head and face for like
3 days is the most.
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It's such a small task and I and
I haven't done it.
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I'm sat here recording a
podcast.
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Apparently that takes important.
I've been trying to just do this
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simple job.
Yeah, let's talk for half an
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hour about it instead of doing
it for 2 minutes.
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Ohh.
Anyways, yeah, go on the guest,
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get into the episode.
So we've got a really quick bite
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sized one today and we've got
our well top five I guess things
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that you can do consider before
you quit teaching.
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So Dylan, you wanna say anything
before we dive into our list?
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Yeah, I think this is borne out
of something that we've really
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both experienced over the years.
Because, you know, again, in in
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a future episode very close,
we've got one lined up that
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we're going to talk about how
much teaching has changed over
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the years and not necessarily
always for the best in terms of
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well-being, etc.
And even outcomes and stuff like
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that.
But putting that aside, it's
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kind of the theme I suppose is a
lot of people listening to this
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will be feeling very similarly
and especially teachers, but I
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think even people just in their
day-to-day jobs, I don't it's
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not, it's not something that is
just teachers feel we've become
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like disenfranchised and just a
bit like, well, what am I, why
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am I doing this?
What's the point?
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And we talked to a lot of
teachers.
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Obviously a lot of our friends
and teachers we've been teaching
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for the best part of a decade.
So we know a lot of teachers and
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you guys listening get in touch
with us as well.
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And I think you get to that
point where you just think, OK,
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I'm going to quit.
There's enough.
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Hadn't had enough.
I've been there.
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We've been there.
You know we would be lying if we
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both said that we hadn't
previously thought Is it best
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for us to quit and.
Thinking about some of these
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tips that we're gonna say like
I've done a few of these I think
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like and it has helped me not
just quit.
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So hopefully, hopefully, it'll
be helpful for that's the
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summary before we get into the
list for anyone listening what's
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the episode going to be about?
It's OK.
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Listen, we're in a point where
you're starting to think this
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profession is no longer what it
was.
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And you, you kind of want to
leave.
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Yeah, but you just have that
inkling, that thing that keeps
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you like the reason we're still
teaching Hayden is because we
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love so much of it.
So here are some really
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practical steps as to what you
can do before you actually take
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the plunge and quit.
That might turn a corner and and
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let's keep you in this career
because guys, we need fantastic
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teachers and we're losing them
left, right and centre.
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So Hayden, kick us off.
What's the first thing we can do
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to just, you know, get us back
on the straight and narrow and
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stay in the profession before we
decide to quit?
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What's going to help us?
OK, this one's quite personal to
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me.
You don't have to climb that
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ladder.
You don't have to do it.
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If you've got responsibilities,
maybe you've even you've taken
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them already and you're
thinking, I'm overworked.
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I'm overwhelmed.
I'm actually not really enjoying
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this role.
I'm not enjoying what I'm doing.
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You, you know, drop it if you
can.
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Obviously it's not as easy as
that.
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Sometimes it might take a bit of
time to phase out of that role.
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But don't be afraid to do that.
Your happiness is so much more
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important than kind of that
cultural push of ohh, you gotta
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you gotta work out.
But are you not a head teacher
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yet You've been teaching for 10
years.
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Are you not head of year yet.
What you doing?
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Ignore it.
Just put your happiness 1st and
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do the thing you enjoy.
I did that years ago.
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I've absolutely thought I have
to be, especially as a male
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teacher.
There's that male culture as
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well.
I was like, well, I've got to,
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I've got to be ahead of you in
three years.
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Then I've got to go and do this
phase leader role and I've got
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to be.
I've had.
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Gotta be a head teacher, right?
And after a few years I realised
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I just didn't want to do that
and it made me feel really down.
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But actually I got over that
hurdle and I'm happier than ever
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in in my teaching role and I'm
totally content at the teaching
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level that I'm at and I don't
want to take on anymore.
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I'm happy where I am.
I think what you said is gonna
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resonate with a lot of people, a
lot of people because I've
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spoken to them and and there are
really are two types of people
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out there, one who haven't yet
taken that plunge and really
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feel the pressure to do so and
and feel that they need to do
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so.
But I may be a bit worried about
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the workload and I'm being
really honest.
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For that group of people, a big
thing is the pay as well.
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The amount of money you might
get to step up is not nearly in
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most cases remotely
representative of the work
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you've put in.
So it might be, for example,
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anyone in the teaching world,
it's called a TLR, teaching and
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learning responsibility.
