Dec. 29, 2024

Ep 93: Reading for Pleasure, Fining Bad Behaviour & 2025 Goals

Ep 93: Reading for Pleasure, Fining Bad Behaviour & 2025 Goals

Our LAST episode of 2024 is packed!

We reflect on the best things from the last year, talk about the recent suggestion parents should be FINED for their children's bad behaviour & set some goals for 2025.

We hope you enjoy and wish you a very happy new year.

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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to another episode of Teaching

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Repeat.
My name is Dylan.

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And my name is Hayden.
How are you doing, Hayden?

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Tired.
I'm so tired.

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Very, very tired.
I was actually just looking at

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us here thinking we look
terrible.

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Good job it's a podcast and only
if you're on Spotify could you

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look at the state of us or watch
one of.

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Our wheels don't.
Don't guys stop looking.

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Stop.
But why are you so tired?

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Well, I think it's pretty
obvious, isn't it, Dylan?

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We've got little children, yes.
And it's been Christmas, yes.

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So it has been absolutely
exhausting.

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I know you were saying earlier
about your social battery is

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exhausted.
I feel exactly the same.

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There's just something about
going to your parents for

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Christmas and then somewhere
else for Boxing Day, somewhere

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else the day after, You know, I
think you even saw your friends.

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I didn't go that far.
That's too much.

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I'm not seeing friends and it's
just absolutely exhausting being

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sociable.
It sounds horrible, doesn't it?

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But it is.
It's so knackering.

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My favourite part of that was
where you pointed at me and said

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I'm not seeing friends whilst we
sat here together in the

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podcast.
Lovely.

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I didn't see you and I'm not
seeing you right now.

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It's the podcast.
You're not here.

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It's it's like, it's absolutely
knackering.

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It's really weird though,
because again, I don't know

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anyone out there with young,
young children.

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I didn't know how it would go.
Rory's fourteen months, nearly

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15 months.
And last year for Christmas, he

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was honestly a sack of potatoes.
He he may as well have been one

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of the dolls or something, Like
I meant nothing to him.

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And this year I was like, I
wonder if he's obviously way

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more sentient now and kind of
knows what's going on and can

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get around.
And I wondered if he'd be

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excited.
And he was so excited for his

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gifts and stuff.
He was, he was like pointing

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like really wanted to open stuff
and genuinely.

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Did he like unwrapping?
Yeah, he.

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Did he did unwrap stuff and like
he came down and we, we got him

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a little chair and he sat in it
and he was like laying down

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smiling.
He was loving it.

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But so I was really happy about
that.

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But the, the weird thing was we
see, we saw our grandpa, his

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grandparents a lot.
So my parents, Lauren's parents,

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and they kind of take over with
Rory because that's their chance

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to give all the attention at
once.

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It's all grandparents there for
and at the time I was like oh

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this is cool I can just sit back
and relax.

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But you don't realise how
mentally exhausting like being

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around groups of people for like
3 days in a row is.

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And I completely crashed
yesterday which was on the first

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day.
We didn't do anything and I'm

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just so physically and mentally
exhausted and it feels like I'm

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not done much and I feel quite
bad saying it.

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Do you know what I mean?
Because I didn't.

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I really enjoyed it.
It was nice being around family

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and friends and stuff, but
obviously you weren't around

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friends.
But I just felt, I don't know,

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it was really weird.
Like I was completely done in

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yeah.
Yeah, well, don't worry, you can

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go back to school soon, go out
to work and have a break from

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all this exhaustion.
Put your feet up over Christmas

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guys, your teachers get too much
time off.

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So Oh my God, I need like
another.

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Week.
Yeah, too much time off.

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You're right.
Absolutely right.

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It's exhausting.
All this time off.

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Cut that from the podcast.
Don't click that.

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I'll be using it.
Yeah, someone, someone from the

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Daily Mail picked that up.
Weak woke lefty teacher says

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they've got too much time off.
OK.

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Oh, some sort of snow.
What about?

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What about river then?
Yeah, it was so nice.

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She had such a good time.
Last year's Christmas.

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I probably talked about it on
the podcast.

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Last year was a complete
disaster, complete disaster.

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Again, she was weeks old, and we
just tried to do too much last

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year.
It just didn't work.

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She spent the whole day
screaming.

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Whereas this year, she
absolutely loved it.

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She loved attention.
She loved getting gifts.

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Well, I say she loved getting
gifts.

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She absolutely loved the
wrapping paper, the bits of

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card, the random bits of
packaging.

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Like she loved those probably
more than the gifts.

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Like the gifts got a little nod
and she was like, whoa, yeah,

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what about this bit of card?
Like, I can Chuck that, though,

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can't I?
And go and get it.

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Like that's fun.
So that was pretty funny just

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seeing her like how they they
just don't care.

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They don't see like value in
things, do they?

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They don't look at that and go,
oh, that's the expensive bit.

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So I'll enjoy it.
They just think, well, that's

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fun.
I don't care that that's also

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fun.
That plastic dog that I got.

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But I tell you what, that bit of
packaging came in is also really

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fun.
Do you find that they that they

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like the best thing in the world
is the most recent thing they've

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opened as well?
Like we sat there and we opened

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loads of stuff and over
Christmas Roy was spoiled and it

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was so nice and we're really
grateful to everyone.

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And then like our friend
Christmas we did yesterday.

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There's a bunch of kids now in
our friends group, so we just

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did a Secret Santa for the kids.
So we got drawn another child

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and someone bought for Rory just
so the kids had something to

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open without having to buy for
like 10 kids.

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And so Rory for his one,
obviously, 'cause we're all

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mates as well.
The parents, Yeah, like the gift

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Rory got was a golf set, like
during them, one of them plastic

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golf sets.
And it's perfect, like, perfect

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for my son.
And he could do some golf within

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20 minutes.
The adults have broken the golf

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set because we tried to do some
no kitchen.

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But let's not forget about that.
Most of the golf sets still

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intact.
But Rory won't go anywhere now

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without dragging this golf set
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And he wants the golf set
constantly.

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And it's like, it's really nice.
It's a really nice gift, which

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is this little plastic like
stick.

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Basically he's got.
I'm like, oh, Rory, do you want

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any of the of the previous the
truck things that we've got

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here, which is like big old
truck thing.

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You can sit in your car.
No, I want to hit the golf stick

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against my head repeatedly.
Until you give him a new gift,

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that is the only thing he'll
he'll enjoy.

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I just I just had visions there
and if you and your mates doing

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secrets and through the kids and
just like the office, you, you,

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you got someone like an iPod.
You're like, Oh, golf set.

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What did you, what did you open
your one?

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Open your one over there?
Oh, who got them that iPod set?

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Wow.
I could show you how old you

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are.
No one gets an iPod anymore, and

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if an iPod exists.
IPods.

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Can you buy an iPod nowadays?
Probably not.

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Buy a phone.
God, that's terrible, isn't?

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It anyway, I've got a question
to ask you.

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Did you over the Christmas
festive period try and play a

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board game with your family?
Sort of.

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Right.
Go on.

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It wasn't a ball game.
We played a game.

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Right.
And how did it go?

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It was.
Actually really fun.

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Did it go right?
Yeah.

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I can't do it anymore.
Why?

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I just can't.
It's a running joke of my

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family.
That do you mean you can't?

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Have you tried to explain the
rules of a board game to more

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than six people sat around the
Christmas table?

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Oh, did you listen to the other
five times I asked you?

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And I'm just there like, please
don't use my teacher voice.

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Please don't use my teacher
voice.

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I'm like, what's the rule again?
Like mate, you're worse than my

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9 year olds.
I can't do.

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It I literally saw memes about
that on Instagram of like the

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one one person in the family who
just wishes everyone else

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listened to the rules and
they're just sat there like

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hating life.
I just, I'm like, Oh my God,

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they'll ask me.
OK, Dylan, you're the teacher.

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You read the rules and you can
explain the rules to us.

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OK, So I take it really
seriously.

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I'm reading the rules.
OK, I'm going to put this into

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like, there's like four or five
sides of rules here.

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I'm just going to put it into a
really nice compound message.

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I'm going to tell them.
What?

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Can you spell that again?
No, not really.

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What about this?
I'm getting there.

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I've got there, yet I'm not
doing it.

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Oh, God, That's the board games.
Nope.

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Unless they're really simple.
Nope.

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You missed the trick.
That's what we did.

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Simple.
We played a game, literally the

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best game we played, extremely
simple, bunch of play dough and

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the game was you get 5 minutes.
Can you eat the play dough?

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You can eat the most play dough
without firing up river one.

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No, it was like, plus you get 5
minutes and it's like a random

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picture generated on your phone
and it's you just got you just

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it's the best person to like the
best model of that thing when

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it's the window.
Judge, was that who?

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Judges, we just picked between
us, you all vote like who made

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the best things.
It was the first one was like a

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duck.
It was always making a duck out

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of place.
It's just funny because

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obviously people, some people
rush because they're trying to

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beat the timer and it looks
hilariously bad.

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Some people go too slow.
That's me or every time not

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finished.
It's just pretty funny game.

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Easy to, easy to do, no rules.
Yeah.

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Well done.
Yeah, thanks.

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Well, when I'll catch up, we're
gonna do a lot of talking today

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about reflecting on the year.
This is the last episode of

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2024.
We're gonna talk about our goals

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for next year.
There is something in the news.

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I think we might spark a nice
discussion after this little

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Jingle.
We're going to play and then

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we're going to finish up with
you've got a nice little royal

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oh of.
Course I have, that's the best

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bit.
That's the best bit.

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We're going to talk about some
teacher nightmares, so let's

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play the Jingle and jump into
this Tony Blair Institute in the

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news.
What's going on?

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Let's find out, shall we?
I've been reliably informed that

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it's not an institute, it's not
the Tony Blair Institute.

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Actually, you know, there's a
Tony Blair think tank.

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Sorry, sorry for that.
Anyway, in the news, I, I really

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can't wait to hear what you
think about this.

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Go on.
So in the news there's, there's

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this article that's been
published by the Guardian and

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they're talking about some
findings from a think tank led

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by Tony Blair basically.
And it's about education

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because, you know, Tony Blair is
bigger than education.

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How to solve it and how to crack
down on it.

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And it's to do behaviour because
behaviour in schools, I think we

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all accept it at least feels
like it's got a lot worse.

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And there's a lot of reasons for
that.

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But anyway, one of the solutions
given by this think tank is so

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ministers should give teachers
the power to fine parents if

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they do not engage with the
school to tackle epidemic of bad

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behaviour.
Oh so educators should have the

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same legal powers they have over
non attendance?

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So you know you get fined for
not attending?

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School.
Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, they're saying we should
expand that to compel parents to

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turn up to meetings with the
school, agree an action plan for

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their child if they're really
misbehaving, just basically

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spread that out a bit more to
not just attendance.

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But the argument here is, cool,
OK, well, you're attending, but

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you're not paying any effort.
You might as well not be in

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there.
You're just disrupting other

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people.
If anything, you being in school

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is actually worse for the other
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getting anything out of it
because you are not trying your

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hardest.
Your behaviour is terrible.

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So they should be put onto the
parents then and fines should be

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kind of expanded to cover that
as well.

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What's what's your initial?
Take my gut reaction is is that

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I don't like it.
I don't.

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Maybe we'll take a minute to
explore why, but I did.

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That doesn't feel right.
It doesn't feel right.

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Yes, I do think there is a
problem.

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I do think behaviour is getting
worse.

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I think that maybe something
drastic needs to happen, which

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is probably what they're going
down here like that route of

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like we need drastic action to
to fix this.

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But I don't know why is it, Is
it always money?

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Why is it?
Yeah, I don't know.

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There's something, there's
something about finding people

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in general that I've always
found weird in culture.

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Like I've always maybe all my,
my lefty wokey mates.

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I've always said like, oh, it
does just affect poor people

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though really, Of course,
doesn't it?

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It's like rich people don't care
about fines, do they?

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I'm sick and tired of hearing
fining as being the answer to

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everything.
I was like are you insane?

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Do you know the reason we're in
this mess is because probably a

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big part of it is the socio
economic injustice in this

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country that we've got right now
where the complete wealth

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inequality that we've got years
and years of austerity.

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I'm not funding things is
adequately and not having

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children develop in ways they
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They're ripping out of Surestar
to support families who need it

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at the earliest points of the
child's like lifetime where most

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we all agree most of this
child's outcomes are already

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decided in the first few years.
Oh, it's all right.

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When they're 13 and misbehaving
in school, we'll just find them

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some more because they're own
fault.

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Yeah, that would stop.
Them are we insane?

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It's not going to do anything.
And you're completely right

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about finding, finding is it's
completely, whatever you think

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about it.
If a poor family on Universal

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Credit are getting fined the
same amount as a rich family

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whose charged just a little
nightmare as well, that's

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obviously going to completely
like massively affect that

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poorer family much more in terms
of just how much of their income

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they're being fined.
What's £80?

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It's the same when rich families
go on go on holiday 4 * a year.

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Or are we going to be fined
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OK.
Yeah, makes no difference to me.

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Or like you've parked on those
WS again in your Lamborghini.

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That Yeah, I don't care.
It's a Lamborghini.

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I'll take the French and find to
park where I want.

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Thank you.
And half the time I won't even

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get fined because no one will
catch me.

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It's worth it.
It's you.

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You.
They they're more able to take

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the risks.
Like it doesn't matter to them.

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Yeah.
I'm just sick and tired of

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finding being any, like, ever
being used as a way to try and

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control people.
Because finding only tries to

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control poor people.
That's the only way.

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Finding is only adequate if it's
related to how much you earn.

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Yeah.
So if if it's like OK, I think

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in some countries speeding
tickets are like a percentage

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of.
Your our country is to a certain

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level.
Oh, really?

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Yeah, yeah, there are certain
degrees of speeding tickets,

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like there's like the first
level of ticket that's like

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standard for everyone.
But after that, like if you're

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if you're speeding, fine is like
really particularly bad.

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It is like a weak income.
Wow, so you know a lot about

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speeding tickets?
I don't know why I know anything

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about that.
But yeah, look, but I think

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that's right.
And I saw someone tried to

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defend it and say that's not
right.

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It just should be the the money
you get is the punishment.

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No, I'm not getting.
Completely wrong.

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No, the point of a fine, it's
supposed to be a deterrent,

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right?
And if it's not a deterrent

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because you've got loads of
money, then it's that is

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pointless.
It's not even court.

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It's not even doing anything.
Exactly.

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So go even going back to it
though, like I felt it was a bit

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click bait anyway, like giving
teachers the power just like

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they have that I don't even have
the power to fine for

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attendance.
What you're talking about your

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head teacher does.
I have nothing to do with it

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really.
Like literally nothing to I

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don't think any teacher in this
country is actually being like

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getting out that little fine
book and issuing that fine to

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that parent.
No, no, no teachers doing that

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anyway.
It's just such an easy way for

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me to appease, like they're
trying to appease the right

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People like to say that they're
doing something.

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Yeah, we're going to find these
people.

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Like you're just dog whistling.
To those people who think

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everything is the individual's
fault all of the time.

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You're on bloody benefits and
your kids are nightmare at

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school.
Yeah, you should be fined.

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It's like, are you serious about
actually tackling this problem

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or are you just trying to put up
a facade?

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But yeah, we're the government
and we're doing something.

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Absolutely.
There's there's a certain group

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of let's say 60 plus white male,
let's say sort of right wing and

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it just radish.
There's a certain group of

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people that that would appeal
to.

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I can't think of a single word.
I can't summarise them.

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I don't know.
I did.

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There's, you know.
No.

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Anyway, whatever that group is.
But it's true.

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They're the ones that, yeah,
even put up on your bootstraps.

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Look, we're not saying it's a
problem, but if you it's, it's

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like when we talked about the
whole episode, we have to do

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with attendance.
If you're really serious about

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fixing this issue, this is not
going to do.

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It goes deeper.
That's that's true, isn't it?

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Go back and listen to that one.
Don't know when it was about

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attendance.
Find it good.

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Luckily, all three figures
aided.

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It could be.
It could be anywhere.

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I know, right?
We're approaching episode 100.

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But yeah, anyway, a big part of
this was, and the way this think

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tank kind of framed this was it
would help retention and

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recruitment in teaching because
it would give teachers the power

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to call things out earlier and
sort it out because behaviour is

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a big issue with retention.
Basically it's like, yeah, this

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would help that because it would
help solve behaviour, therefore

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help with retention and
recruitment.

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And I was like simultaneously it
also said that it would be

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giving teachers more
safeguarding responsibility and

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and able to call stuff out.
It's like, oh, that's a weird

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framing.
They've cracked it.

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We've got much more
responsibility again.

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Can you believe that?
Do you know what teachers need

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more than anything Haidam?
It's another role in their job

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that they have to complete and
compile them and file and do and

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go for more.
Responsible, more

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responsibility.
I'll tell you what.

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Imagine Tony Blair.
I don't know why.

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It's just Tony Blair now.
Him sat there.

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Tony Blair.
There's his think tank.

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It's just himself.
Just Tony Blair.

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Just talking to someone, writing
two buttons.

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The classic meme. 2 buttons.
One says more money, more

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funding, less responsibility.
The other one is more power.

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Teachers.
What the teachers really want.

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I think it's more power.
I think teachers want more

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power.
That's it.

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They love teachers.
Probably.

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And by power we mean workload.
More stuff to do, yeah.

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Yeah, I don't know, a bit dumb,
doesn't it?

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It's just.
It's just.

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I was talking about this the
other day with Joe.

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Over Christmas.
You talked.

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You've talked to people who
aren't in your bubble, don't

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you?
It's a big thing about

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Christmas.
Your entire family, Yeah.

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Exactly.
Yeah, people who aren't in

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teaching, but the, the, the
interesting thing about teaching

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is everyone's been through the
education system.

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So and, and I think it's a
classic thing to say, oh, these

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days everything's worse.
You are back in that day,

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everything's getting worse.
Can you believe these kids these

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days?
And I just remember talking, I

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was talking to a family, I was
like, if we just actually think

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about it for a minute,
especially in education for

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children specifically, things
have got so much better, so much

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better.
And like this was in the same

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conversation, by the way, where
a family member was saying, oh,

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Can you believe kids?
Are these there, blah, blah,

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blah.
But in the same conversation, we

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talked about how they used to
get whipped by the headteacher

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in headteachers office and
thrown like board, like board

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was thrown at the head.
And I was like, you just listen

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to what we're saying for a
minute.

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Like the biggest part of my job
now as a teacher is

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safeguarding.
I think that's why the event

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you've asked any teacher, what's
the number one responsibility

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you've got to teachers to
keeping children safe.

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That's the number one thing
we're we're coming from a point

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where 4050 years ago teachers
were allowed to hit literally

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not make themselves so so it
beats them.

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It's like, Can you imagine these
days like you have a bored

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rubber and whack it your head
and then like reporting it

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yourself on my concern or.
Something like writing it.

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Yeah.
Yeah, yourself.

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The point is it's completely
transformed as a job where

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children have got more
safeguarding than ever, which is

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absolutely right.
But where is the bulk of that

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responsibility and workload
landed on?

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It's the teacher whose honestly
whose job was just to teach

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mouse or just to teach English.
And I'm not saying it shouldn't

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be the responsibility of the
teacher to look for safeguarding

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and stuff, it absolutely should
be.

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But let's not pretend that A,
it's as easy a job as it ever

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been or B, that it's getting
worse for children.

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It's like, no, it's getting much
better for children all the

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time.
And the job is much harder than

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ever for a teacher.
So if you're, if you're still

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trapped in the 70s of thinking,
oh, bloody teachers come in.

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I remember my teachers smoking
at the front and throwing and

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throwing a board at me and I
just went home at 3:15 with all

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the kids and, and it's a
completely different job now.

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And I think lots of people still
have that in their head when

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they look at teachers.
I've literally heard stories

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from teachers who still teach,
but that taught 20-30 years ago

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who were like, yeah, at
lunchtime.

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We used to just go down the pub.
It was like a pub day once a

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week.
We'd go and literally have like,

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alcohol.
Yeah, I was like, that sounds

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mad.
Yeah, And it just winds me up

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when, when, especially when
teachers themselves will comment

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on stuff we post online and be
like, it's always been hard, OK.

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Yeah.
Like, listen, I'm sure 30 years

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ago you had moments where you
thought this is stressful, and

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I'm sure it was.
Please don't compare it like

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it's.
It's just apples and pears,

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isn't it?
It's completely different.

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It's not the same job.
It's not the same.

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I'm not even saying that from a
as if like I will work 30 years

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ago.
I'm saying that genuinely from

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having spoke to so many teachers
who actually do just agree and

454
00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,440
say like, Oh yeah, this job is
nothing like it was 20 years

455
00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:27,079
ago.
Well, and the point was, having

456
00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:29,560
talked to these family members
within 5 minutes of talking

457
00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,600
about it all, all of them are
like, oh, yeah, I guess that's

458
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:32,000
right.
Yeah.

459
00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,400
Yeah.
They just because people don't

460
00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,040
think about it more than 5
minutes because they don't have

461
00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:35,840
to.
They're not involved in the

462
00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,440
education world.
They just have their

463
00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:38,160
experiences.
Yeah.

464
00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:40,720
And then they go, oh, yeah.
No, I guess to be fair, yeah, I

465
00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:43,480
guess children are a lot safer
now and teachers do have a lot

466
00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:43,920
more to do.
Did.

467
00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:47,400
You not have anyone in your
family sort of age, 6012, white

468
00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,000
male who said I'll bring back
the board brothers?

469
00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,680
Because I feel like if I had
that conversation, there'll be

470
00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,880
at least someone in my family
that'll be like, I'll bring it

471
00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:54,880
back.
They'd ignore everything I said,

472
00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:55,680
yeah.
Yeah.

473
00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,360
I mean, I mean, what do you do
with those people?

474
00:17:58,360 --> 00:18:00,360
I don't.
Know I usually you know what

475
00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,560
I've you know me.
We're very similar in terms of

476
00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,600
we start a freaking podcast to
do this, but like we'll argue

477
00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,040
with people and debate.
I'll get really vexed and

478
00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,080
annoyed.
I am starting starting.

479
00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:14,000
It's particularly with family
now to just not care anymore.

480
00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,040
Yeah.
Like I can't even be bothered to

481
00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,640
have the debate to the point
where I'll even just like yeah,

482
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,520
yeah, yeah.
Like it almost sounds like I'm

483
00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,400
agreeing because I just I just
think I just what's the plan not

484
00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,800
to be bothered?
You change know that you're you

485
00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,800
know you're age 60 plus you're a
white male and.

486
00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,240
It means quite of a word for
these people.

487
00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:32,840
I just, I don't know, it's just
a group, isn't it?

488
00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,920
And I'm like, I'm just, I'm
never going to change your mind.

489
00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:40,200
I'm you've reached a level of
obnoxiousness if that's a word,

490
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,360
and it's like it's I'm nothing.
Do you said question here and

491
00:18:43,360 --> 00:18:46,480
then people listening who are
like, yeah, do you feel like

492
00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:50,040
you're that the other way?
What you can't change?

493
00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,560
My mind just like, well, I think
this, yeah, if someone came

494
00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,560
along and really tried to say to
you, look, well, no, no, I think

495
00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,560
fines are good because, yeah, I
know they impact these people

496
00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,880
more, but that's the majority of
the population.

497
00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:00,840
And yeah, it shouldn't impact
them.

498
00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,520
There's always going to be some.
What would you do instead?

499
00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:03,600
I mean, they've got to find
people.

500
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:04,600
How else are you going to fix
this?

501
00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,320
What's the deterrent that you
put rich blah, blah blah.

502
00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,000
Do do you feel like you're
equally like, well, I've made-up

503
00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:10,600
my mind or?
I don't think so.

504
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,320
I think, I think, I think it's
the scale, isn't it?

505
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,240
Maybe some things are a bit
closer to that thing where I'm

506
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,440
where I'm really, really
confident in my arguments where

507
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,440
I'm like, there's nothing that
can that can argue this.

508
00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,080
But other things I think I'm
quite open.