If you're designated as the
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leader of a year group, you
might get 2 to 3000 lbs to do
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that job.
Now at the end of the month, you
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know, we're not talking about
much.
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If you ask the tax, we're
talking about less than £200 a
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month or 100 LB, maybe 100 and
something pounds.
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Yeah, you can tutor for a bit at
the weekend, much less stress
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and you can make that same
amount of money.
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So it's just something to
consider for that group and the
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second group had them.
And maybe we can talk about this
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a bit because I know we've had
experience with this is people
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who have taking that plunge and
are now miserable and and it
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doesn't, it doesn't always work
out the way it does because you
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know, that kind of job
satisfaction, it goes out the
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window because you're doing less
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You're not in front of the kids
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Yeah, yeah, exactly.
You just gotta find I've spoke
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to some, I spoke to some really
inspirational people over the
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years who have overcome this
hurdle.
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And I said, oh, you know, are
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for assistant head or deputy or
you want to have a headship or
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whatever?
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I'm like, no, I really like
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exactly this job role I'm in.
I've tried that before, hated
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You know, I got paid a bit
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extra.
Great.
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But really, my life was just
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So no, I'm happy.
And I think that's where we need
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to strive to be.
So if you feel like you're
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overworked and you know your
pride is taken over a bit too
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much, just just try to drop it,
try to let it go.
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You might find yourself becoming
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Dylan #2 yeah, #2, I suppose
it's kind of leading on to that.
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We're still talking about roles
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That's very much the
hierarchical role of taking on
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more responsibility and having
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I think something simple, even
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don't want to step up, but you
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a rut, something as simple as
changing a key stage, changing a
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year group that you're teaching
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now.
I know teachers before who've
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spent the 1st 3456 years of
their career stuck in the same
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year group, and I can imagine
that becomes really monotonous.
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Especially when you think about
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year, 4th year, you are teaching
the same kind of curriculum and
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syllabus over and over and over
and over again.
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You might even be in the same
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If you set for maths, for
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same books.
It can become monotonous, it can
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become boring and that can kind
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and that can be the cause of
some of the kind of desperation
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to get out.
So something as simple as just
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switching up.
Go with younger children.
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I can't express to you guys hate
and I've worked in junior
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schools.
I know Hayden had a bit of a
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experience in her through
school, but we, we spent the
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vast majority of our career in a
Junior School, which you might
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think, ohh wow, yeah, 3:00 to
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There's no early years there,
there's no reception year one,
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et cetera.
But the difference between
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teaching a year 3 cohort and
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monumental.
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argue that it's a completely
different job and that every
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single year group having taught
in three of the four and Hayden,
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you spent a lot of time in six.
I think it's very safe to say
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that it is completely different.
You know that the children have
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different personality traits at
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They're different at different
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And Hayden, you've gone, I
think, obviously, I know you've
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worked in year four, you've
worked in year six.
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Can you attest to this kind of
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Why might this help someone
making that move?
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Well, it's just different.
Like a lot of people go into
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teaching, I think, because every
day is a bit different, right?
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It is that kind of job where
very opposite to my previous job
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was in Tesco and I just didn't
really enjoy it because it was
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too samey for me every day.
A lot of people love that, like
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just you know exactly what
you're getting into each day.
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But I quite like the challenge
of every day is a bit different
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and if you're in the same year.
But for too long, it you do,
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that complacency just sort of
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You don't realise then you
become really comfortable and
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then you convince yourself that
ohh, well, I wouldn't want to
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change your groups because I
know everything like the back of
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my hand now.
But actually that might be
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eating away at your enjoyment of
the job.
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kind of like just push yourself
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out of your comfort zone.
But definitely year four and
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year 6, even just two years
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going to a different key stage,
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even maybe even into secondary.
I think Dylan you mentioned
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earlier you didn't hear about a
secondary role.
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I've I've spoken to people
before and again it's it's kind
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of conversation.
You can have your SLT because
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people have feeder schools quite
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If you work in a primary school
you know where the majority of
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your children are going to go
when it comes to secondary
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school and and coming up with
like having a role between those
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links and maybe taking on
something while you're working
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with children who are a bit
older and building that bridge
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between primary and secondary
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Again it's it's kind of it's a
new role although you're still
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in the school you're working and
you're still working with the
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same kind of children because
they lead themselves up.
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You yourself having a different
job role it can just spice it up
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a bit.
I know Hayden, we're the same
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kind of person here doing the
same thing for two to three
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years.
Just get bored.