509
00:19:20,360 --> 00:19:22,840
Like I have a base opinion and
maybe I'll spend 10 minutes

510
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,880
thinking about it, but then
someone else who's thought is

511
00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,720
written an essay about it could
come along and I would

512
00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:28,960
absolutely respect their
opinion.

513
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,000
And they're like, well, you
clearly know more.

514
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,120
I think that's the difference,
isn't it?

515
00:19:31,120 --> 00:19:33,880
When when it sounds, it does
sound a bit obnoxious.

516
00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,280
But when you and I, as teachers
who've done the job for 10

517
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:41,880
years, talk about what it's like
to be a teacher, and someone who

518
00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:46,600
hasn't been in school for 45
years tries to reply as if they

519
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,680
know as much as we do about the
school, that's where I struggle

520
00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,320
with it because I'm just like,
OK, how do you politely just say

521
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:54,720
to someone you are just wrong,
though?

522
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:56,840
But it's not it's not an opinion
anymore.

523
00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,440
It's it's just wrong that kids
aren't safer than it's just.

524
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:01,200
Yeah.
Yeah.

525
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:03,600
Oh, particularly when it's just
everyone's entitled to their.

526
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,400
Opinion, but not really.
When it's just wrong though,

527
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:06,760
yeah, it's.
Not really in the people if

528
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,400
you're if you're forming your
opinion from one source of

529
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:10,880
media, that's what that's what I
find it tricky.

530
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,240
People that read loads and
genuinely consume a lot of

531
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,080
perspectives and things, I think
have a really good, valid

532
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,640
opinion, even though, even if
they've not been in school for a

533
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,320
long time.
It's the people that it's like

534
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:22,960
they only read one newspaper and
watch one channel and they

535
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,760
occasionally see an article
about this thing and then they

536
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,800
have a really strong opinion
about how teachers should be

537
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,640
doing their jobs.
And I'm like, you don't really

538
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,760
know any of the nuances though.
You don't have anything about it

539
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,240
really other than the propaganda
that you have like sold.

540
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,160
So I just find it tricky to have
those conversations with people

541
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,320
because I get so emotional.
I just have to.

542
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,640
I think I've started to switch
off as well.

543
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,880
I mean, the podcast has helped
in terms of this.

544
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,520
Is this can be your advice to
say or do you think it's

545
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,080
completely?
Separate no, I think it has

546
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,960
helped a little bit, especially
knowing that a lot of people,

547
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,960
which I'm quite surprised that
still like the bulk of people

548
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,960
who message us and comment our
stuff do generally agree.

549
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,040
Oh, which is quite nice.
And I feel like online that's

550
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,600
not a thing.
Like online all you do is get

551
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,080
hate.
Like genuinely look at anything

552
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,200
else.
You look open the comments on

553
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,680
any video ever and the first top
comment will be someone just

554
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,920
disagreeing with whatever the
video is.

555
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:06,880
It's just, it's just the way we
are.

556
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,040
And I feel like we we do get
that, but it's not as much as I

557
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,520
thought.
It's it's honestly 95% plus is

558
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:14,720
positive.
Which is cool.

559
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:16,400
Genuinely.
So yeah, it's nice.

560
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:21,080
It's nice to feel like, do you
know what this sounds so GB

561
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,360
newsy what I'm about to say,
because I've thought about

562
00:21:23,360 --> 00:21:25,400
saying this a few times in like,
do you know when you're trying

563
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,200
to get stuff across quick?
Like if people come across the

564
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,840
podcast online and stuff, I'm
like, maybe maybe our listeners

565
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,360
could help us.
Like what would you, how would

566
00:21:31,360 --> 00:21:33,080
you summarise this podcast in
like a sentence?

567
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,200
So people are like, Oh, I'll
listen to that because so far

568
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:37,480
it's just like primary school
teachers, like I find it really

569
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,200
hard to get across the fact
we're quite laid back.

570
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,760
We, we try and have a joke, but
we talk about really serious

571
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,440
stuff.
I, I find that hard to get

572
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,000
across to people who quickly on
social media.

573
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,760
Anyway, I thought to myself,
Gemma, we, we say what people

574
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:48,720
are thinking.
And I was like, oh.

575
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,720
God, oh God, oh.
God, don't say that 'cause

576
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,920
that's like the most Nigel
Farage thing I've ever.

577
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,280
He says what we're all thinking.
I was like all.

578
00:21:55,360 --> 00:21:57,400
But that is what people tell us.
People.

579
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,880
Mesh doesn't go that's exactly
what I was thinking and I'm

580
00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:02,080
scared to say that in my school
because of XYZ.

581
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,800
And how do I get that across
without signing like a, a like

582
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,720
right wing, like, yeah, we say,
Oh yeah, then get it, buddy.

583
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,080
Get.
It and this podcast is sponsored

584
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,960
by Reform.
I'm not, I'm not doing it.

585
00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:14,040
They'll sue us.
Don't even do that.

586
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,800
Yeah, honestly go.
But yeah anyway, interesting.

587
00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:20,440
I I'm fed up of fines being a
thing when when it comes to

588
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,040
children's behaviours and stuff
because I think money is the

589
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,880
root cause and funding is the
root cause of half of these

590
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,120
problems.
And I think it's so easy for

591
00:22:30,120 --> 00:22:33,360
people in charge to point the
blame at individuals when they

592
00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:36,120
spent the last 15 years ripping
apart any support they've got

593
00:22:36,120 --> 00:22:37,800
whatsoever.
And I just don't really get

594
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,880
what.
I don't get what it would do

595
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,680
anyway, like.
It's meant to force to force.

596
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,400
Parents to do something, that's
what it's meant to be.

597
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,080
Yeah, but they don't do you know
what the problem is?

598
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,880
They don't know what to do, I
imagine, right.

599
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,920
In most cases, right.
They don't know what to do

600
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,360
otherwise they do it.
Yeah.

601
00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:52,720
It's it's just this horrible
assumption, I think that the,

602
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,800
the, the parents, they, they
don't care or, or they do get,

603
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,560
they just don't care enough.
It's like, oh, if I had a bit of

604
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,240
money, though, I would start
caring about doing the right

605
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,320
thing for my kids.
And you know what?

606
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:01,720
That's really rude.
Yeah.

607
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,000
So as if, like you think every
kid that's badly behaved has

608
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,440
parents that just don't care
about their behaviour.

609
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,360
Probably not true.
Really.

610
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,520
Is it like, I don't know.
I'm yeah, some cases, I'm sure,

611
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,600
but there's gonna be tonnes of
cases.

612
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,160
But that's not the not the case.
And taking money away from them

613
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:19,200
isn't gonna do.
Anything is this has has fines

614
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,640
solved the the education?
Sorry I can't even get my words

615
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,920
out I'm so annoyed.
Have fines solved the attendance

616
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,720
crisis?
No, that's.

617
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,000
Not remotely, of course not,
because it's not.

618
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,840
That's not why kids aren't
coming into school so mum can

619
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,920
afford groceries that week, no.
In America.

620
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,280
I don't know.
Anyway, very interesting.

621
00:23:38,360 --> 00:23:40,760
I'd love to hear what you guys
think about how to try and solve

622
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,720
the behavioural problem because
I do think behaviour is a huge

623
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,440
problem.
I think it's a massive driver of

624
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,120
why teachers are leaving the job
in droves.

625
00:23:46,120 --> 00:23:48,080
I think it's a huge issue that
needs tackling.

626
00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:54,120
I think this is just a plaster
on a open wound that barely

627
00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:55,920
covers it.
It's like, it's like a plaster

628
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,640
on an open wound but it's in the
wrong place in your body.

629
00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,880
It's like, oh God, I've got a
huge gash on my elbow.

630
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:00,880
Do you want a plaster for your
head?

631
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,920
Not really really help.
I love it.

632
00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:06,320
Should we talk about some more
fun stuff?

633
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,040
OK Hayden, so reflecting on
2024, we put together a list of

634
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,200
our best of.
So we've got a few categories,

635
00:24:14,360 --> 00:24:18,120
starting off with our best
children's book of 2024.

636
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,520
Doesn't have to be one that's
been actually released this

637
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,240
year, but our experience of
reading it for the first time or

638
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,400
coming across it.
What's been your favourite

639
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,680
children's book of 2024?
It's an easy one, Dylan.

640
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,680
It's an easy one because I
enjoyed this so much.

641
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,680
It was the Boy in the Tower by
Polly Ho Yen.

642
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,840
It's I mean, you're going to
know I love this.

643
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,080
It's post apocalyptic.
Oh right, one of those I loved

644
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,640
post pocket I don't feel like.
There's many children's books.

645
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,920
Yeah, I know, I know.
Right.

646
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,120
And when I was reading it, I was
like, oh, is this appropriate

647
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:45,040
for kids?
That was my first thought.

648
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,320
And I was reading.
I was like, yeah, it is

649
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,160
actually.
Because, like it, it's just, do

650
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,680
you want me to tell you, like, a
summary of the story?

651
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,800
Yeah.
So it follows a young boy who

652
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,360
lives in a tower with his mum.
His mum.

653
00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:54,960
Wait a minute, this boy's in the
tower.

654
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,560
Boy, isn't that the title is
just so cryptic and and

655
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,640
basically there's like the world
is invaded by these like aliens.

656
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,080
I think they're aliens.
I don't really know, but they

657
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,840
seem to have come from that
space, paying attention to it.

658
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,880
And I don't really, they say
don't explore it, but they're

659
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:12,600
like these strange plants that
eat buildings and they decimate,

660
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,600
they decimate London like the
whole, the whole city just gets

661
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,240
like just destroyed by these
plants.

662
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,440
And he's in this like last
remaining tower essentially.

663
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,560
And it follows his story and his
journey of survival with a, with

664
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,440
a few other people in the tower
who like, obviously there's

665
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,120
nothing works anymore.
They run out of water, run out

666
00:25:27,120 --> 00:25:28,400
of food and they have to try and
escape.

667
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,600
It's a really gripping narrative
and I don't know, there's just

668
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,720
it explores lots of themes as
well, like his mum is suffering

669
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,600
from mental health issues and
that's like a like a secondary

670
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,240
theme running for this book of
this boy who has to fend for

671
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,240
himself as independence.
And it's just one of those

672
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,160
things where I was like, when
the kids are reading this, I

673
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,760
love a book where some kids
might relate to it, even even

674
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,880
unlike a really deep person.
Like my tower has been invaded

675
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,920
by aliens.
Oh my God, finally a book for

676
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,000
me.
Literally.

677
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,520
But there's just something about
like, I don't know, books that

678
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,480
explore those bigger issues like
mental health or or people who

679
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,120
don't just have that perfect
family life.

680
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,640
You know, there's so many kids
don't don't grow up in that,

681
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,360
that what's what's the nuclear
family like?

682
00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:08,160
They don't grow up like that any
like anymore.

683
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,120
As if they ever.
Did no.

684
00:26:09,120 --> 00:26:12,040
But what's great about modern
literature, I think, is that you

685
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,920
get a vast.
Amount exactly whereas I feel

686
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,840
like you didn't use our
traditional stories are all very

687
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,840
like oh it's.
In the English countryside and

688
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,280
we're going to explore the
fields and Oh my gosh, we got

689
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,240
lost in the Meadow.
It's called the Meadow and the

690
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,560
Hare.
But mummy and daddy came and

691
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,360
saved me and it's whereas this
one's just not.

692
00:26:25,360 --> 00:26:26,880
It's just like, no, they're just
a poor family.

693
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,720
They live in a tower.
His mum doesn't look after him.

694
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,200
He's a boy.
He's literally by himself.

695
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,280
Shut up.
It's a really, really good book.

696
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,160
I I don't want to give away too
much of the story, but I would

697
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,360
urge people to read it could.
I think, I think you've hit the

698
00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:43,720
nail on the head in terms of I
think sometimes children are in

699
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,560
situations at home where they
don't even necessarily know what

700
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,120
situation they're in.
Does that make any sense?