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There's gonna be a point where
the the straw that breaks the
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camels back and you just think
look I just need a change, OK?
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And it can be as simple as
asking ahead.
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Listen, can I try out Year 5
next year?
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I'd love to try year six.
I've been stuck doing this for
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this long Let's go and try year
one.
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You know it might be complete.
I might hate it.
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I might not like it.
But you know what?
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In the years time I can do a
different year group as well.
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Exactly.
And if you're sat there right
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now thinking with this tip, and
maybe with the next one, you're
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about to have as well.
I can't do this because my SLT
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will not listen to me.
Then you know that they're not
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supportive.
Team, stick around to the end of
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this little bite size episode
because tip #5 is probably gonna
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be the one for you.
If that's the case for moving
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on, then to #3 happy to move on.
Deal.
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Yeah, definitely.
I think it is nice that you're
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right, this is building up and I
think this is 1 after the other
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things you can try.
So what's the next thing?
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So this one again, there is a
similar theme here, but it does
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start with talking to SLT,
because you know what, A lot of
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people just don't do that step.
They get themselves caught in a
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rut.
They assume that, no, nothing
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will fix.
There's nothing I can do.
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I don't wanna be a bird and I'm
not gonna talk to my St because
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they just, they won't help.
They're just gonna be like, no,
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you go, well, you go where you
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You do this because we give you
the role.
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But you know what?
A lot of people in SLT roles,
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the majority, vast majority are
there because they're good
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managers and they've experienced
that themselves.
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They will understand.
Just talk to them.
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Have a real conversation with
your line manager, whoever that
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is, and if you need to go to the
governors you know there are
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there are different levels of
people that you can go to.
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And just tell them how you feel.
Because you know what, my
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experience with people, even if
their first reaction is not
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quite what you wanted, you've
planted a seed.
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I always say that we've done it
many times in our career.
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We've planted that seed.
And then later on, you know that
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person, that SRT member might go
home distress for the day, lay
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there at night and think, you
know what?
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I don't really want that staff
member to be upset.
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Maybe, maybe I could actually.
Maybe there is a way that we can
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make that change next year.
You know, you just gotta have
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that, be brave, have that
conversation and also be be the
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positive force you know that
your school needs.
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Every school needs this big
positive, like pusher.
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You know, there's someone that's
not afraid to just say, yeah,
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this is what I want.
I'm a worker.
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I'm giving you 50 hours of my
time a week.
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You can listen to me, You can
listen to my concerns and
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hopefully do something about it.
How do you feel about that?
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Yeah, it's really powerful and
and again people might be sat
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there going what are you on
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I can't do that in my school
because XYZ trust me, we're
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gonna get there.
But for the vast majority of
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people we've been incredibly
lucky.
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Hayden, you know we have a
leadership team right now that
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I'm not afraid to say are
fantastic at listening.
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I I really, truly think that
that has helped my well-being a
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lot because I feel like if if
something is really eating away
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at me or we're in a staff
meeting and something suggested,
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it's very collaborative and I
feel comfortable to say ohh,
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well in what about this then?
If this thing you've introduced
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right now, that does mean that
we have to spend XYZ hours doing
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that.
I mean what what can we do?
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What can we get in return?
Yeah, what's going to be the
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thing where my well-being is
placed at #1 rather than the
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need for something to be
introduced at that very second.
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And that discussion with SLT is
really, really, really powerful.
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And I know a lot of people,
again, Hayden, myself included.
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Right.
Because I know we can act all
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mostly in the podcast sometimes.
There's definitely been
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situations before where I've not
liked something.
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It's been eating away at me and
I've thought it would be easier
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just to get over it and and I've
not been able to get over it.
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And it's really, you know,
frustrated me and affected my
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work life balance.
It's not easy to step out of
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line almost and say even with
the best of intentions from SLT
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to say ohh, that is actually
very detrimental to me.
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And that's that's not a good
decision from my point of view.
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I want to air that so we can
have a discussion.
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It doesn't have to be angry, it
doesn't have to be
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confrontational from your end.
If they make it confrontational,
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then you can listen to our
further steps.
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But like you said, Hayden, yeah,
most of the time opening that
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dialogue, the trickiest bit is
just doing it.
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Once the dialogue open, I've
never really had a problem.
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I will wrap up this point by
saying there is a right and a
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wrong way to do it as well.
And I've learned the hard way of
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an idea and laughed me over the
years because I've quite often
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done it the wrong way.
And it's fine.
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It's part of life, you know, you
learn and and by the wrong way.