701
00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:49,480
Yeah, absolutely.
There'll be a lot of children

702
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,280
who have parents with mental
health issues where the parents

703
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,880
are doing the absolute best they
can, trying to shield their

704
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,120
children from all those issues
and dramas and stuff, but it's

705
00:26:56,120 --> 00:26:58,200
still obviously in the
background going to be shaping

706
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,840
their life.
And then the children will read

707
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,200
a book like this.
But it's like my mum.

708
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:04,720
And and kind of relate to that
character.

709
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,000
Oh, yeah.
I don't, I don't, I don't

710
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,320
understand those struggles a
little bit.

711
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,240
And I was OK.
This guy overcame them because

712
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:10,880
of.
So yeah, I do, especially for

713
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,320
the age group because I'm year 6
and I don't think I'd recommend

714
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,680
reading that lower.
OK, yeah, I think it was quite

715
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,720
mature.
But I can see my year 6 is

716
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,160
coping with it.
And those kids at that point,

717
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,680
it's like, that's when they
start to notice differences,

718
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:22,840
isn't it?
That's when they start to go

719
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,920
hang on a minute, my friends.
My friend's life is very

720
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,400
different to mine, actually.
Like, what is normal?

721
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:28,840
Am I normal?
Is this right?

722
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,480
Like, you start to develop those
anxieties.

723
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,880
So I just think reading
different perspectives is always

724
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:33,960
great.
Brilliant.

725
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,360
Yeah.
What about you, my one again?

726
00:27:35,360 --> 00:27:36,960
It's fun enough.
It's the most recent book that

727
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,480
I've read.
It's The Wild Robot.

728
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,400
It's been recently adapted into
a DreamWorks film.

729
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:43,560
It's on the Amazon Prime, I
think.

730
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,440
And that kind of piqued my
interest because it got adapted

731
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:47,920
from a children's book.
And I said, OK, it's getting a

732
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,880
lot of good reviews.
So I haven't watched the film

733
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,320
yet.
I thought I'd read the book 1st.

734
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,560
And it's an unbelievable book.
Like it's so good.

735
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,120
And I can see why people really,
really like connected with it a

736
00:27:58,120 --> 00:28:00,240
little bit.
Two things I wanted to say about

737
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,040
it, really.
The first one was, it got me

738
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,520
excited.
This is just like a practical

739
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,400
thing really, because I'm gonna
read it to my class in the new

740
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,000
year, right?
Because the chapters are honest.

741
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,640
They're all 1-2 or three pages
long.

742
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,680
Wow.
The chapters are really short,

743
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,160
quick.
Something happens and it leads

744
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,400
on to something else that's
about to happen.

745
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,480
Something happens, leads on to
something else and it's the

746
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,880
perfect book to read to your
class because if you have two

747
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,360
minutes or 10 minutes, you can
read a chunk and stop And and

748
00:28:26,360 --> 00:28:27,760
you're not like halfway through
a chapter.

749
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,720
There's nothing more annoying
than when there's like 20 page

750
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,240
chapters.
You're halfway through this

751
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,160
really intense tech chat and
you're just actually to have

752
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,280
time.
Kids, we've got to stop right

753
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,240
now.
This is really bite sized.

754
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,320
It's really easy to read it.
It like the story moves quickly

755
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,440
because it's in those short
chapters and basically it

756
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,400
follows this robot living in
this world, it's kind of

757
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,600
futuristic world.
Eventually you find out that

758
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,480
there are robots everywhere.
Post apocalyptic, No, not quite.

759
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,680
But the basically this robot,
it's being transported on a

760
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,680
cargo ship in in a crate.
There's a big crash.

761
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,760
All the robots like 495 out of
500 of them just get lost in the

762
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,760
ocean. 5 crates are travelling
towards the island.

763
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,200
That's how it starts.
And one by one, the crates get

764
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,600
demolished.
Like a wave hits them, a rock

765
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,160
hits them, and there's just one
left in the end.

766
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,440
And this group of otters come up
and accidentally activate this

767
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,320
robot on this island.
And this island is just full of

768
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,160
wildlife.
This is unbelievable

769
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,000
descriptions of animals, of
plants and wildlife.

770
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:26,920
It's so, so good.
And this robot basically awakens

771
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,000
and learns the ways of the
animals, learns their languages

772
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,360
and adopts this goose.
So basically the whole, the

773
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:38,640
whole story is the accidentally
kills a family of geese, right?

774
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,920
Climbing on the wall, there's a
storm comes in and this family

775
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,080
of geese die.
And he finds an egg.

776
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,200
And he protects this, She
protects this egg.

777
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,800
Ross, who's the robot and
becomes the egg's mother, right?

778
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,440
And the whole story is the goose
grows up, goes on a migration

779
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,840
this kind of, again, there's
these things children can relate

780
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,160
to really in terms of like,
again, like a broken family.

781
00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,360
Like I'm not a traditional
family.

782
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,200
It's a robot.
And and the goose.

783
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,640
My dad's a robot, my mum's a
goose.

784
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,000
It's that thing that gets
always.

785
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,600
It's classic, isn't it?
It's like I can relate to that

786
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,640
to be honest with you.
But you know these these moments

787
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,840
of like the goose grows up and
realises its mum is not the same

788
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,600
as the mum can't fly or or.
It's the metaphor, isn't it?

789
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,960
Exactly.
And then eventually the goose

790
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,720
goes on a migration.
Robots left there.

791
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,640
And as a parent, now that we're
parents, you watch and you're

792
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,800
like, Oh my, this is like the
whole metaphor of like growing

793
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,440
up.
Basically the other perspective.

794
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,080
And by the end I'm no spoilers
or anything but like the the

795
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,360
ending I can imagine especially
in a film version Tear jacker.

796
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,000
Yeah, yeah, tear jacker.
Did it make you feel a bit

797
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,360
welled up?
Yeah, a little bit.

798
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,320
You can kind of imagine what
where it might be going and

799
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,280
stuff.
But the last third of the book,

800
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,040
I couldn't put it down.
Like it was so intense.

801
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,400
I was like, Oh my God, I need
something happens next.

802
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,040
And that's what I want for my
kids.

803
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,280
A really good quality story.
Amazing description all about

804
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,120
wildlife.
The way the author talks about

805
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,120
these different animals and
stuff is so good.

806
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,040
What age range would you say?
I would say you, I honestly

807
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,080
think you could read that as a
class, but you read it to like

808
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,600
your year twos, your year three.
What would?

809
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,680
You say it's the best for.
I'd say, I'd say best for year 3

810
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,600
for because because again,
towards the end, not net,

811
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,080
there's a little bit of
violence, like tiny bit of

812
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,560
violence.
There's like kind of jeopardy

813
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,920
almost at the end, but I think
it's enough for any child to

814
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,280
kind of handle.
There's no goal or anything like

815
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,160
that.
It's not too mature.

816
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,760
It's not too mature at all.
No, it's just like there's a

817
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,240
there's a bit of danger towards
the end.

818
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,440
Willy Gal of it.
Yeah, it's it's so good.

819
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,720
So like read it.
Like I'd recommend adults to

820
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,240
read it as well as well as
children.

821
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,240
Yeah, I think it genuinely
sounds really good.

822
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,440
Good.
OK next one it's kind of linked

823
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,280
what's I'm going to start with
mine if you don't mind.

824
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,200
Favourite adults book?
Now I I'm a bit interested to

825
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,680
hear what you say about reading
as an adult.

826
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,800
I I try and read as much as
possible.

827
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,880
I I tend to enjoy non fiction
books more.

828
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,760
OK.
So for me personally, if I think

829
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,920
about the books I've read in
2024, 2 stand out for me and

830
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,800
they're both to do with like
professions and almost like

831
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,520
explaining, do you know what?
We want this.

832
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,640
We talk about teaching and we're
like, oh, the insides of

833
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,000
teaching.
I found I only read it this

834
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,800
year.
It's an older book by Adam Kay,

835
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,480
who's an ex Doctor Who's become
like a comedian and a writer and

836
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,640
stuff since called This is going
to Her.

837
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,640
And it's basically his published
Diaries of his time training as

838
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,280
a doctor, becoming a doctor,
going through all that.

839
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,520
It's amazing because it's
hilarious.

840
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,440
It's like it's tear jerking
again.

841
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,600
You realise you, you're, you're
reading it.

842
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,520
And it helped me as a teacher
realise, oh, I'm not just a

843
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,360
victim of this society.
Everything's broken.

844
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,760
OK, I understand that now.
OK, Doctors, nurses, healthcare,

845
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,480
you read it and you're like, how
do you function?

846
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,840
Like it being broken is normal
for them?

847
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,480
Can we talk about toxic schools
and stuff?

848
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:38,920
And some schools are good, some
schools are bad.

849
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,360
It's normal for a doctor.
Completely broken.

850
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,040
It's completely broken.
And they're directly like

851
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,480
dealing with people who are
dying.

852
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,680
Yeah, people who need help and
they can't mentally taxing to

853
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:49,160
the.
Highest.

854
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,120
Levels I I, I don't know how
he's come out of it with such a

855
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,600
hilarious like, maybe that's
coping.

856
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:55,640
Mechanism.
Yeah, literally.

857
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,120
I'd recommend that for anyone.
And the other one really quick

858
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:01,720
is from Rory Stewart, who is
again part of the arrested

859
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,400
Politics podcast.
We've spoken about a few times.

860
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,800
He's an ex Tory MP, was a Tory
MP through the whole of the

861
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,480
coalition government.
Austerity honestly should be

862
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,200
like my arch nemesis, like
someone like, oh I hate you for

863
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,440
doing that.
But he, again, just lifts the

864
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,280
curtain on the entire system,
how it's completely broken,

865
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,800
horrible people who are
completely incompetent rise to

866
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,080
the top because just say the
right thing, do the right thing,

867
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,840
Don't care about outcomes for
people at all.

868
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,440
Like all the worst things you
think of for certain

869
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:27,960
politicians.
He's like, yeah, that's

870
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,480
absolutely right.
That's absolutely right.

871
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,480
He talks about Liz Trust was his
boss for a bit.

872
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,200
He said she was the most
incompetent boss he has ever

873
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,680
had.
Couldn't believe that she was in

874
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,120
charge of just this small thing
and she ended up being Prime

875
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,040
Minister.
He was like, and and again, I

876
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,520
try and fight the fight and he
does as well.

877
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,000
Certain say, like some people
are, they're in it for the right

878
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,000
reasons, but some people aren't
and those people do better and

879
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,840
those people just cut.
Because they just play the.

880
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,000
Game.
They just play the game.

881
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,360
That's all that matters.
To them, that is it.

882
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,880
And I was like, wow, like it
really lifts the lid on it.

883
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,440
And honestly, you finished that
again and you're like, there is

884
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,200
no hope.
There is no hope.

885
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,760
The wrong people will prosper in
this system and that's not going

886
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,280
to change.
And.

887
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,040
What a good book to read I.
Know it was.

888
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,200
It was really interesting.
Yeah.

889
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,639
What about you?
Did you read any?

890
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,159
Well, I don't know.
I don't know how.

891
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,320
This is something where I don't
know if I want to say this.

892
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,960
I've not read a book for me as
an adult in 2024.

893
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,639
I've not read one.
I've not read a single book.

894
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,440
I've read a few kids.
Books week left.

895
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:24,080
Woke teacher admits not reading.
How can they be for our next

896
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,239
generation?
I can't even bloody read a book.

897
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,000
The weak won't.
Lefty beta male can't even read

898
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,880
beta male.
Is that I can't read?

899
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,560
Yeah, that's it.
I just haven't read a book.

900
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,360
Maybe we can talk about it
because I feel a bit.

901
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,960
Married said that I'm jokes
aside, yeah, yeah, I'm glad you

902
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,639
said that because that would be
who you're listening.

903
00:34:38,639 --> 00:34:40,040
I go.
I also don't I.

904
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,600
Just don't read.
I just don't read.

905
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,320
Why?
Like I do enjoy the odd kids

906
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,040
book, but but with the intention
of yes, because I'm going to

907
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,800
read it to my class.
It's got like a function.

908
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,400
I don't just sort of read it
does that.

909
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,159
Change at all when you read like
the boy in the tower, do you

910
00:34:51,159 --> 00:34:53,560
think, oh, this?
A little bit a little bit like I

911
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,800
I did, I did then start looking
on Kindle.

912
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,120
I was like, oh, other books are
recommended that are quite

913
00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,280
similar.
I might start reading one.

914
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,680
I did open one.
I read like the first chapter

915
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,640
and I do intend on maybe getting
around to it, but I just kind of

916
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:05,520
haven't.
Why then?

917
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,560
Why?
Because as as a teacher, how do

918
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,960
you stand in front of your class
and inspire your kids to read?

919
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,400
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, genuine question, I know.

920
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,560
When you struggle to do it
yourself, do do you struggle

921
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,200
with that?
I struggle with that massively.

922
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,160
Yeah, I really do, because I've
never enjoyed reading for

923
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,880
personal pleasure.
So what about when someone says

924
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,920
like the, this is the classic
buzzword.

925
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,800
I, you know, I, I like reading
some books, but I don't like

926
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,960
this when people are like, oh,
reading for enjoyment and they

927
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,840
kind of just say it and it's
like, well, I can't force

928
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:32,800
someone to enjoy.
Yeah.

929
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,880
Yeah, I was that kid.
I absolutely hated reading.

930
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,080
I I got good at it when I was a
kid.

931
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,440
I got good enough like to, to
be, you know, to do what I

932
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,640
needed to do a comprehension
test.

933
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,600
Yeah, do a convention test and
pass it.

934
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,920
But do you know what?
I'm going to break it down a

935
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,680
little bit.
I love reading with the kids.

936
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,440
I'm not just saying I'm not
pretending to like find a thing.

937
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,400
I absolutely, it's like one of
my favourite things.

938
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:55,600
You just.
Said you don't like reading, so

939
00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:58,160
I know.
I know I love reading with the

940
00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:59,880
kids so much.
I don't know what it is, but

941
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,840
that is like, it's not even the
same thing to me.

942
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,240
That is me entertaining children
with some with someone else's

943
00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:06,840
words.
It's like watching a video, but

944
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,680
me sat at home with spare time.
I never, ever, ever think I'm

945
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,320
just going to read a book.
And I try to appear to my with

946
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,360
my life where I've been like,
come on, you need to get into

947
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,560
reading like it's an adult
thing.

948
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,120
Grow up and you're a.
Teacher, you know the

949
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,400
importance.
I know the importance of reading

950
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,840
like I know it's a good thing to
do, it's relaxing and all the

951
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,280
perks of reading.
But why?

952
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,520
Why do so?
Why do we get the kids to read?

953
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,280
Why are we so obsessed with the
kids reading?

954
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,680
It's because when they're older,
they need to function in society

955
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,480
to read.
To enjoy reading, sure, but also

956
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,400
to understand stuff.
For example, when I'm reading,

957
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,080
I'm understanding the insurance
and outs then of the healthcare

958
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,280
system, of the political system,
and that's helping widen my

959
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,960
understanding of something and
grow in that kind of area.

960
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,080
When you were in school and you
were learning how to read and

961
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:53,040
and reading books and stuff,
when you got older, did you, did

962
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,640
you ever, ever in your life
enjoy it at all or was it always

963
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:01,720
a means to an end?
Fiction always a means to an

964
00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:04,160
end.
So you would read it because you

965
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,880
had to.
Yeah, honestly, I don't think

966
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:10,240
I've read a fiction book in my
in my entire life for for

967
00:37:10,240 --> 00:37:12,200
pleasure.
But you enjoy films you enjoy.

968
00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:14,600
Yeah, I love other media.
I love, I love, you know, I love

969
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,120
watching videos, but I but you
know, I've read a few non

970
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,920
fiction books over the years
because I've enjoyed like

971
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,760
learning something from them.
In the same way I'll enjoy

972
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,360
watching YouTube.
I'll I'll watch a 30 minute

973
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,960
YouTube video about some random
thing that I've never that I'll

974
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,240
learn about this thing.
But oh, that's how that's how

975
00:37:28,240 --> 00:37:30,040
pens are made in a factory.
Brilliant.

976
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,640
Glad I know that now, you know,
for some reason, but when it

977
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,560
comes to fishing, yeah, I just
don't enjoy it unless there's a

978
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,360
mean to an end, unless it's, oh,
I can read this to my kids now.

979
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,120
Like, I thoroughly enjoyed the
Boy in the Tower.

980
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,080
I I, I sat there reading for
hours on end because I really

981
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,640
enjoyed it.
And I thought, oh, that's great.

982
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,760
I'll never do that again.
Though for some reason, I don't

983
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,640
know, there's a little block.
I actually after reading that, I

984
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,760
was like, come on, I've always
wanted to read the Silmarillium

985
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:50,880
because I love Lord of the
Rings.

986
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,480
I love that whole fantasy like.
Isn't that a children?

987
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,960
'S book The Silmarillium, yeah.
Younger, I know, I know, the

988
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,880
further back you go children's
book become.

989
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,360
Yeah, it's written like it's
horrible.

990
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,240
It's heavy read.
Yeah, like I read the like maybe

991
00:38:05,240 --> 00:38:08,280
like 30-40 pages of it and I
thought, and I just kind of got

992
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:08,960
bored.
I just got to know.

993
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,200
I thought I'd, you know what I'd
rather do?

994
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,440
I'd rather go on YouTube and
watch an hour video that

995
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,360
summarises this whole book in a
visual way.

996
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,800
And I've always been like that.
I've always someone's like that,

997
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,320
you know that book you've read
The Wild Robot.

998
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:19,720
Yeah.
To me, I'm like, there's a film

999
00:38:19,720 --> 00:38:21,360
of it, OK, I'll watch that
because I'll, you know what?

1000
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,000
I'll get the same information,
same metaphor.

1001
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,320
I understand everything from
that book.

1002
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,560
I'll get it from that film.
But there is something, there is

1003
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,800
something to be said because I
still, I always have that gut

1004
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,280
instinct when I see those two
things.

1005
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,880
My gut instinct still today is
always, oh, I'll read that

1006
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,360
first.
For example, Game of Thrones.

1007
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,800
Yeah, I saw the first season
that come out and I saw it was

1008
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,720
getting amazing reviews.
And I was like, no, OK, I need

1009
00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:40,880
to not watch it before I've read
all the books.

1010
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,200
And then I read all the books
and then I watched it.

1011
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:44,800
And the same with the Wild
Robot.

1012
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,520
I saw there's a book, the Wild
Robot, there's a, there's a show

1013
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,880
and it's getting films right.
And it's getting really rave

1014
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,040
reviews.
My gut instinct is always, oh,

1015
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,680
I, I need to read it first
because there's just certain

1016
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,160
stuff you don't get from a film
and, and a film is an adaptation

1017
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,320
of a book and you're kind of
skipping a step there.

1018
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:06,160
I, I, I, I read it and I can
guarantee if I watch the film,

1019
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,800
it'll be completely different to
this whole world that I've

1020
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,120
imagined in my head.
And I have ownership over that

1021
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,560
world almost like I, I can, I, I
know what that robot's home

1022
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,720
looked like that they built.
I know what Mr Beaver looks like

1023
00:39:16,720 --> 00:39:18,240
who helped them.
And he's got this character in

1024
00:39:18,240 --> 00:39:20,600
my head.
And, and that will be morphed as

1025
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,040
soon as I see the film.
And for me, the enjoyment of

1026
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,480
reading is the imagination.
Do you do you struggle with the

1027
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:30,760
imagination or is it literally
just the mechanics of reading

1028
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,400
just bore you?
I think it's not the imagination

1029
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:34,760
at all.
I think I'm quite an imaginative

1030
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,840
amazing.
I mean, I don't understand why

1031
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:37,840
you don't like, I know that's
what I mean.

1032
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,640
I've always been very creative.
I really do like I love getting

1033
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,840
I love getting lost in my
imagination, inventing all sorts

1034
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,080
of worlds.
Like I literally right now I'm

1035
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,960
trying to write like a kids TV
series from a friend of mine

1036
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,480
just for fun, because I love it,
love getting lost in this and

1037
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,280
and that could even maybe become
a book.

1038
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,440
And it sounds so ironic, like
hypocritical rather me saying

1039
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,960
like, Oh, I could maybe write a
kids book about this idea that

1040
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,280
I've got and having not not
reading for pleasure myself.

1041
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,400
I don't know.
I don't, I think I've always had

1042
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,240
a brain block.
I don't really understand it.

1043
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,640
All I know is that there is like
a, it's a very one, there's one

1044
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,200
mindset on reading.
And I do feel like I'm totally

1045
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,200
out of the grain with that.
Like when I did teach training,

1046
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,760
I remember so vividly being sat
there in the hall of like 200

1047
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,360
people and they were saying
like, they look OK, put your

1048
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,720
hands up.
If you've read more than 10

1049
00:40:20,720 --> 00:40:23,200
books this year, every single
hand except mine went up.

1050
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,200
And I was like.
I mean, there's a lot of social

1051
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:26,720
pressure, probably.
I bet a lot of them.

1052
00:40:26,720 --> 00:40:28,720
Haven't maybe, but I bet a lot
of them had as well.

1053
00:40:28,720 --> 00:40:31,680
And then they were saying like
OK you're basically said like

1054
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,160
they didn't actually say his
words but they hinted at it.

1055
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,160
You're not going to be a very
good primary school teacher

1056
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,680
unless you have read like 50
kids books at least.

1057
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,040
And I was thinking, I'm never
going to read 50 kids books.

1058
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,040
I mean, I probably ironically
have over 10 years now, I have

1059
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,680
actually ironically read loads
of books with the kids and loads

1060
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,880
of things for lessons and like,
you know, snippets of books,

1061
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,160
chapters, but all sorts of
things.

1062
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,840
But never, never.
Just my own pleasure.

1063
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,920
But I do think the framing of
that is awful in terms of I

1064
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,280
don't like it when someone's
like you won't be a good teacher

1065
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,120
if and something that's just
like almost optional, like of

1066
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:05,480
course you can be a good teach
without it.

1067
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,800
However, I would I would flip it
and say if you're well read, you

1068
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,520
will.
You will be a better teacher.

1069
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,400
In English you'll be more
natural.

1070
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,800
You'll be, yeah, you'll have
more stuff to draw from when

1071
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,520
you're modelling writing.
Of course you're going to be

1072
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,360
better at doing that.
If you've read 50 books where

1073
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,680
writing of of like description
is like, if you're trying to get

1074
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,200
a description out and put it out
of your head, it's going to be

1075
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,960
formulaic, robotic, like me.
That's how I feel when I do it

1076
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,360
sometimes.
If you've read 15 kids books

1077
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,320
that year, for example, I, I
could honestly at this point,

1078
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,320
OK, I'm going to, I'm going to
describe these animals now, OK,

1079
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:38,520
I'm going to describe this
Bieber.

1080
00:41:38,720 --> 00:41:40,200
I'm keeping a Mr Bieber from the
show.

1081
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,360
I, I now, because of this,
because I've read that book and

1082
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:44,840
I've built that picture in my
mind.

1083
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,480
I've got that hook.
Not only am I, is my is my

1084
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,800
description going to be better?
But I can also take from the

1085
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,320
book itself and remember these
quotes of that, how it described

1086
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,800
the waves crashing against the
side and outside of the Cliff

1087
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:58,120
and how the robot clinging onto
the side and as the as the storm

1088
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,960
like raged on.
I've got these hooks now and I

1089
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,120
think what it helps me to
realise is if I'm a teacher and

1090
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,760
I and I see the benefit of that,
I now understand the benefit of

1091
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,400
it with the children because the
children are 1/4 of my age,

1092
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,800
don't have anywhere near the
life experience as I do.

1093
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,120
And I'm sat there going okay
guys, can you invent this

1094
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,200
creature and describe it,
please?

1095
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,560
Yeah, yeah, yeah, what on earth?
Of course it's gonna.

1096
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,640
Be and I completely agree.
Like I don't I don't.

1097
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,000
I actually think the best
teaching I ever do in English is

1098
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,840
when we look at a book or a
chunk of extractive text and we

1099
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,600
go, how did the author describe
that?

1100
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,560
Should we copy it, guys?
Yeah, yeah.