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What I mean is, is just letting
that thing go on a bit too long,
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letting it eat away at you
because it annoys you, not
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saying anything.
And then when you eventually do
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say something, it's it's a
stroppy e-mail at 7:00 PM.
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You know, a passive aggressive
e-mail.
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It gets you nowhere.
It never, it's never got me
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anywhere, ever, other than that
person just being a little bit
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resentful of the fact that they
wanna do anything for me because
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I've just been really rude.
So just get out there, think
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about the way you want to say
something.
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Do what I do now if you need to.
If you're quite a, you get riled
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up quite easily.
I'll always send Dylan what I
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propose to tell this person, and
then I'll leave it 24 hours and
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I'll let him give me some
feedback.
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But it works wonders.
It works.
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And then you have someone to
bounce off.
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Do you really?
You can just leave it for 24
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hours.
But having a good friend, you
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know most of you will have
someone at school you can bounce
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off and you destress with?
Use that person to just be to
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just just read what you're
saying, yeah.
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Because that you're thinking
very quickly on that point.
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You sent me stuff before where
80% of it was bang on the head
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but you start off with something
which would just set off on the
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wrong foot and that just needs
to be taken out because there's
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a difference I think between a
professional dialogue trying to
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improve well-being and a
personal kind of anger and and
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and there's no, there's no need
for that personal kind of anger.
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Like, sure, OK you disagree with
that idea.
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It's still a good idea and and
you don't have to have
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everything in a school which
matches your personal think why
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you think should do things.
But you can talk professionally
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about the outcomes and I think
that's a really good way to
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differentiate so.
To summarise, tip #3, then talk,
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talk, talk, talk to your SLT,
talk to your line managers, but
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just do it in the right way.
I think it's over to you now.
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Is that right #4 #4?
This is something that we are
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both really worried about
telling you guys because well,
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let me let me tell you why.
Because we understand the
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current climate.
You know it's been 2-3 years
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now.
It feels like since COVID or
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furlough, people being laid off,
cost of living crisis and energy
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prices going up, people's
wallets are just being tightened
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and tightened and tightened.
So the the kind of what I want
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to do before we say this last
year is just please listen very
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carefully to what we're actually
saying because we're not going
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to pretend like everyone can
afford to take a pay cut.
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However, Hayden and I both did
this thing, OK And you know, we
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had tutoring, tutoring business
that helped us to make these
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decisions, sure.
But I do truly think that we
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would have considered this
regardless.
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And that is to assess your
money, assess your take home
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pay.
Assess exactly.
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Sit down and think what has to
go out of my monthly outgoings?
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What bills do I have that are
non-negotiable?
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What mortgage do I have or what
rent do I have that's
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non-negotiable.
Everything that has to come out
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of my bank account, think about
everything that kind of needs
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to.
It's kind of that grey area.
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It's like, OK, I want to be able
to go out for dinner once a
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month.
I wanna be able to go and see my
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friends and socialise for a bit.
I'm gonna put aside that money.
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I've got children perhaps that I
need to make sure they get this
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done or they have clubs,
etcetera.
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Just get your own personal
bottom line.
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And there's no one's gonna tell
you what that is other than you.
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You decide what is necessary for
you and what level you want to
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stop at and just look into
calculators, work things out
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where you can really drop some
of your responsibilities.
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And we're talking here about
days in school going part time.
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Exactly.
Going part time.
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And lose some money.
But not as much as you think.
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Perhaps, Hayden, you could give
us some more detail here.
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Why is this going to help?
Dropping days.
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I'm gonna lose money.
Why is that a good thing?
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Well, OK, a couple of things,
right?
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Firstly, when people quit
teaching, they quite often
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statistically go into jobs that
are slower pay anyway, right?
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Because it can be quite hard to
just walk into a job, let's say
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at the top of the teacher pay
scale.
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It's quite hard to just walk
into another job that's of that
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pay.
So before you consider doing
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that, what you're going to maybe
be dropping?
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Bit of pay anyway.
Just consider doing the same
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thing but within the job you're
in that you already know really
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well and potentially love.
I know that Lauren's mum dropped
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down to I think she's on nought
.8, so you know it's not a huge
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drop, but it was totally
manageable for her in terms of
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finances, given the position
she's in in her life at the
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moment and sort of a family
income and all that.
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She could afford to drop to
nought .8 and it really, really,
408
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really helped her health and
well-being because she had a
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huge medical issue a couple of
years ago and just she just
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couldn't do.