1101
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:34,960
Cool, cool.
Let's try and let's try and

1102
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,280
write like that author.
And you do that 15 times to

1103
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:38,640
different authors.
And then you go, oh, by the way

1104
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,800
goes you're you've got loads of
ways of writing now.

1105
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,640
Now, can you zoom in an
independent bit of writing about

1106
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:43,960
this thing?
Like, I think that's the best

1107
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,000
way of teaching writing.
I don't, I'm not going to

1108
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:47,960
pretend that's not.
But just, you know, it all boils

1109
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,960
back down to though.
But for some reason I just don't

1110
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,560
personally sat at home.
I just don't enjoy picking up a

1111
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:55,280
book and reading it.
What?

1112
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:59,240
Would you say to a teacher who
said, guys, I just don't enjoy

1113
00:42:59,240 --> 00:43:02,200
learning all this maths, why
should I have to learn how to do

1114
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:03,760
these fractions so well?
I don't care.

1115
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,520
I'd like listen, OK, I'll do it.
When it comes to it, when it

1116
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,600
comes to the maths, they're
saying, OK, I'll learn how to do

1117
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,880
it and I'll teach them it quick.
But I don't care about the links

1118
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,360
and stuff between all these
mathematical concepts and I

1119
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,840
don't care about the year free
curriculum.

1120
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,120
I don't care.
I don't know what they've

1121
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,040
learned beforehand.
Look, I'm just going to teach

1122
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,160
them to round.
I don't care.

1123
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,800
I don't care about counting
intents as maths, these we'd be

1124
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,080
like, oh, but you kind of have
to.

1125
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:24,680
Yeah, I just don't think that's
a comparison.

1126
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:25,440
Why?
I don't think it's a good

1127
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,200
comparison because I think all
of those things that you said

1128
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,320
there, if you translated that to
English, I think I'd do all

1129
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,640
those things.
In in what way?

1130
00:43:31,720 --> 00:43:33,800
It's like, I don't think any of
those things are related to

1131
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,680
going home and then like picking
up a maths book and learning.

1132
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,680
About but I I think.
Something unrelated like adults

1133
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,840
books, right?
But but we we're also agreeing

1134
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,720
that the way you should teach
English is different to how you

1135
00:43:42,720 --> 00:43:45,160
should teach maths.
So you should teach maths in a

1136
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,680
way where you have these links
and stuff and you have this

1137
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,320
broad understanding of the
curriculum in the same way you

1138
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:51,760
should teach English.
And if you have these these

1139
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,760
links between different authors
and this Broadway of

1140
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,200
understanding how to describe
something, Yeah, I think you get

1141
00:43:56,200 --> 00:44:00,520
that from putting the, you know,
the the exposure to different

1142
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:01,280
authors and.
Different.

1143
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:01,960
Yeah, it's true.
I think I'm.

1144
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,200
Saying you're better.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1145
00:44:03,240 --> 00:44:04,720
I agree.
I'm a better teacher now because

1146
00:44:04,720 --> 00:44:06,880
over 10 years I have actually
now read tonnes of children's

1147
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,840
books.
I do think that does make me

1148
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,920
better, but I.
Just think it's OK to say you're

1149
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,320
a better teacher if you do
something.

1150
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,760
Likely to be.
I don't even want to say better.

1151
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:14,720
I think you're likely to be
better.

1152
00:44:14,720 --> 00:44:16,560
I reckon there are some teachers
that have read five times as

1153
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,640
many books as me who still I
reckon I might teach English

1154
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,560
better than.
Them sure, sure, OK, it's all

1155
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,160
probabilities and stuff.
But I think I'm OK in saying

1156
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,960
that like I don't like saying
you.

1157
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,520
This is basically what what what
you've just said is what I'm

1158
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,720
about to say.
You will be better if you want

1159
00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:34,120
to be a good teacher, unless I
think that's stupid.

1160
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:37,400
I think that's not helpful, but
I think it's OK to say that if

1161
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,880
you're well read, you will.
You will likely be a better

1162
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,600
English teacher.
Yeah, I think that's fine.

1163
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,640
Yeah.
That's that's a completely

1164
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:44,840
acceptable statement in my
opinion.

1165
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:45,600
Yeah.
Interesting.

1166
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:46,280
Yeah.
I'm glad.

1167
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,240
I'm glad you brought that
because I think I don't

1168
00:44:48,240 --> 00:44:50,160
necessarily love reading.
And I think you're just

1169
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:52,840
honestly, out of 10, I'm
probably a three.

1170
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,040
You're probably a one.
Yeah.

1171
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,920
So we're both really low on that
scale.

1172
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,160
But do you know when we had that
training recently and the person

1173
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,680
came in to teach us basically
talking about writing in English

1174
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,280
and from a text and how to be
inspired by a text to help with

1175
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,920
your writing and stuff.
The reason I was blown away is

1176
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:12,720
the sheer ability of that person
to hear an objective in English

1177
00:45:12,720 --> 00:45:15,480
and understand something and go,
oh, OK, I think this, this and

1178
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:16,840
this book would really be good
for that.

1179
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,040
Because in halfway through,
halfway through that book, this

1180
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,600
person really explores tension.
And halfway through that and

1181
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,080
halfway through this book, we've
got 2 characters really

1182
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,880
disagreeing on something.
And that conversation might be

1183
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,080
something your children can come
from.

1184
00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:30,360
And I was like, wow, you're
unbelievable because you and I

1185
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,120
don't expect every teacher to be
able to do that.

1186
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:36,600
But what that highlighted for me
was how being well read and is

1187
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,280
massively.
Better she was maximising that

1188
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,200
probability of the statement
that we're saying this teacher

1189
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,400
because she's read every book
ever for kids and and has also

1190
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,720
is also impassionate and
interested in them.

1191
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,960
Max like honestly is a better
English teacher than I could

1192
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,640
ever be.
Yes, yes, yes, yes.

1193
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,080
It is as simple as that.
But I think what I'm saying is

1194
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,960
what that's told me is there's a
big gap between me and her, and

1195
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,040
I can fill that gap through
reading.

1196
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:01,880
When am I going to have the time
to read all these books?

1197
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,440
That's a completely different
conversation.

1198
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:04,640
I understand.
I'm not saying.

1199
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,640
But there is a tangible link
between reading more and being

1200
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,120
more likely to be good at
teaching English.

1201
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:10,280
Absolutely, right?
Absolutely.

1202
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,560
Let's move on to.
Just last thing before we do, I

1203
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,680
think, just want to finish by
saying I think English, I really

1204
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,720
have come to this conclusion
over the years, is so much

1205
00:46:18,720 --> 00:46:21,080
harder to teach than any other
subject that I almost don't

1206
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,360
think it, that it has.
It's justified being on the same

1207
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,560
level as, oh, we have this
subject, this subject and this

1208
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,480
subject, yeah, we've got maths,
we've got geography, we've got

1209
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,200
English.
I'm like, no, no, no, you can't

1210
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,880
even call it something.
English is so much more complex

1211
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,240
and hard to be good at teaching
than those other things.

1212
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,880
Like totally different level.
You could break it down.

1213
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:41,000
You've got maths, we've got
we've got geography and we've

1214
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:45,040
got writing and we've got
reading and we've got spell

1215
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:49,280
phonics and we've got spelling
and we've got GPS, right?

1216
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,240
It's just, it's yeah, you're
absolutely right.

1217
00:46:51,240 --> 00:46:53,840
Yeah, It's seven things in one.
It's ridiculously hard, right?

1218
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:57,360
Continuing best of 2024, best
podcast moment.

1219
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,520
I'm gonna jump straight in
because I know what it is for

1220
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:00,960
me.
It was getting on a call with

1221
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,160
Alistair Campbell.
Oh my gosh, I loved it.

1222
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,560
I love chatting with him.
His his job is to talk politics,

1223
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,480
talk, you know, current affairs.
He's literally the Co host of

1224
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,560
the number one podcast in the
country.

1225
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,400
It was like I finally got the Co
host I wanted.

1226
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,520
It was it was amazing.
I finally got someone.

1227
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,040
That was the joke, wasn't it?
I wasn't there.

1228
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,760
I was on a school trip this one
time.

1229
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,200
Yeah, I mean, I love that chat.
And he's so knowledgeable that

1230
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,160
you could talk about anything
and he'd be like, yeah, this,

1231
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,160
this and this.
I just loved it.

1232
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,920
I was just in my element.
Yeah.

1233
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,480
Go back and listen episode
something that's.

1234
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,120
Going to be a well prepared
Aiden.

1235
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,480
Yeah, Alistair Campbell would
have known exactly which episode

1236
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:37,640
it was.
He would, he would have.

1237
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,600
I'm just not on his level of I
don't read enough titles.

1238
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,920
I don't read enough titles to
podcast my favourite podcast

1239
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,120
moment.
I mean, it's a bit of cop out

1240
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:48,600
really, but it is just an
amalgamation of moments over the

1241
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,440
year of seeing people
interacting with us, commenting,

1242
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,280
getting in touch with us
specifically, I guess about when

1243
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,200
we talk about the, quote,
controversial topics, the stuff

1244
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,960
where we feel like, yeah, we are
saying what needs to be said

1245
00:47:59,960 --> 00:48:01,720
about like, you know, when
people and sometimes people call

1246
00:48:01,720 --> 00:48:02,680
us out and say we don't agree
with you.

1247
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,320
But when we're talking about
teacher martyrs and we're

1248
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,320
saying, hey, actually you're the
problem to some people.

1249
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,960
And it's like, oh, well, you
know, you're going against your

1250
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,400
own kind.
So yeah, do you know what's

1251
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,040
teachers?
Some of you are the problem,

1252
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:15,720
some of you are and we're
calling out teacher martyrdom is

1253
00:48:15,720 --> 00:48:18,000
not helping the profession.
And when people then comment and

1254
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:22,080
and message us and be like,
thank you so much, like I need

1255
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,400
it.
I thought I was alone.

1256
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,560
I needed to hear that someone
else is going through this In my

1257
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:28,240
school, everyone's a teacher
martyr and I feel like I'm just

1258
00:48:28,240 --> 00:48:30,320
rubbish at this job.
And actually it's quite

1259
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,160
refreshing to hear that this is
not the case and there's loads

1260
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,680
of people around the country.
Maybe I need to move schools.

1261
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,000
Maybe my school is toxic when we
talk about those things where if

1262
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,680
you were caught in the star from
talking about it, you actually

1263
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,200
might get in trouble.
You might be nervous about it

1264
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,960
because you work in a toxic
school and we're just sat here

1265
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:44,160
talking about it because because
we can.

1266
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:48,040
People interacting with that and
feeling justified in the way

1267
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,520
they feel make just makes me
feel good.

1268
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,600
But it makes me want to keep
doing this and it makes me want

1269
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,800
to keep talking about stuff
where I'm like, is it a risk to

1270
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,760
talk about it for us personally?
Maybe don't care though because

1271
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,400
it's helping loads, loads of
teachers helping loads.

1272
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,760
Other people like, not think
that they're terrible at this

1273
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,160
job because they work in a
rubbish school, because.

1274
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,200
They decided to put their child
to bed instead of go to a dish.

1275
00:49:07,240 --> 00:49:08,560
Yeah, yeah, like that.
Yeah, exactly.

1276
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,520
You know, we talk about Ryan up
Dylan and I'll do it again

1277
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,240
later.
We just, we just, we'll just we

1278
00:49:12,240 --> 00:49:15,320
see every week teachers in toxic
situations where they genuinely

1279
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:16,880
don't know, like if they're
right or wrong.

1280
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,960
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah, all the people interacting

1281
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:20,160
with us.
That's that's my favourite

1282
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,800
moments.
I guess I added on to that is

1283
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:27,440
when, when people message to say
their life has actively changed

1284
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,600
or improved because of something
they listened on our podcast.

1285
00:49:31,240 --> 00:49:33,200
I can't get my head around it.
The one that always sticks to me

1286
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,800
is the, the, the mum who
messaged us and said thank you

1287
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,680
so much.
You gave me the confidence to,

1288
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,160
to, you know, put in my part
time request.

1289
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,840
You explained that it's a right
we all have.

1290
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,040
I wouldn't have never have done
it before because I was worried

1291
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:47,680
that I would be seen as a weaker
teacher.

1292
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,960
I wanted a part time blah, blah,
blah.

1293
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:53,080
And now I get an extra day for
my kid and I, I just, Oh my God,

1294
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,080
I can't explain to you guys.
Like that was enough to make me

1295
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,880
do this podcast for another
year, honestly.

1296
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,560
Like like there's there's a
family somewhere in this country

1297
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,680
where the kids getting their mum
for an extra day a week because

1298
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,600
we sat down and said, yeah, of
course XYZ.

1299
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,200
And that's insane to me.
So thank you.

1300
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,120
Yeah, no, I love it.
So yeah, lots of bit of a cop

1301
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,120
out answer, but no, I like it,
you know, that's it.

1302
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,560
I like it anymore.
Redefining moment, last one

1303
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,640
moment again at this time,
teacher moment.

1304
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,160
So as a teacher in school, what
was your moment?

1305
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:21,720
A bit of a cop out, all of it.
No, I'm joking.

1306
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,520
I had a really nice moment
fairly recently, I guess, but it

1307
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:28,400
just made me feel warm.
It was Rivers 1st birthday in

1308
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,160
November and I'd like I didn't
maybe I mentioned it at school

1309
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,080
once or twice, but I didn't go
out of my way to be like, hey

1310
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:37,320
kids, it's my daughter's first
birthday coming up and four of

1311
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:41,160
the kids came up to me that like
the next morning after and just

1312
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,480
had all made cards for her.
And I was like, Oh my God,

1313
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:45,400
that's just so sweet.
And they'd all like really

1314
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:47,400
written really nice comments in
there.

1315
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:48,960
And I was just like that.
This is just those little

1316
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,280
moments there.
I don't know.

1317
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,480
It's just something about it
isn't there.

1318
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:53,600
It's nothing to do with
learning.

1319
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,000
It never is.
If I think about it, those

1320
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,240
moments, it's very rarely
actually where I'm like, oh,

1321
00:50:58,240 --> 00:51:01,680
yeah, they just totally nailed
semicolons, totally nailed it.

1322
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,200
I don't really care.
Like it's great.

1323
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,520
But it's those moments.
They they went out of their way

1324
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:07,480
because we've got such a nice
relationship to be like, oh,

1325
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,520
let's go do this thing for Mrs
Stevens for his git because

1326
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,520
he'll love that and it's nice.
So that was my that that jumps

1327
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:13,760
to mind when I think of top
moments.

1328
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,840
Did you did you say to them my
child can't read?

1329
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:19,080
He's a pointless.
I said oh thank you, I'll file

1330
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:22,560
these straight in the bin.
No, I took them home and they

1331
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,360
sat downstairs.
Somewhere beautiful somewhere.

1332
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:25,000
Yeah.
What about you?

1333
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,360
Favourite.
Do you have a favourite teacher

1334
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,200
moment?
Obviously the same in terms of

1335
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,120
it's nothing to do with
educational attainment

1336
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:35,320
whatsoever.
So teacher moment, mine was end

1337
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,760
of year, end of year.
So it like June, July of 2024, I

1338
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,440
got a card on my desk.
I didn't see this child, but I

1339
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:43,880
got a card on my desk.
For my daughter's first

1340
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,600
birthday.
No at all.

1341
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,560
And I opened it and I said, oh,
that this would be nice from a

1342
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,800
child.
And it was from a child who was

1343
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,600
leaving the school, so was in
year 6, who I hadn't taught

1344
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,920
since they were in year 3, so 3
years ago.

1345
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,120
Saying thank you so much.
You, you're my favourite

1346
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,760
teacher.
You made me really calm because

1347
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,280
we're a Junior School.
So year three, it was the first

1348
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:06,880
year that came.
She was a bit anxious about it,

1349
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:10,640
a bit worried first man teacher,
first boy teacher, but basically

1350
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:12,640
just saying thank you, had a
gift in it and stuff.

1351
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,480
And just seeing that I've
written note and the fact that

1352
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,600
she'd gone out of her way to
say, oh, can we get a card for

1353
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,360
Mr. Price, please?
I was a year three.

1354
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,600
I was a year 4 teacher who
taught her in year 3.

1355
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:24,680
And she was leaving year 6.
Like it was so easy for and I

1356
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,040
would never expect anything.
And I wouldn't say it as a

1357
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,000
slight if they didn't do
anything.

1358
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,160
I was like, yeah, you're
thinking of your, your next,

1359
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,320
whatever.
That was so, so nice.

1360
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:37,400
And then we saw her and her dad
at the recent Carol concert.

1361
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,840
And the dad made the point of
coming up and talking and saw

1362
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:43,520
her catching up.
She's near 7 now.

1363
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,720
And we had a whole conversation.
And when it finished, the dad

1364
00:52:46,720 --> 00:52:49,560
just said, turn around and said
to this girl, so you happy now

1365
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:51,480
that we've seen the teachers you
wanted to see?

1366
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:52,760
And she was like, yeah, yeah,
that's fine.

1367
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,360
And she's like, Oh my God, she,
she still just wanted to have

1368
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,520
that connection.
I was like, that's why we teach.

1369
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,200
That's the best thing about
teaching, building those bonds

1370
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:01,960
and love it.
So impacting someone's life

1371
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:03,760
potentially forever.
She'll probably remember you

1372
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:05,240
forever, genuinely.
Like I still remember my

1373
00:53:05,240 --> 00:53:06,840
favourite teacher and you, I'm
sure you do as well.

1374
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:08,640
And that is nice.
It's very nice.

1375
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,120
Lovely, I love that.
Well, thanks.

1376
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:11,800
I enjoyed our little best of
2024.

1377
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,240
I would make it better if we now
did some goals for 2025,

1378
00:53:15,240 --> 00:53:19,360
wouldn't it?
Right, 2025, it's around the

1379
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,640
corner.
We put together three goals that

1380
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,640
we want to keep to First one is
to do with like our job as

1381
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:25,400
teachers.
Yep.

1382
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,400
Second one to do with the
children, because obviously

1383
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:28,840
that's the most important thing
to do with our job.

1384
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,400
And the last one's going to be
like a personal goal.

1385
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,920
So let's start with the actual
functioning of our job.

1386
00:53:35,240 --> 00:53:37,080
What's your goal for 2025?
My goal?

1387
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,640
No more than one hour work at
the weekend, OK each week.

1388
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,040
Yeah, good.
How are you going to control

1389
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,600
that if you just have three
hours of work you just gonna not

1390
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:46,920
do?
It just not do it genuinely.

1391
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:48,960
Yeah, honestly, I'll think about
it ahead, be a bit more

1392
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:50,560
organised maybe to think about
it in the week.

1393
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,400
I'm not gonna.
I'm not gonna leave myself 3

1394
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,440
hours of work this weekend.
So you'd rather do more work in

1395
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:55,800
the week so.
Yeah, do it in the week and you

1396
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,000
know what?
And if I can spread it out, that

1397
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,200
make you know, if I do 2 hours
one weekend, I gotta do 0 the

1398
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:00,080
next one.
They can average out.

1399
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:01,320
OK, OK, cool.
Nice one.

1400
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:02,520
That's my goal though.
Brilliant.

1401
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,680
My 1:00 on that is quite similar
actually mine is to.

1402
00:54:05,240 --> 00:54:09,400
I really want to get more long
term organised in terms of

1403
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:12,080
organising my free time better
because you've spoken about

1404
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,680
before, you kind of don't plan
anything for the time.

1405
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,520
It's like, well, I might have
some planning that weekend or

1406
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:18,760
gosh, don't, I don't know, pick
a weekend away because I might

1407
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,680
have this popping up.
Get more organised long term so

1408
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,280
I don't get trapped at a weekend
where actually I've actually got

1409
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:25,840
no work, but I didn't know I'd
have no work.

1410
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:27,400
So you have to book nothing,
book nothing and I've got

1411
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:28,560
nothing to.
Do the next week and you've got

1412
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,000
8 hours of stuff to do.
Exactly that.

1413
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:31,640
So I want to be like no ahead of
time.

1414
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:32,960
Well, I've got this, this and
this to do.

1415
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,160
Spread it out a little bit.
Don't leave it till the last

1416
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,840
minute, or at least just know
when I'm going to do it so that

1417
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:40,040
I can actually enjoy my free
time.

1418
00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:41,800
Yeah, I love that.
Yeah, that sounds great.

1419
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,600
I think they're quite similar.
We can We can hold each other

1420
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,240
accountable for.
Those next one is more to do

1421
00:54:46,240 --> 00:54:48,280
with like you know, day-to-day
working with the children.

1422
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,440
What's your goal?
It sounds a bit wishy washy, but

1423
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:54,120
just hear me out.
Make the children leave school

1424
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:55,880
with a smile every every single
day.

1425
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:57,120
OK.
And.

1426
00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:58,960
You're loving.
It isn't it.

1427
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:00,360
I'm laughing because I'm going
to say mine straight up.

1428
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,240
Go on.
Strive for happiness with the

1429
00:55:03,240 --> 00:55:06,000
children just as much as I
strive for their attainment.

1430
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:09,320
It's just, it's funny because
that is right.

1431
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:10,960
Yeah.
Honestly, if I think about the

1432
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,520
kids, I don't care.
The academic staff when nailing

1433
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,560
it, Yeah, like they're getting a
good education.

1434
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,440
I don't care anymore about it,
but they're doing fine.

1435
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,280
Like they get so much school.
What I want them to do is be

1436
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,760
happy.
Yeah, seriously.

1437
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,480
And, and you know what, I can
I'll think of something every

1438
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:28,360
day on reserve time if it takes
3 minutes to give them a Riddle

1439
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,760
for the end of the day because
it's funny and it gets them

1440
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,640
thinking and they go out and
say, oh man, I just got this

1441
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:33,960
Riddle for you, man.
I got this Riddle for you

1442
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:34,960
because Miss Stevens just did
it.

1443
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,280
I want, I want that.
I don't want to go out being

1444
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,040
like, Oh yeah, I just had to.
We were stressing because we had

1445
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:40,760
to get our bags at the last
possible second because we had

1446
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,280
to finish writing this thing in
our books.

1447
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,000
Like no, I don't want them to
leave like that.

1448
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,880
It's like the wild robot.
I'm going to read it to my

1449
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,840
class.
Even if we read 1 chapter a day,

1450
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:49,400
there's no excuse.
Yeah, it's like two or three

1451
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:50,200
pages.
We won't.

1452
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:51,920
Obviously we'll read it much
bigger than that, but

1453
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:53,440
absolutely.
Finished geography lesson on

1454
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,800
latitude a little bit earlier.
I guess so.

1455
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,840
We teach that lesson 58 * a
year, apparently, according to

1456
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,080
this podcast and rounding in
math, that's all we teach.

1457
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,440
It's.
My 48 hour of teaching latitude

1458
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,960
budget relations.
Okay, last one, something a bit

1459
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,360
more personal than last goal
2025, what you got?

1460
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,000
Just book some fun things for
school holidays similar to your

1461
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,480
first one.
I get to the school holidays and

1462
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,800
and realise that I should have
booked something for it a month

1463
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,680
ago because it's too late in the
holiday to do it.

1464
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,840
Don't, don't, just don't.
Just like slob out.

1465
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,520
Yeah, basically it's actually
book ahead.

1466
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,120
So I'm going to really try at
least two of the school

1467
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:26,360
holidays.
I want to try and book something

1468
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,320
nice for us to do as a family or
whatever.

1469
00:56:28,720 --> 00:56:30,400
So that's my my little personal
goal.

1470
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,000
Me, me, you and our children.
Just me and you.

1471
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:34,280
Just me, you.
Just me and you.

1472
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,680
My 1 is I I really I?
I'm kind of worried.

1473
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:43,640
I think we spoke about this
increase my personal activity

1474
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,800
levels because, my gosh, when I
was younger and you heard people

1475
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,240
say when you get into your 30s
and you have a kid, it's so easy

1476
00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:52,800
just to become stagnant.
I was like, no, I do that.

1477
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,840
We always playing football and
let's go play a bit.

1478
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,120
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Guys, honestly, it's a trap.