Full time teaching anymore.
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It was just too much.
It was kind of either quit or
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find a new norm.
And the new norm, fortunately,
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was just dropping a day of the
week and just.
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Finding you know having a four
day week it was manageable for
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her and the money was
manageable.
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So yeah we're not trying to you
know, we don't we don't you
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think we're sitting here sat sat
here being like ohh you know
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money is whatever just drop a
few days you'll be fine.
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Like obviously people are in
different positions where they
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every penny counts, and this
might not be the tip for you,
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but really, do think about it,
because I think you'll be
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surprised that.
How much, how little you lose
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compared to the percentage drop?
For example, we dropped 35%, but
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we dropped 25% in our pay.
So it's just to clarify that 35,
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we dropped two days in school
basically.
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Yeah.
So, yeah, you would think 35 to
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40% of our time, but it was
nowhere near that in terms of
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pay, was it because?
Yeah.
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No, we didn't lose 35 to 40% of
our take home pay just because
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of the way tax works.
We won't go into it now.
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But yeah, it really is worth
looking into if you possibly
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can, if you're really at
breaking point and it's a case
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of going to do a new job anyway
where you might be paid less and
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still maintaining those school
holidays.
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Let's not pretend it's an
amazing perk of the job because
436
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it's something that's kept us in
the job.
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00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,700
Hayden having gone part time was
really powerful because two
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00:19:17,710 --> 00:19:19,440
reasons.
One, school holidays still
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maintain them.
You still get six weeks off.
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Doesn't matter.
You part time, get six weeks off
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in the summer and you're still
part of the teacher pension and
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you can still keep the
contributions as high as you
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want.
It's a perk of the job.
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And yeah, if you're at that
point and you're thinking about
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quitting, this is a really,
really good option for a lot.
446
00:19:34,420 --> 00:19:36,530
Of people, right?
So we're nearly 20 minutes in.
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We're gonna finish this episode
very soon.
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00:19:38,650 --> 00:19:40,550
If you've got this far, you
might be thinking, cool, I've
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got a tip or two I can have a go
at.
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You might also be thinking, I
can't do any of these because
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the pay thing doesn't work for
me.
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I can't talk to my SLT because
they're just toxic.
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And you know, they won't let me
change my role.
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They're constantly piling on
responsibilities anyway.
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It doesn't happen.
I can't drop anything, right?
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00:19:54,850 --> 00:19:56,500
I suppose you just have to leave
Hayden, right?
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Yeah.
Leave the school, Not the
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school, not the profession.
Right.
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So you know, the last resort is,
and I really, really recommend
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this is probably the biggest one
really to do that most people do
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00:20:08,090 --> 00:20:09,860
when they when it's just not
working.
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Please try to move school before
you completely quit this job
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because it can be such a game
changer.
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If you don't believe me, you
know, just go online for one
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day.
You'll see someone on a teacher
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00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:22,760
Facebook group talking about how
they move school and their life
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00:20:22,770 --> 00:20:25,820
is so much better now.
And if you don't believe us just
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listen to us because we did this
tip.
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We did it as well exactly.
You know and and and for me it
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00:20:30,410 --> 00:20:32,290
was It's interesting actually,
just being personal for a
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second.
Two different reasons really.
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The first time I left is because
I just thought the school was
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toxic.
My my well-being wasn't there.
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00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,690
I didn't.
I didn't enjoy working there
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00:20:40,700 --> 00:20:42,100
personally.
Other people might have done but
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00:20:42,110 --> 00:20:43,410
it wasn't for me.
It didn't.
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I didn't gel with the way it was
managed and my workload was
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00:20:47,980 --> 00:20:51,730
horrible but the set this second
time I left was more of it.
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00:20:51,740 --> 00:20:54,010
It wasn't so much that same
relationship.
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00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:58,070
It was more of a recognition of
I don't fit here and and I had
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to be really.
It's really hard because I felt
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00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,710
like I was the failure.
The school was great and I was
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00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,370
the failure, but it really it
was just it's just a it's a
484
00:21:05,380 --> 00:21:07,330
puzzle and I just wasn't the
right piece for that role.
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00:21:07,340 --> 00:21:08,960
And they needed someone
different, with a different
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00:21:08,970 --> 00:21:10,880
skill set, a different way of
working.
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00:21:10,890 --> 00:21:12,400
And you know, I just wasn't
there.
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00:21:12,410 --> 00:21:15,030
I wasn't that person, which is
why I left.
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00:21:15,100 --> 00:21:19,690
And I was really unhappy there,
purely because of that self, you
490
00:21:19,700 --> 00:21:21,270
know?
I was convinced myself on what
491
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,790
I'm doing, I can't do this job
properly.
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00:21:22,860 --> 00:21:25,460
You really do a round peg in the
square box whether it's called,
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00:21:25,470 --> 00:21:27,770
you know, I mean you weren't
just weren't fitting, probably
494
00:21:27,780 --> 00:21:29,130
butchered that saying, but you
were.
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00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,380
Just you were doing all the
right things and being an
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00:21:32,390 --> 00:21:35,720
amazing teacher but the the
environment it just didn't gel
497
00:21:35,730 --> 00:21:38,180
and that just didn't gel and I
have no disrespect to the people
498
00:21:38,190 --> 00:21:41,240
you know I I really respect that
people still I just didn't fit
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00:21:41,250 --> 00:21:44,620
in in that role.
So yeah don't don't be afraid to
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00:21:45,030 --> 00:21:47,700
to quit your job and go and get
another job in a different
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00:21:47,710 --> 00:21:49,120
school.
The beautiful thing of teaching
502
00:21:49,130 --> 00:21:52,040
is the biggest perk in the world
is is is always going to be
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00:21:52,050 --> 00:21:54,620
around.
The population is increasing.
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00:21:54,630 --> 00:21:57,340
There are tonnes of schools
anywhere in the country.
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00:21:57,410 --> 00:22:00,870
You know that that you've got
the best opportunity to to work
506
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,070
kind of where you want and
change jobs.
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00:22:03,130 --> 00:22:05,140
It can be hard, don't get me
wrong, cause you might again,
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00:22:05,150 --> 00:22:07,300
you might not be the puzzle
piece that fits the school that
509
00:22:07,310 --> 00:22:09,960
you're applying for doesn't mean
you're bad, it just means you're
510
00:22:09,970 --> 00:22:12,170
not the piece.
So it can take some time.
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00:22:12,180 --> 00:22:15,360
But do you really consider
moving school before you quit?
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00:22:16,210 --> 00:22:18,950
Absolutely hate it.
I think hopefully people can get
513
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,430
a lot from that.
And that is a really genuine
514
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,930
list there that we have taken a
lot from ourselves over the
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00:22:23,940 --> 00:22:25,340
years.
So, you know, we walked the walk
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00:22:25,350 --> 00:22:27,110
as well.
Do try it out.
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00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:29,840
And if you've done any of these
things before and it's worked
518
00:22:29,850 --> 00:22:30,880
for you, do get in touch with
us.
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00:22:30,890 --> 00:22:33,360
Do let us know because it's
powerful for other teachers to
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00:22:33,370 --> 00:22:35,380
hear that.
Because wherever, whatever
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00:22:35,430 --> 00:22:38,280
situation we're all in, there
will be someone in your school
522
00:22:38,290 --> 00:22:41,080
right now who's going through
the exact same thought process.
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00:22:41,090 --> 00:22:43,600
If it's not you, it'll be one of
your friends, it will be someone
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00:22:43,610 --> 00:22:46,190
you know.
This is a really tricky.
525
00:22:46,330 --> 00:22:49,690
Job, the profession is tough.
It seems like it's just getting
526
00:22:49,700 --> 00:22:51,690
tougher.
But we love teaching children,
527
00:22:51,700 --> 00:22:55,150
we love helping them.
So hopefully this list Hayden
528
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,530
can help someone just stay in
the job a bit longer.
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00:22:57,610 --> 00:23:00,550
So if you want to hear a bit
more about how the job is maybe
530
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,540
getting a bit tougher and
changing, then do make sure you
531
00:23:02,550 --> 00:23:04,410
check out our episode later this
week.
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00:23:04,420 --> 00:23:06,670
We'll be coming out on Monday,
if you're listening today, on
533
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,270
Friday.
And by later this week you mean
534
00:23:08,330 --> 00:23:12,310
next week, Because this next
week later, there's there's
535
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,280
three days later.
This weekend, yeah.
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00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,220
Monday is a weekend anyway,
guys.
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00:23:18,230 --> 00:23:20,960
Hopefully you enjoyed that.
I'll let Hayden sign off with
538
00:23:20,970 --> 00:23:23,970
his tired, scruffy look.
I'll see you in the next
539
00:23:23,980 --> 00:23:26,100
episode.
Hopefully I'll shave my head and
540
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beard.
Bye then.
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Bye guys.