1479
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,720
You get to 30 and I could go a
week without my heart rate

1480
00:57:01,720 --> 00:57:05,160
getting above 75 beats per
minute and it's it's objectively

1481
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,760
awful.
I just want to increase.

1482
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,080
I'm not even going to put a
number on it.

1483
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:09,760
I just want to increase my
activity levels.

1484
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,800
Even if like we spoke with
Charlie recently, the teachers

1485
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,760
health coach, even if I just
instead of jumping in the car to

1486
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,760
go to Tesco, which is a 2 minute
drive, I take the 10 minute

1487
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,480
walk.
Honestly, just just do move a

1488
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:23,760
bit more.
Yeah, definitely.

1489
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:25,240
That's my goal.
That's a great goal.

1490
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,400
That's something I'm also
working on.

1491
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,520
I didn't use it as my thing
because I want to do something

1492
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,720
else, but I'm very much on the
same mindset.

1493
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,880
Because it's not being funny.
You move less than me and I'm

1494
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:35,920
worried about it.
So you.

1495
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:37,320
Must be devastated I move less
than a snail.

1496
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:42,280
Do you know that that Riddle
like you can get like a billion

1497
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,320
pounds bit of a snail touches
you yeah yeah, just replace

1498
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,200
snail of Hayden, you know a
billion pounds but if.

1499
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,400
Hayden touches you'll definitely
win.

1500
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:49,760
Give me a billion.
Give me a billion.

1501
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,120
Unless you're in this office,
you're winning.

1502
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:54,200
Oh, this podcast studio.
Sorry, not.

1503
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,040
Yeah, sorry, yeah, podcast,
right, Not tied to the bedroom.

1504
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:57,000
Didn't.
We're running out of time.

1505
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:58,160
OK, OK, we're getting to an hour
now.

1506
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,600
I'm going to finish up with just
one thing I've seen on the

1507
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,800
Internet to try and roll you up,
or at least get you thinking.

1508
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:07,240
How's that sound?
All right, so I saw I saw this

1509
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,200
and I thought it's very
interesting dynamic here and I'd

1510
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,640
love to see you in this
situation because I think it'd

1511
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,040
be interesting to see you react.
So someone said their head

1512
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,080
teacher, their office is in the
staff room.

1513
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,320
A bit odd, but whatever their
office, the headteachers office

1514
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,320
in the staff room and they've
and they've always got the door

1515
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:22,440
open.
So they're always just kind of

1516
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,040
in the staff room there
listening.

1517
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,800
And I often listen to staff
conversations during break

1518
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,480
times, during lunch times, like
kind of purposely listening in

1519
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:34,200
and then pull staff up some
things that comments that

1520
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,040
they've heard over things like
things they've ever heard.

1521
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,760
Pull them up, embarrass staff,
you know, in staff meetings,

1522
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,920
catch and say, I heard you
saying this the other day.

1523
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,120
Just basically just a wigging on
staff conversations in in the

1524
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,080
staff room.
I don't know how to feel.

1525
00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:48,080
I don't know how to feel about
it.

1526
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:53,720
How do you feel about that?
I think teachers need, I think

1527
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:58,120
any workplace, you need to be
able to talk to your colleagues

1528
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,040
about something that you
wouldn't want your boss to hear.

1529
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:01,960
I don't think that means you're
bad.

1530
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,280
I don't think that means that.
I don't even think that work

1531
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,080
means the workplace is awful.
No matter what you do, you've

1532
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:08,400
got to be realistic.
Vent.

1533
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:10,360
There's going to be time to vent
exactly that.

1534
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:12,360
Like no matter what, people
could be doing the best job in

1535
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:13,920
the world and you could still
want to vent about them.

1536
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:15,480
You know, it could still be
annoying.

1537
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,680
The head could have made a
fantastic decision for the

1538
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:20,200
overall, you know, outcomes of
the school, which is well within

1539
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,200
directed time and doesn't put
too much on the staff.

1540
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,880
And the staff will will always
still find a way to complain

1541
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:26,400
about something.
That's human nature.

1542
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:30,440
It's completely normal.
I think it's just an awful

1543
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,360
precedent set.
I, I think if you're doing that

1544
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:37,560
actively and putting people up
about it afterwards, you're not

1545
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,400
providing staff with that safe
space to talk about stuff and,

1546
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,560
and you're actively making
people feel like they're

1547
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,680
treading on egg shells, just
existing in that, in that

1548
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:46,360
workspace.
Like what you're actually trying

1549
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,240
to get out of it.
Are you trying to, you're not

1550
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:50,440
going to change someone's mind
on what they think about

1551
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,480
something by forcing them to not
say out loud.

1552
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,640
So this only thing that's going
to do is build resentment and

1553
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,640
worry.
So what what I would say today

1554
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,920
is if you're in a building where
your office has to be for

1555
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,920
whatever reason.
In the staff room and you can

1556
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,040
hear what staff are saying
either at break time and

1557
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,040
lunchtime.
Don't sit in your office, go and

1558
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:09,600
find something else to do.
Go on duty for a bit or

1559
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,200
something.
Just get out of there and let

1560
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:13,520
the staff have the moment or
close the door.

1561
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:15,960
Or do you know what?
Even if you are there and

1562
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:20,000
listen, completely ignore it.
Let them vent and never ever use

1563
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,800
it against them.
Do you know what let let them

1564
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,400
say stuff, let them be annoyed.
It's completely normal.

1565
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,800
And do you know what a a really
good leader would hear?

1566
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,640
And 80% of the time they might
say, I'm just going to ignore

1567
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,200
that they're just moaning.
Yeah, whatever.

1568
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,000
Or 20% of the time they might
go.

1569
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:36,400
That's a really good point
actually.

1570
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:38,680
OK, I'm going to think.
I'm glad I've heard that

1571
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:40,640
perspective.
But I'm not going to pull

1572
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,360
someone up and call them out for
something you said in the staff

1573
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:45,360
room when you feel like you're
in a safe space.

1574
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:46,880
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It depends what you're saying.

1575
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:49,160
Because I think there's certain
things I've heard staff and

1576
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:52,280
people say before where I'm just
like, that's probably a bit too

1577
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:53,880
far.
You're being a bit personal.

1578
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:55,600
I've been a bit rude at this
moment in time.

1579
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,760
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
If it's just like, oh God, have

1580
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:00,400
you seen the new marketing
policy?

1581
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,440
Like I, I spent two hours
yesterday.

1582
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:04,040
It's just ridiculous and it
doesn't help the kids.

1583
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,440
It's ridiculous.
That should not be pulled up on.

1584
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,680
No, if you're if you're a
professional saying something's

1585
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,560
introduced that's increased my
workload and I don't see an

1586
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,360
impact on the children, that's
your professional opinion and

1587
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:17,240
should not be, you know,
belittled or made to feel like

1588
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,200
you're you're stupid for.
Especially when you're like you

1589
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:20,960
said, you're saying it.
And what is your safe space

1590
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:22,520
where you don't feel like you
have to be professional?

1591
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:25,120
So just take it to your mate.
Yeah, start from yeah, yeah.

1592
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,920
It's not what isn't it?
The most liked response was

1593
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:29,960
don't say things that you're
going to get pulled up on in

1594
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:31,360
front of your head then.
Yeah.

1595
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,320
I mean, I mean, but I think
this, I'm trying to get a

1596
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,120
balance here.
I think that's, that's a good

1597
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,480
point though.
Like if you're in your staff

1598
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:40,440
room and you know, your head
teachers there, just have a bit

1599
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,520
of common sense, like go to your
room with this, you know, if you

1600
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,400
have an event which everyone
needs to have.

1601
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,040
Yeah, you're not an idiot.
Yeah.

1602
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,040
It's 5050, isn't it?
Because it's like equally the

1603
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,120
staff room is like the common
safe space.

1604
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:53,240
So why is the head teacher in
there?

1605
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,480
It's both parties could probably
do something.

1606
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,040
There, the head can walk into
the staff room.

1607
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,960
I don't mean there's a single
like workplace in the country

1608
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,040
where the boss doesn't walk in
on an awkward conversation

1609
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,240
everyone starts.
Here's a good example of our

1610
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:09,840
head knowing that staffing a
safe space and actively just

1611
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:11,520
being like, I'm just going to
let them have a safe space when

1612
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:14,320
I'm not there to impact it.
Every time we do it like a

1613
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:17,600
Christmas do or any kind of
staff do, our head teacher

1614
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:20,480
always actively shows his face
for a bit and then leaves

1615
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,360
quickly and has literally told
me before it's like, yeah,

1616
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,480
because no one wants the head
teacher, They just want to moan

1617
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,880
and vent out of school.
So I'm going to go home and I'm

1618
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,840
like, I like that he know.
He know he's a human being.

1619
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:31,720
You know, if people are going to
want to have a bit of a van and

1620
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:33,960
chat with their mates and catch
up and not have the head

1621
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,600
teacher, their boss just
breathing down the neck like,

1622
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:36,400
oh, what do you think about
this?

1623
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:37,880
Oh, it's all great, actually.
Thank you.

1624
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,360
I'm really enjoying this meal.
Thanks for being here.

1625
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:41,760
Like, I just think that's really
cool.

1626
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,160
It's quite easy to understand,
isn't it?

1627
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:45,720
And just be like, yeah,
obviously people like to defend.

1628
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:49,320
I think for that you just
there's certain things you say

1629
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:50,760
that round me up and really
annoy me.

1630
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,120
Yeah, that, that I'm just like,
really.

1631
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:56,440
Like, do we really need a forum
to tell you what to do in that

1632
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,600
situation?
Like that's just, yeah, that is

1633
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,000
just like, that's just working
as an adult in a workplace.

1634
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,560
Common sense and also head
teacher maybe maybe shut your

1635
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:04,640
door.
Yeah, that's what I.

1636
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,280
Mean maybe just give you stuff
bit of privacy.

1637
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:07,360
Yeah.
Or just leave the room.

1638
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,400
Do you mean let them have their
20 minutes?

1639
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,360
Yeah, yeah.
Completely cool, didn't write

1640
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,240
you up very well this week.
I'll try a bit harder.

1641
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:16,240
Next time I'm gonna give that a
three out of 10 for Ryla. 2 out

1642
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:17,480
of 10.
Actually, I didn't really get

1643
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:18,520
wild at all, did I?
No, you didn't.

1644
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:19,440
Two out of.
Ten you didn't.

1645
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:20,560
Maybe you're just so chilled
from.

1646
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:22,200
Christmas do better.
Tired.

1647
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:22,920
Maybe.
Tired.

1648
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,880
OK, a new Golf 2025 is annoyed
Dylan a bit more on this

1649
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:28,640
podcast.
Right, guys, we're gonna wrap

1650
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,640
that one up.
That was the last episode of

1651
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:33,280
2024, Hayden.
We are really quickly

1652
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,560
approaching 100 episodes.
I can't believe it.

1653
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:36,040
It's.
Insane.

1654
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:37,440
It's insane.
We're gonna be triple digits

1655
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:39,640
soon, Yeah.
Make sure you follow us on

1656
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:40,840
Instagram.
I guess that's the only thing we

1657
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:41,880
can say, yeah.
Yeah, we still need some

1658
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:42,960
followers.
You know what we need to make

1659
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,960
sure is our reviews always stay
above the number of episodes

1660
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:48,360
that we've got.
So on Spotify, on Apple podcast,

1661
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,640
wherever you're at, if you leave
us a review, we would really,

1662
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,720
really appreciate it.
Send us a message on Instagram

1663
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:56,120
at TTP podcast, Get in touch.
We want to hear you Hayden's

1664
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:59,400
moment, singular of the year.
What moments of you guys getting

1665
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:00,840
in touch?
Which is really weird because he

1666
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,600
never actually looks at the
messages himself.

1667
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:03,880
He just waits for me to tell him
about it.

1668
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:06,080
That's why it's a great moment.
I only get the highlights.

1669
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,120
You just get one moment when I
send all of them at once.

1670
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:10,320
Guys, thank you so much for
listening.

1671
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,520
Hope you have an amazing new
year and we'll see you in 2025.

1672
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:14,680
In the new year.
Bye, guys.